Is It Time For Women To Make The First Move?
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My older sister is really good at getting a man’s attention to get him to approach her. I tried it and it’s really works. I think it’s okay for women to approach men.
What did she do?
Spread the word to all your friends, I am married but my 21 yr old son needs a date.
Can she get them to commit to her? Strong difference.
@ nope she can’t
Feminine women still want a masculine man who leads… which is why we don’t approach, we attract.
I like it. Eye contact is good. Saying hi is great. What’s even better is if a woman approaches and gives a compliment.
YES that is clear
Fun fact: My girlfriend actually initiated our relationship. I barely did anything, she did all the work. I’m going to take her out sometime and treat her like the queen she is. So yes ladies, do make the first move. We love it
Who paid for the dates? Who spent more on gifts?
Guard your wallet
You are the definition of a simp. The first woman who shows you some interest and you dive in head first. Good luck.
Interesting fact: So in the Musnad of imam Ahmad (narration number 21618, and its chain (isnaad) is good, so it’s trustworthy), it can be found that Zayd bin Thabit learned Hebrew in 15 days and it can be found in that narration that he reached proficiency. For one to reach proficiency, one needs to know at least 16000 words. This narration indicates that time was slow in the time of the prophet Muhammad.
Note: The same Zayd bin Thabit (companion of the prophet Muhammad) learned Syriac in 17 days (source: Musnad of imam Ahmad, number of the narration is 21587, and it’s trustworthy). Also, the same Zayd bin Thabit learned Persian in 18 days (source: in the book Al-Bidayah wa-n-Nihayah at year 45 in the book, by Ibn Kathir). Also, the prophet Muhammad predicted that time would go fast (source: Musnad of imam Ahmad, narration 10560, and its chain (isnaad) is trustworthy).
What exactly did she do? 🤔
A vague glance doesn’t count as making the first move.
It kind of is as it gives the guy a clear green light to make a move. Love it.
It definitely can be.
@ Not if it’s too subtle to pick up on.
yes it is. she’s a woman, she knows how women are.
@ If he glances at her, is he making the first move?
Dated a barista whose way of unambiguously saying she liked me was bringing the drinks to the table I and the young relatives I was looking after were at, winking at me while laying a napkin with her number right next to my drink.
What made it memorable, and a LITTLE embarrassing, was my then 6 year old niece going up to her and giving her the standard “you hurt him, I’ll hurt you” speech.
A Miss Average has a better chance of receiving a good response from a top-tier man than a top-tier man does of getting a good response from a Miss Average.
Well said.
SO so true !!!
Nice! Women often think that they are giving clear signs of interest when men think that they are just being social. More clarity from women can be SO HELPFUL. Guys have trouble seeing the green lights.
The worst thing he can say is ‘no’ and he probably won’t.
Even if he wanted to. Society and/or law would kind to him of he acted out.
“The worst thing society will allow him to say No”
I once read that if she makes the first move she’s like 70% successful. On the guys side even top tier chads are only 15% successful on cold approaches. chad lite guys success rate is an atrocious 5%. Average guys are under 1%. This is a massive disparity
No, men are ALWAYS flattered, at the least, when a woman comes up to them. It’s never creepy to us, even if we aren’t interested
Another tip to go along with this: don’t post about it on Tik Tok. Red flag. You’re showing guys you will blab about your private relationship and life for views. No guy will feel safe because they would feel the risk of being exposed online, whether positively or especially negatively. Enjoy the meet-cutes and move on. We want to feel comfortable with you, not wondering whether any and all decisions we make with you will be exposed online for everyone to judge.
Perhaps that’s a video topic for another day: women exposing their private relationships for views, whether it’s using their channels to spread good ideas and hope like this creator did, or the vitriol that we’re so used to nowadays and its effects on men’s dating approach, which is much more cautious and cynical.
This is sound advice. The validation from the man saying yes wasn’t enough. We are simple creatures but we’re not stupid, we see everything too. We are wired to protect and that includes our private lives.
100% if a girl said Hi to me in public after eye contact, I am at least saying hi back if I think they are cute. Would have helped so much when I was younger 🤣
not only will guys not be creeped out if a woman approaches them it will be a core memory that he will remember for ever
Well this is subtle first move.
But if a woman directly tries to ask You out, saying You cute and whatnot.
Safe to ask her where’s the camera?
Lmao
@@arty_lerry7730 lol anytime a girl makes it TOO easy, i get suspect. makes me think shes throwing herself at me just to rob me and call the cops later
I think that she wasn‘t actually engaging him first, because he was the one to start the conversation with her. BUT she signaled him her interest and gave him the green light, and that is what we need for cold approaches. And this goes both ways for men and women. Very refreshing to see. 😊
But if you’re getting signals, isn’t it a warm approach?
If I’m nice and polite to people my wife thinks I’m flirting. Now I know why. This also means that if a woman is not interested in you she will not be nice and polite. Hence the reason why men don’t approach women anymore.
Back when I was single over 25 years ago I had a woman do something like saying hi from across the room. I approached her and found out she wasn’t interested at all, she was just out going. She was kind and polite in her refusal of my approach unlike a lot of women today who trash men for taking the chance. Stories from my single friends just make me roll my eyes.
Honestly, I think women need to just go out and ask, cuz many guys might actively ignore signals that aren’t blatant in order to minimize the risk of being called a creep. We are way past mouthing, long pauses or held gazes.
Ladies… Just. Ask. Him. Out.
PREACH BRO!👍👍
As a dude. If a chick shows No interest, I immediately assume ‘She’s Not Interested’ period! And walk away.
…like 99% of the rest of us
I’m the same way. I don’t pursue anything with a woman unless I’m highly confident she’s interested. Its too risky to be wrong in today’s dating environment.
Same, only focusing on women who want me. Way less of a headache.
Same here
Yup I don’t slide in DMs unless you live super far in another state if you see me publicly I don’t speak unless spoken too I don’t care how good you look STAY IN FRAME AT ALL TIMES MEN 🤝🏾🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆
My wife, though she would debate this, made the first move in dating in our relationship. She asked me out ona date. I loved it, as it was the first time I had ever been asked that. We have been married for almost 22 years now.
Pretty much same happened to me. And many times when a gal would approach me, I would’ve gone along with it had I not been in a committed relationship already. And I didn’t reject these ladies in a horrible way or anything, I just let them know along the conversation that oh yeah, my girlfrend this or my wife that… so they got the clue and they didn’t have to feel embarrassed or rejected out right.
You are so lucky dude!
Great story. So are you happy ? Really Happy ?
The amount of anxiety she felt in just making the decision to look & smile at a man that she likes is crazy. Women really don’t appreciate how easy they have it in dating.
Exactly 💯 women have no idea at all.
WOMEN ARE AFRAID TO APPROACH MEN BECAUSE THEY ARE AFRAID MEN WILL DO TO THEM THE SAME EVILS WOMEN DO TO MEN .
WOMEN HAVE THE NERVE TO SAY MEN DON’T HAVE CONFIDENCE APPROACHING WOMEN WOMEN’S HYPOCRISY!!!
I DON’T CARE IF A WOMAN IS POOR, AVERAGE, RICH OR IS SHORTER, SAME SIZE, TALLER THAN ME.
TRY FINDING A WOMAN LIKE THAT WHO WILL TREAT A MAN THE SAME WAY .
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Even a silent “hi” wouldn’t be enough for a lot of men.
True. I got burned on that many times
That’s not making the first move, that’s giving a guy the green light to make the first move, which the bare minimum if women want to get approached given how much men have been vilanised for making a move that was unwaranted