Men Who Do THIS Succeed At Dating (It’s Not What You Think)
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She’s back to gaslight us. Remember gentlemen, nothing she says is valid due to one issue. Attraction. She’s attracted to him, so everything he does is great.
Sure thing
@ notice Courtney has replied to all the other comments posted the same time as mine but never speaks on what I say. Because her advice is basically “if you are attractive talk to women and they will like you”. If you are short she has nothing to offer.
Yeah… That’s the point, even if it’s only in the subtext for CRyan
Go on a million 1st dates until you find someone YOU actually like who actually likes YOU
That’s why 1st dates exist
If you go on a million 1st dates and NO ONE has ANY attraction to you, then you have an AWFUL personality that no one wants to be around
(Or you’re only willing to go on dates with women who give you “unavailable” or “unattainable” vibes)
Exactly! She has repeatedly told “Us” NOT to pedestalize women, yet this is exactly what she is now telling us to do. Treat her special, put in some thought, and effort, etc. But as the OP said, If she’s not attracted to you, doing all, or any of that won’t mean a thing. However if she IS a attracted to you, you could be Charles Manson, or Ted Bundy, and she not only wouldn’t care what you do (until it’s too late), or she would laugh it off as an endearing quirk.
If she’s attracted to you, you could treat her like crap, and you would still “Go to Disneyland.”
@ oh I pull women. Thats not the issue. Women have even left relationships for flings with me. But at my height most women like me, for my personality. But the prospect of settling down with me, long term just isn’t in the cards. At least before I left the states. My fiance is a beautiful educated woman from PH. She comes from a wealthy family we met due to my non profit work. She saw how hard I worked, and how much I give. She told me that’s what turned her on about me, my character. I don’t even have to get a fiance visa. She’s flown to me more than I’ve flown to her, because her family is rich. Character and integrity are still what she wanted. And she’s pageant girl pretty. W/ no makeup. Get your money up guys, and go where you are celebrated. I’ve been all over th United States. The height thing is a major issue here. So you gotta go where you are seen as valuable.
Every single time I’ve sent flowers or shown high interest everything has gone to hell at a surprising speed. Don’t believe in this anymore
Exactly my experience. Flowers rarely work. Even effort like Courtney said hasn’t worked in my experience. I go thoughtful and they go along for the ride and do zilch in return.
lol. a man playing victim after he chooses the same woman over again his whole entire life, and never takes accountability. so predictable. of course u turn into an incel
I bought someone flowers once. Bought a nice glass vase for it too. Less than 2 weeks later she dropped me out of nowhere without warning over the phone. World so cold.
Have you tried showing her your plane?
Lol as soon as I bought her flowers on the fourth date I got ghosted a few days later. Was going great before then!
This is one of CR’s worst takes. Take away the money, dinners, flights.
Your gaslighting has no power here NPC.
But then you won’t be “putting in the effort” lol.
If that’s your takeaway then you clearly weren’t listening
“He gave me flowers, double booked dinner reservations, taking me on a private plane…” She didn’t mention a single thing that she has done for him.
That wasn’t the point of her video? Lol
So spot on!
She also doesn’t mention a single thing she likes about him as a person. She only lists what he has that gives him status and what he has done for her. If he has any sense, he’ll test her by pulling back on the princess treatment and see how that goes. I’m guessing not well.
@@CourtneyRyan No. That’s exactly the point. He treats her like princess for nothing. I’d like you to collab for a while not with random girls, but with Rollo Tomassi or Michael Sartain. THAT would be pretty gold.
Bro, your comment literally screams “I’m insecure and selfish” It baffles me how men like you can’t see you’re the problem not the woman.
I’d like to see the same dating strategy without the money and pilot status in the equation
Then there would be no date. Unless he’s a Chad then that stuff doesn’t matter.
REAL TALK
There’s a video of a black gentlemen brough chick fil-a and wine and set up a picnic for a girl. She got mad and said, “is this it?” that’s what you’ll get lol he did the exact same thing without the plane or money being spent.
@ exactly . He’s demonstrated excess wealth with indiscriminate waste and she’s assessed that that as financial security. He’s made a mistake by doing this too early on.
think like the game
pilot job increase your chance 50%
“I’ve kissed a million frogs” 🚩🚩 lol
1k body count
@@Gaborik560never heard of a metaphor, NPC?
She belongs to the streets!
@ Wtf do you think kissing a million frogs means?? Is your IQ that low?
Aka high body count
All I got from this was, she’s highly attracted to him, he has money, she’s been ran through by “many frogs” he simps for her and treats her like a princess, and didn’t say a word about something she’s done for him.
And on top of all that she’s a TikTok creator!
Gentlemen, this woman is a major red flag, stop believing the double speak and nonsense.
total spot on about the simping and run through, + I bet he’s tall and good looking. (edit: and I forgot that she probably fucks the Chad or two in the meantime…)
The women always tell on themselves. They make a comment about how many bad dates they have been on and I’m just thinking, you know you just admitted to going through a bunch of men right? She is confessing to being a 304, straight up “I’ve been through many bad dates/men”. Do they not realize what they are admitting to? This one is for fun use only.
