Women Hate When Older Guys Do These 6 Things
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6:05 Than the relationship is going to fail if is built on a “emotions” cause emotions fluctu over times
(depending on specific moment)
women like u that think u give good “advice” but if u step back for a good moment and think 🧠 of what u are saying. U realize that your advice only helps for relationship to not last…
Courtney, I had a date on Friday..hope you see this
Had a good 2 hour date where I kept it flirty but not too flirty. When I brought her back to her car and before she got off my motorcycle she said, “When are we doing this again.?” We made plans for a 2nd date, she didn’t get in her car right away, I knew she probably wanted a kiss. We hugged, she ended up kissing me and left talking about seeing each other again. I told her when I got home, she said “that’s good” then blocked me hahah. Must be nice to be a woman in dating.
I’m sorry that you had that experience. Some people are just flakey. You’ll get someone wonderful soon I’m sure 🎉
@@Sara-jd4giDefinitely.. without a doubt there’s a woman out there. I just wanted to show that no matter how positive a signal you get from someone..clearly it doesnt matter!! Haha
She wanted to spend the rest of the night with you, dummy.
@@alwaysemployed656 she had to leave. Trust me, i would have spent more time with her.
@@Sara-jd4giTheres definitely a woman out there. I just wanted to show that no matter how great the signals are.. it still doesnt matter !
“Moving too fast because you know what you want”, @4:18. What’s wrong with knowing what you want? We’re not “pre-slotting” a woman into our life, we’re simply not putting up with the games, the manipulation and the hoops to jump through. Why waste time on a woman who doesn’t want the same things you do?
If Courtney is saying that men have to abide by the woman’s timetable for progressing the relationship, as if the man has no say, then the woman will ditch the guy because he’s “not leading”. You can’t have it both ways, ladies.
Do you have any more excuses?
@JohnCarterRocks no excuses, brother. Just straight facts. And a dozen other guys agree with me. So stop acting like a white knight. Tell me where I’m “wrong”, if you can.
I don’t think thats what she is saying here. I think she is saying that you need to let nature take its course. Don’t rush a connection because you feel like you’re running out of time to find that soul mate. If its meant to be it will be is all here.
@camulusjb906 but what does “let nature take its course”, mean? The man has an equal say in the matter as well. It’s not just the woman’s decision, which was my understanding of what Courtney said.
Every time that I’ve heard that line it was both implied and understood that it was the woman who was making the “final” decision on the future of the relationship, and that’s just not acceptable to men.
Maturity is not an age. It’s a state of mind and demeanor. You can relate to younger people and still be mature. You can behave more maturely than people that are older than you.
Happy Easter Courtney, and everyone in the comments! Christ is Risen!
He is risen indeed!
He is risen indeed! Alleluia!
He has risen, indeed!
@@patrickwehr she’s not a Christian otherwise she wouldn’t have uploaded a video on Easter
Someone told you that and you chose to believe it on zero evidence. Way to go, dude! 🤦♂️
As I get older..they stay the same age 😊
Sadly money all these girls chase and won’t build a life with you and want to marry into success and money, economy is tough and young people don’t have a chance SOME young people.
Dazed an Confused. Matthew McConaughey🤣
Alright alright alright
@@NeedANameWithoutNumbers 🤣
The older I get the less I care about their opinions of me
53…I still skateboard…Ski…Rock Climb…Play Ice Hockey…Mountain Bike..Because it makes me feel young…😊😊Not to impress….
Me too plus surf 🏄♂️
59 here and still 1wheel in addition to the other stuff.. Makes me feel normal, not young—IMHO.. As soon as I hit 60 all future years my age will go backwards, and when I hit 10yo I want my crayons back.😂
@@Mark_The_Mayven Awesome
@garylagstrom3864 Right on…Always respected Surfers.
We ARE running out of time 😊
We? Who is we?
@@myronbourne6937 Everyone.
