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Some of these should be more obvious than subtle.
Yet fellow men still miss them.
It’s like saying the sun should be green. Wish in one hand…
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😂🤣 *I used to get rejected about 50% of the time, we got married..*
Now it’s more like 90%
LoL. It is a thing.
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I think I just discovered I’m in the friend zone with my wife
If you’ve been married for years that can happen. Never let yourself get to comfortable in a relationship or that tends to happen
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Husbands and boyfriends get it too. I know some personally.
lol @ a married man watching this vid …oh wait nm, I saw the thumbnail too
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It is true. Every man at some point was friend zoned. The ONLY action to take is self defense, so you disconnect. You don’t get mad, you don’t get needy/pleady. You go about your way with ‘No Contact”, and move on to other women without jealousy or anger. Acceptance of the situation, recognize there is no soup there for you and find a woman who wants you.
Never accept bad or poor behaviour. Otherwise they believe its acceptable. Women are just grown children at heart, and never learn until taught. I use to be the accepting guy, and I still kind of am, but not before I deal with the problem before moving on now.
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@1:10 engages with you like a comfort blanket, not a romantic option
@2:05 polite but uninterested energy. Short surface level no committal responses
@3:05 she’s a little too comfortable around you
@4:00 never creates romantic tension, no effort to make tension or flirtation
@4:59 she talks about her love life without considering you
@6:00 parting advice: pull back energy, invest in yourself and your own interests
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Important things:
1:10 First Thing ÷ She Engages With You Like A Comfort Blanket;
2:07 Second Thing ÷ She Gives Polite But Uninterested Energy;
3:03 Third Thing ÷ She’s A Little Too Comfortable Around You;
4:03 Fourth Thing ÷ She Never Creates Romantic Tensions;
4:58 Fifth Thing ÷ She Talks About The Life Without Considering You; and
6:56 to summarize all the told here.
What you have told there, I can agree with you Courtney. My also opinion is that there is nothing wrong if the relationship starts from friendship, since you also tell your friends what is bothering you, what are your struggles, what’s good news, good things in your life, etc. Important thing is to be honest with your mate or soulmate (call it whatever you want). And when I say honest, I meant to be honest with your feelings and not to wait right moment or moments to tell them, cause the situations can be changed. More precise is this: Right moment is telling it now. And you don’t lie to yourself. In first time it can be a shocking things, but also you can tell that person this: “Of course we can still be friends.” And he or she will reply: “Okay, I’m glad that you appreciate me, and that you don’t force things.” After a while of knowing each others the person will ask the question on a playful and teasing way this question: “Are you still in love with me?; Do you still feel love between us” Meaning, that person who accepts you as a friend, will remember details, that you have told before. And that goes for men and women equally. And if the friendship is on a good level, then it can be shifted to next deeper level, the level such as relationship, and perhaps marriage.
In Balkan peninsula we say this thing: “The paths of the mighty Lord are hard to be predicted, and you never know where will they take you.”
Hey awesome message what if the girl is seeing someone? 🤔Should u still tell her u are into her? 🤔
@socloseagain4298 Thank you very much. Yes, and that you also respect her decision.
@@socloseagain4298 Definitely not. The last thing you want is to cause drama. She’ll feel conflicted, may think you’re a jealous creep, or will want to avoid you since you may have made her feel uncomfortable. Also, if you’re into her, she most likely has already picked up on it but hasn’t said anything because of a similar reason. Or she wasn’t 100% sure. Lastly, if she’s in a relationship, you shouldn’t be talking to her often. She’s supposed to put her attention and efforts into her relationship since it’s someone she may plan on spending the rest of her days with. Still be in touch but don’t intrude. I’m speaking from experience and what my female friend told me herself.
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I wish people would be more honest about stuff like this, rather than keeping guys on backup, until they eventually lose interest, then they grow to regret it, as i had to cut off my ex because of this, as we just couldn’t keep things mutual.
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There is only one sign that is a sure thing…. She sets boundaries on you but not on other men.
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Great video! … I have found myself in the friend zone of what started out as friends, then romantic partners and then by her choice – back to “just friends”. I had to make a tough decision at the time to move on and cut off all ties to her. Now, as I look back it was the best decision that I could have made for myself. Men, lets value ourselves first and foremost and don’t invest in someone who will not equally invest in you!
Thanks for sharing your story!
Happens alot to men, but not seemingly the other way around. Its beacause men have lost control and women need to learn respect and appreciation. You can do alot for a women, but she will choose to only call on you when it suits her or when she needs a shoulder to cry on. In this case, yes, give up the shoulder for her to cry on and send her packing, even if she is with Mr abuser now. The last time my old freind called on me because of her BF mistreating her, I laughed, told her she deserved it and said piss off. Cold I know, but so was she once.
@@CourtneyRyan Why can’t you simply condemn women for “using” (a word you used numerous times in the video) men. Why can’t you take a moral stand just once?
Been there, done that. Never again.
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Right now, I’m at that turning point with a woman. She’s shy, introverted, and closed off. I’ve known her for 5 years at work as a friend and in the last several weeks we got closer. Last week, during a conversation, I told her that she is beautiful when she really opened up to me. Her energy towards me has completely shifted. She avoids me, but I could tell how nervous she is, unable to keep eye contact and fidgeting her fingers. She laughed at a not so funny joke from me and then closed down when I noticed and smiled. A friend of hers told me while smiling that I’m a smooth talker. Right now, I’m showing up, no pressure, with a smile and a wave; waiting for her while doing my thing.
Please do yourself a favour and move on. You clearly have a strong infatuation for her but it’s not mutual (you know this). The more mental energy you spend thinking about her and wishing how things will be, will exhaust you and make you bitter. Look for more social exposure, joining casual sports leagues or hobby groups. Consider getting coaching that will put you on the right path.
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*If she constantly talks about other guys, treats you like her emotional support without any romantic signals, or keeps setting you up with her friends, that’s a big clue you’re in the friendzone.*
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All mine never wanted to set me up with their friends.
Keep in mind a real key thing men. There is a huge difference between being in the friend zone AND both of you coming to a conclusion that you are not the best fit for each other. Me and many women have both came to a conclusion after texting or talking it just won’t work out. We go on our separate ways and it is over.
BUT do not be the guy that is trying to win her approval when she is laughing at you behind your back. Genuine desire should be natural and easy to obtain.
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If you’re ever asking “Does she actually like me?” The answer is no. It’s always no.
@socloseagain4298 she doesn’t lol
Absolutely 😅
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Sixth Thing – She’s unfazed if she sees you expressing interest in another woman. I thought I was “friend zoned” once until she found out I had a date with another woman and rather than being happy for me, became very jealous.
That, sir is not “friend zone” but the far more insidious “backup plan zone”
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I actually had a female tell me a long time ago that I was safe and no threat. She didn’t explain what she meant by that. But after watching this, I get it now.
Back in the ’80s, I was told by several women that they ‘…felt safe around me’
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The signs are never subtle, we just choose not to recognise them because we’d rather they weren’t there, “If it isn’t hell yes, then it’s hell no”.
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If a guy finds himself in the dreaded “friend zone” unfortunately there’s little you can do to get out. Do not try harder as that will make things worse. Just withdraw from the woman and move on.
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A friendzone to a man is a consolation prize to a woman.
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Hear that guys, if you keep on being friendzoned, keep moving along and accept you’ll be alone all your life. Always nice to get a woman’s opinion on what being rejected and chronically single as a man should feel like…