Who makes a second reservation in case their date gets cold? That’s psychopathic behavior.
What he said!
jesus who hurt you? haha
Today on Beverly Hills dating fairytales. Sorry but this TikTok is a horrible example.
“The prince is really treating me like a princess so ….” Am I the only one who finds this uncomfortable? The only women I’ve treated like princesses are my daughters and even then by teenage years I had shifted more to requiring more responsibility out of them. Yes he’s being very considerate but also being fairly controlling and not expecting much in the way of reciprocity.
NO no no no noooo Curtney, with respect… there are plenty of guys who do this and plenty of who are capable of doing this. Behavior like this from guys these days is a total waste of time and effort. THAT girl is going to totally walk over this man, I can bet every dollar I have!
What this guy said. Success in the dating game is entirely centered on the woman.
If the “influencer” only wants to date rich men: She will leave. If he no longer has money.
So, it’s just easier if the man looks for a different girl to date.
And she is happy because she liked the guy from the beginning, physically must be her type, trying to do that without the precise looks, its a waste of time, and if she liked you you dont need the hole fancy plane to end up with her.
@@eksbocks9438 don’t be cheap. Men should always pay.
I don’t know if I agree with this. IMO – they were getting to the 4th date regardless of the flowers, coffee, backup reservation, etc.
They were just nice things that made it a little better and made the guy standout.
Poor guy is digging his own grave
Correct.
You dont start with the airplane unless ya got something on the burner that beats the airplane
@@slartibartfast2452 men should pay everything don’t be cheap
Not really. The guy knew exactly what he was doing. “I don’t date for fun. I date to marry.” The guy is playing her and she’s eating it up
Women need to make an effort too. Men get tired of putting themselves out there only to get one sided conversations and lack of effort from the women
Of course women should put in effort too and be appreciative!
@@CourtneyRyan”bE aPpReCiAtiVe”
@@CourtneyRyanhopefully one day more women will start to realize that the reason they can’t get a good man is because the good men are tired of not being respected and valued
@@CourtneyRyan Didn’t get this from the girl’s testimony. We’ve heard ad nauseam what women want from a man. We still hear very little how women reciprocate. Oh wait, I know. They take us to court and clean us out.
Repugnant, that man put thousands of dollars in 4 dates and you think thats good?@@CourtneyRyan
Wo. Mixed messaging here. “You do not need to go out to a four-course fancy meal to go on a good date with a woman…and if you have to…to go on a good date with a woman, perhaps she’s not the woman for you.” This girl had a restaurant, a back-up restaurant, a $100 flower bouquet, a coffee delivered to her house and a ride in a private plane. GUESS WHAT’S MISSING? I never heard one word about the guy. Not one freaking word. What’s he like? Tall, short, his nature, interests? Zero information on that. Courtney. WAKE UP. What is this guy like? I don’t know. We all do know what he can OFFER. Think about this. She’s up for the highest bidder. And you praised this.
100%
yeah, so many missed details here
Never ask a fish how to catch it. Ask the fisherman.
I used to like her videos several years ago and now everything she uploads is just borderline garbage
@@dubbedconfusedpretty sure Courtney’s husband is rich
Courtney, we all know she would never be interested in him if it wasn’t for his status and lifestyle he can provide her lol
Remember men are success objects and women are sex objects. The fact she is attracted to his lifestyle is simple and natural. My issue is that what is something she can provide him which would be as rare as what he’s providing her?
So he’s a rich dude with a plane lol
Assuming her story is true which it very likely isnt, the very first thing she did was calling men “the male species” lmao. This just feels like ragebait in all levels.
Good catch! This new guy is a more evolved form: monetarious maximus instead of the old maleus frogly.
“He’s not just throwing money at the date”
4th date : flying a plane
And if it doesn’t last she’ll want the next guy to have a yacht lol
@@BrianWaller-qe7gr don’t be cheap pay everything
I used to be the guy in this story. I learned the lesson I was never warned about. That behavior can make the right woman happy, but it also is a dinner bell to a woman who will exploit you. Once it even made a woman so unwilling to accept that I didnt want to move forward with a relationship that she went full stalker; showing up at my home and trying to gain entry when I was asleep, death threats (implied and direct), and hateful and degrading tirades mixed in with “we can make it work”.
I enjoy your channel because I feel there is a lot of good advice and wisdom to pass on (for some reason people always ask my advice). However, every now and then there is a video like this where I dont know if this is a fluke where you are off base, or if I have just been catastrophically unfortunate that I am an outlier.
*Yelling over the airplane engine*
“HE’S NOT JUST THROWING MONEY AT THE DATE”
lmao
Likely Art the clown was hiding in that plane, and the plane went down. 😮🤡😂
The unrealistic expectations are the man setting up backup plans for when she tries to dodge him. Like he has to set up a double reservation and then uber a drink to her work. There is no way he can realistically keep up that level of effort unless he just has a lot of money, it’s just a show to keep her interested.