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Totally cheers! 🍻
Garbage…
Nobody cares
That’s why I went into politics ambition without action is what we do
Nice
This mindset has reduced partnership and marriage to a never-ending artificial game of “being and staying attractive”. A receipe for disaster, no matter how you navigate.
Work hard with purpose. Have goals and surpass them. This attracts a younger attractive woman to want to be with you. When you retire, she knows she can now get half of everything you own together. Also, half of the annuities, and investments you have earned and provided. She also knows you are older and since being married for ten years she will also get half of your social security. She will file and bonus you get to pay for her lawyer and yours. Ask for a prenup to see if they truly love you for you!
Important things: 1:16 First Thing ÷ Women Respect Consistency Over Big Talks; 2:25 Second Thing ÷ Excuses Kill Attraction; 4:50 Third Thing ÷ Comfort Zones Are A Trap; 5:57 Fourth Thing ÷ Disciple Is More Attractive Than Motivation; 8:03 Fifth Thing ÷ Actions Define You, Not Your Intentions; and 10:11 to summarize all the told here.
What you have told there Courtney, these things can be applied in every life situations, for men and women.
Actions and deeds are the real things that will tell how is someone showing commitment to many things.
The ambitions and doing goals can be done like this. We can do it like doing tasks in either PC games or video games. When I said that, I don’t mean on playing rude and rough games (for example: Hot – Cold games or as I would call them Yes – No Games). I meant like this: In these games, you have to go to some jobs (to go to get at one person one thing, talking with some other people about other things, etc.). Once you achieve these daily things that you have planned, you are going to next level. And you do these tasks until you reach goal or goals. I did say it as a psychological aspect, since I love watching about psychology things, cause they are very useful in every life situations, either we work on job, we communicate with family, or with friends.
When I was listening to you Courtney, I have remembered one quote that goes like this: “No one is too busy. You’re just not their priority.”
Crazy how “ambition” really just means ceaseless material desire. Useful for coercing productivity from someone, not really for personal satisfaction.
I’m ambitious about living a good life as a good person and I’m not going to use my time and effort and invite stress into my life to make more money, buy a newer car or bigger house, or look like a male model just to please someone else. That’s not where confidence and self-esteem comes from. We need to change our definition of “success”. Men have a need to be productive and have a purpose but there’s a limit. It’s not about an endless drive for money, looks, and status and missing out on what’s really important in life. Who I am and the way I live is very attractive to some women and weeds out the ones who can’t be taken seriously as a mate.
Courtney, I hate to say it because I think you mean well, but this exposes that you only value men for what they can do and be for women, despite your disclaimer at the end of the video. Men are in a terrible sympathy and empathy deficit because we’re been told we’re trash for so long, nothing we do is good enough, we’re the cause of every problem, and we should step aside for women. It’s not because some young guys are “lazy”. They’re damaged. Your “tough love” just sounds like more of the same.
@@jcharles8801 Right. If we don’t “measure up” to a woman’s standards then we as men we are useless.
That’s not what ambition means, even in this video… Going to the gym and working on your skincare are more about health than material gain, for example.
@@Bagley2014 Let’s be honest, that’s about looks. You can be fit and healthy without “going to the gym” and the skin care thing is more about her sponsor. None of that has anything to do with developing attractive inner qualities. It’s all superficial stuff.
@@Bagley2014 The gym is about vanity, not health.
Why be ambitious? Or at least in the way discussed here.
General improvement is always a good thing, it seems to me, but the idea of “ambition” always seems to me to represent the worst aspects of the rat race. Climbing the ladder. You’re never happy where u are. U see this everywhere. The ambitious ones never stop to smell the roses, or in their quest for “more”, as she says here, they live in misery.
Perhaps a reframe needs to happen. Be ambitious about being balanced, content, a good person, etc.
Facts, well put.
General improvement is always a good thing, it seems to me, but
[I would offer: the world shown to us is increasingly for Specialists — turning to
a desperate soulless dominance competition among sociopaths — grinding
away at the Generalists who will cover the mundane or essential Specialist
Elites don’t want to do]
. . . idea of “ambition” always . . . the worst aspects of the rat race. [Indeed.]
. . . Climbing the ladder. You’re never happy where u are. [It seems Herr Schwab
and Peers are actually committed to pulling down or at least shortening the
ladder _substantially._ The future dictated to most isn’t likely to indulge the
self-ownership Mrs. Ryan’s encouraging. We’ll be told that we’re Happy.]
U see this everywhere. The ambitious ones never stop to smell the roses,
[and the remarkably ambitious have employees growing and tending their
roses anyway?]
. . . or in their quest for “more”, as she says here, they live in misery.
[Perhaps the _acceleration_ and _amplification_ of Ambition is the devil’s
work of the addicted? There’s a growing religiosity of Apex Succeeders
warning the rest of us Keep Up or Be Culled which, in a world allegedly
“abundant” for the basic needs of all and improved daily via technology,
doesn’t actually feel Natural.]