This whole idea of “it’s not a business deal or an interview. Women want to feel chemistry and connection” reeks of the whole “soulmate” idea: the idea that there’s 1 perfect person out there for you and it’ll happen and feel natural quickly if not right away. I get curbed after a date or 2 (during which I try to “just have fun and build a connection” as Courtney says) all the time by all sorts of women with the same excuse: “You’re a great guy, but I just don’t feel a natural connection.” We’ve spent a total of maybe 2-5 hours together. Of course you don’t feel a strong connection. Neither do I. That’s something that’s built over time, especially when pursuing or supporting one another in that pursuit of a shared goal. Idc how “fun” you are if believe things that are abtithetical to my beliefs and have goals opposite of mine. So maybe I want to find these things out kinda quick so I don’t waste both of our time.
I used to think much higher of Courtney’s advice, and much of it is still positive. However, the more I watch, the more the overall message I get is that it’s the man’s duty to maybe not entirely mold himself to the desires of any given woman, but to find a woman that he’ll fit the mold of while there is no expectation for the woman to try and adjust herself to what a man might want.
I’m not any follower of Andrew Wilson, so this is far from a total endorsement of who he is or what he says, but boy, does he nail it when he points out today’s dating/relationship world is all about what men have a duty to do and asks what duty do women have. The response from women, from what I’ve seen, is always silence or meaningless word vomit.
I agree dating doesn’t have to be a “business deal” but a LTR and marriage should be imo.
0:27 Mansplaining
1:12 Neglecting your health and appearance
1:55 [sponsor]
3:20 Complaining about “modern women”
4:17 Rushing the relationship
5:04 Overcompensating for your age
5:49 Treating dating like a transaction
“Treating dating like a transaction”…so we are to pretend? Relationships are transactional and it is especially clear with a bigger gap in age.
@@uup116dude, the comment above was just giving us the timestamps…
@douglas5097 I understand…but that should be deleted.
@@uup116 i 100% agree to this. not just romantic relations, but also among family, friends, co-workers, etc. at its core all relationships are transactional. the only exception is the relation between parents and their children. assuming all well and healthy, of course.
You should do a video ‘Men Hate when Girls Do These 6 Things’, because the quality could definitely be raised here. I think the “room for improvement” is much less for Older Guys, compared to the huge margin that women have to make up, in order to become quality women, for the very few successful older bachelors.
Exactly. If the woman is being treated as a child, it might be that she acts like one.
Why would she make that video? Women don’t watch this channel
@@bigz5262 It should be called 6 traits that women have that you should avoid having any type of relationship with.
I think the reason older men try to “sell themselves” on a woman is because so many women have a checklist of requirements for men, often including income, social status and other superficial criteria. If you want me to be natural and spontaneous with you, don’t ask me about those things.
Thanks for the knowledge. These are really good! 63 dating a 68 YO WONDERFUL Woman. 2 Months in and all is going really well. The only one I’ve had to make a conscious effort to make sure I don’t do is rush things or move too fast. I am enjoying the process.
Happy Easter, Courtney! 🐰🪺
Number Six. Very insightful, Courtney! Thank you!
The whole taking care of your health is facts! Working out regularly building muscle and eating foods that benefit skin, muscle growth and inflammation is key. Wish more older men knew this. Also helps mental health. I’m 42 and most men my age are slobs and love to drink and then expect to get a really attractive woman while also putting down women that are overweight. Totally lack the self awareness
To answer your conclusion to this video, I’m not dating any women older than me, my age, or younger than me and never have and probably never will.
What has worked for me: nothing
What hasn’t worked for me: everything
I’m 54. The connection thing is a big deal. I’m just being myself and getting women to talk about themselves. But I don’t do it intentionally. It’s just a natural tendency. But this is in my everyday life and I end up unwittingly making married women of all ages attracted to me. I don’t want to end up on 48 Hours. But where are the good single women? I don’t go to bars.
I’ve been watching you and taking your advice for some time now. You present info and yourself so well. I appreciate that you don’t say “umm,” “ya know,” and ” like” every other word. Big thanks!
My thing is I’m the same guy every day. I don’t even think about changing a woman to suit me. I’m clean, dress good, eat healthy food “no junk food” I’m in good shape for being 66 years old. I met a woman who is 60 years old and we get along great. I told her straight up that she’s seriously good looking and she blushed so hard that her face turned red. She’s on the slim side and dresses good. One thing is for sure she doesn’t act her age at all.