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Dr. Ramani is a strikingly beautiful woman 🙏
Incredibly so
Inside and out
I’ve absorbed so much negativity. I need a really good psychologist to help me surrounded by these sort of monsters in my past and currently. I really don’t feel like I have the energy to hurt anymore from them. I’ve reached my limit in putting up with anyone exhibiting these traits. I need to go alone into the woods. I’m tired of everyone
I live in a tent I’ll give you my address.. but bring heavy clothes. I know what you mean though.
I feel the same. When I come home I just close doors and windows, shut the light, sometimes I left only cute little golden garland, and just try reach silence in my head but still in the back of my head I hear everything that I absorbed from this long day.
But I breathe, listen my cat little purriful song and close my eyes and then peace prevail.
I absolutely love this!!!! How relaxing I can feel through just listening. You are an amazing and beautiful soul. Thank you for your dedication to your work and helping so many others.
Yes sadly I am still listening. One day I hope I won’t have to any more. But Dr Ramani is so calming and sense making. Here’s hoping 2025 brings further peace to us all.
You’ll likely get to a point where you feel like you have learned enough and you can apply it with calm and peace. It took me about 2 years to get there. Sending love and light ✨❤️✨
Cheers to that. It’s hard work, but the nastiness gets lesser as we recognise situations and process them faster than we used to..
People with NPD hunts for people who are highly empathetic. narcissistic individuals who are emotionally stunned themselves seek someone who can feel their emotions, sooth them, serve them they train people particularly their target to carry out unpaid psychological labour in their delusional warehouse.
unfortunately yes, that’s exactly the case
My daughter and narcissist friend
That’s SO on point! I could not say it better ❤
Thank you. I think this is the one that touched home the most. We are all fragments of what we were taught good and the bad. Every day working on self-love and understanding we are only human beings wanting to feel whole and understood. Not needing validation from family who refuses to even try to understand what you’ve been thru. God knows my life my struggles and my victories. I’m good with that.😊❤ I am perfectly imperfect just like everyone else. 🤗🙏❤
That started me journaling. I have skills and traits that were turned against me, as if my light was to bright for the Narcasstic family dynamic. As I heal I have to wrap my love around parts of me that were bullseye 🎯 of pain. This world of healing is for the strong. Love to all that read this ❤, we are many. Self Compassion can be easy, right?
Wow, I feel like the gates of understanding have just opened
This is really good Dr Ramani. Thank you
Thank you Dr Ramani; what a beautiful Boxing Day Gift
I used to cry in early adulthood about turning into my father. On my 28th birthday my Mom gave me the best gift ever… She said: You are not your father… You will never be him, so stop trying so hard.
That was the GREATEST gift ever! ❤❤❤❤
It’s lovely that your Mom saw it…and knew the best way to deal with it…
I am an emergency room nurse. This education on narcissism helps me lessen how much energy I absorb from my narcissistic patients.
Thanks for your honesty ❤🎉
Thank you so much Dr. Ramani, for all the wisdom you give to all of us. I am so grateful that anyone with internet, no matter where on earth they are, can listen to you. ❤️
❤i agree ❤
This is such eye opener refreshing in depth analysis of how victims mimic some behavioural traits of narcs they had in close proximity and it helps to not be too hard on oneself.
1000% I’m trying to continue to be open to correction about and aware of all that I absorbed from my narcissistic family of origin
Thank you Dr. Ramani. Your words of wisdom helps me and others so much. I don’t comment often but I wanted to say, this did help me today, I needed it. Have a peaceful holiday 🙂
Oh my you describe my mother exactly 💯
And yes I hate those bits about myself as a result of her disgusting passive aggressive covert narcissistic behavior. Her critical negativity
So my ability to shut up and put up is as a result
Thank you!🫶🏻
I absorbed some of the bad habits from my narcissistic partner: tendency to procrastinate and not put as much focus on being organized. At least now that we’re divorced, I can focus on getting my good habits back! 😊