Are Men (over 40) Less Confident? | Why He Might Not Commit To You
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– Are Men (over 40) Less Confident? | Why He Might Not Commit To You
Hi. Love your channel. I’m 49 and my male friends in their late 40’s are single. My theory is they can’t afford a girlfriend, or also they have been single for awhile and set in their ways.
Also I love Louise Hay!
RIP
I don’t think it’s they can’t afford I think it comes down to they don’t really know what they want they think they want a relationship then it lands on there lap and then they realise they have to put the work in and then it’s mmm but sure I want to do that can’t I just have a girlfriend etc
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All these pity parties. Be grateful for what you have NOW.
Yes definately harder to find someone when your older that want committment
Indeed it is.
I have no interest in the average guy. I was married to an extraordinary man for 4 decades lost to death. My father was a nationally renowned man in his career. So average bores me.
And btw, I am not average either.
Sorry for your loss
Question; I missed the live but What are the reasons a 45 year old divorced man only want fwb? Im 58 and could it be thats all he wants with me because of our age difference? I actually reached out to him not paying attention to his age and he asked me do i like younger men i said yes if not too young and he said he likes older women???
Question; I missed the live but What are the reasons a 45 year old divorced man only want fwb? Im 58 and could it be thats all he wants with me because of our age difference? I actually reached out to him not paying attention to his age and he asked me do i like younger men i said yes if not too young and he said he likes older women???
Yes its sinking in
If someone is going to share about how dysfunctional their ex is, that would cause me pause because they participated and accepted. HOWEVER, if the person goes on to state what they learned about themselves and express self awareness, that’s encouraging. Regardless do not share a lot with someone early on
I dated a man few weeks ago and told me that he has had 4 serious relationships in his life and he never did anything for it to end he treated them all well 😮
@@teresareid5034 Steeped in denial.
Send them this podcast.
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@@teresareid5034 I bet from his perspective he did! I would have been curious with the next question, ‘I bet you did, then why do you think the breakups happened’ and he says the silly common response ‘I don’t know’, I would ask ‘Well, what did they say?’
@@Sunlightsam24 he did say that one of the relationship ended due to the women’s older son getting in between them and coursing arguments
If someone is going to share about how dysfunctional their ex is, that would cause me pause because they participated and accepted. HOWEVER, if the person goes on to state what they learned about themselves and express self awareness, that’s encouraging. Regardless do not share a lot with someone early on
Gunshy = avoidant
What I find to be a challenge is when one wants to discuss a man’s emotions, more often than not he withdraws and goes into ‘denial’.
True.
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Plus we have judgments all the time.
Do you know per James Sexton most people remarry within 5 years of divorce?
Yes. James has great information.
14:45 With all due respect, I do not share your view that watching these videos are joining a pity party. Jonathan is sharing his perspective which many of us find interesting and informative especially for people over 40 in the dating world. You’re watching, are you not? Many of us, including myself, ARE grateful for what we have NOW. Sounds like you are your own pity party complaining about this channel and should watch another channel or create your own. I find it annoying people that criticize a channel that clearly people watch and enjoy. So don’t watch then!
Help…..Question…..local guy my age liked me yesterday. I liked back. We matched. Been doing emails consistently. I sent “any desire to speak at some point?” He wrote, “I’m pretty undecided right now, so probably not now”.
First urge to unmatch, since it appears he isn’t interested. Or should I ask a question re undecided?
Sounds like an avoidant attachment. Email is a big clue. Is he truly single?
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Jonathan, thank you for making these videos and trying to help us all understand each other. The way I see it, men wont commit, because in truth they have no reason to commit to a woman, if they are self-sufficient and can take care of themselves, then really what do they need a woman for other than sex?
Okay but the same can be said for women, no? Women, however, are obligated to watch the body count. There was one woman here once who was enjoying dating younger man, folks really threw stones…she had no desire for a committed relationship.