Yes. I come to the same conclusion. You can have nice life just with wanting less and appreciating simple things. You don’t need to have a lot of money to be happy. Just enough to live and put aside for the future.
This makes Richard Cooper’s words valid women are at the finish line.. Women flash a red flag on men who put a lot of effort in a purpose but it does not go any where.. Thats what I got from the video
Constantly chasing being “better” and “more productive” is such a trap, I want to be content and happy with my life. I don’t care if you see “potential” for me to be what you want, I’m doing what I want.
Sounds like you prefer life as a female. Transgenderism might be better suited for you.
All good, as long as you don’t have a problem with me and others wanting more and don’t get in the way. I’m not saying you in particular, but many people who are content with minimal and less somehow get in the way of those wanting more and working for more. If I’m busy working, I don’t need you to get in my way and make everything about you.
I bought a couple Tuktek kayaks and paddle them around whenever I get the chance. They fold up to the size of a suitcase and are easy to take anywhere. It’s relaxing and good exercise.
@@alwaysemployed656 When it comes to the people I surround myself with, I prefer someone who can be content and relaxed over someone who is never content and is always striving for more, more, more. To each their own. I have no interest in standing in anyone’s way, I just have no interest in that kind of person. They add nothing to my life.
@@meds888ful Idk where you got that from, are you projecting?
This video finally helps me. The message (pretty much) is: Forget about women, and go find a better place to spend your time, and energy. 😂
I’ve been working on myself for over 10 years and now it’s hard for me to find any woman who’ve committed the same energy into themselves. They want a man who is handsome, has grit, is consistent, shows fortitude, is patient, intelligent, and most importantly keeps his word! When in reality most woman do even practice any of those things themselves.
When a woman is attracted to your “ambition”, it’s all about HER ambitions for what you should be. If you don’t live up to her idea of what you should be achieving within her timeline, based on her fantasies, she’s not going to be happy with you and will eventually feel contempt for you and will likely be looking for a better pot of gold. Whereas, if you’re with a woman who genuinely likes who you are and loves your inner qualities, that’s a good woman who will love you and stay by your side as long as you do the same for her. This video has nothing to do with any of that.
@@Andrew-h4q3e because in their minds they can just rely on their looks and hangout at the finish line.
I’ve found that too. I have not found anyone who wants to work together or be there for me. I have found a lot of women that feel entitled to the things men provided. Relationships should be an equal distribution of support. 50/50 ideally but sometimes you aren’t feeling well and one partner puts in extra support because they want to. In my experience, a lot of women treat it like it should be 90/10 all the time. I recognize that not all women are like this, but I’ve encountered this enough to say it’s a problem. Our standards aren’t even that high. We know we have to work 40 or more hours per week. We know that we pay for what we are financially responsible for. We just ask for respect, support, and appreciation in return. I have never personally received that from a female partner outside of the honeymoon phase. In fact, they not only did that, they tried to take away my individuality too as I had no time or money for my hobbies like exercising, reading, and car shows.
Wow, more gaslighting from Courtney. Non-ambitious and lazy bad boys get women all the time. Don’t believe dating is merit based. If that were true, the most moral men would get the hottest girls. Life doesn’t work like that.
Women want what they don’t have. Aloof uncaring men are attractive to women. Simps are not attractive.
Found the virgin here. Courtney isnot talking about getting laid 1 day. This is about serious relationships so maybe grow up then come kid. LMFAO. Women get sick about men at some point and thats the reason.
But you still think getting laid is the goal lol. You can hire prostitute, this isn’t the topic here kiddo
They get s3x from women right away while they make the guys that do all of the “right” things wait because they’re “relationship” or “marriage material”…AKA ripe to taken advantage of 🤣🤣🤣
When the reward is harder work than the motivation and the followthrough. Women are not worth working on yourself this much for.
My father worked a regular 9-5 that paid a living wage and he took care of his family. That was enough. Now men need a powerpoint presentation explaining how they will build an empire and if it fails then you’re not worthy of a woman’s love or respect. Sad.
Chase your purpose , the right woman will follow along .
I find women constantly judging me very unnatractive
Every single move you make she’s scrutinizing it, wondering if there’s another guy she could replace you with that could do it better.
Thank you once again for proving that Men are only loved on what they can provide, not on who they are
When a man works hard and follows through, they should never settle for a woman that has slept with more than 5 men. If you go through the struggle of bettering yourself, never settle for swamp women.
My comfort zone is ambitious, except when it comes to asking women out.
It’s hilariously pathetic that as women age, they expect men to become “ambitious” (wealthy of course duh) Ladies, as cruel as this may sound, much of your value is tied to your youth. No man worth his salt 🧂 who spent years perhaps acquiring massive wealth is gonna chase after women who are past a certain age. That’s just a biological reality