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Hello Jonathan and Laurel! Laurel I like you style and I appreciate your approach and your use of profanity equals or maybe even exceeds Jonathan’s 😂😂😂and I’m here for it! Thank you both
Thank you so much!
Ha! Thank you so much. I appreciate you. I know I can sometimes be polarizing, so when people appreciate my style. It means a lot.❤
I don’t care about who voted for who. Not everyone likes politics. And I do not want a stranger asking me private personal questions, nit until they get to know who I am by the essence of time.
I agree. What a brutal approach. A complete turn off…. uncivilized.
Politics equals your every day life. To say you don’t like politics actually doesn’t make any sense. You might choose not to partake in voting because it’s all corrupt but your stance on various issues equates to your moral compass and is definitely fair game for evaluation. People from opposite sides of the spectrum are not a match
@@Kitten_Mittons not necessarily. I have family w very different politics & world views. We luv & respect each other & never build a wall around it. When you love, you make it work bc all else is secondary.
Every question is personal
For some people, politics is not an issue, for others religion is not an issue, it really is personalized to what is important and matters to you and your life.
Too judgmental too soon. It is not possible to really know a person in a 2 time session it takes 1 entire month to get to know someone. Even then it is still not possible without living with the person. I’m a nurse for 27 years I have observed people and follow doctors orders.
Indeed. You truly find out who someone is when you live with them.
It takes years
It’s not about being judgmental too soon, it’s about asking questions and learning with an open and curious mind. Asking the why behind the what helps you to understand how someone developed into who they are today. Definitely judgmental mentalities are not appropriate. And I believe people should go on three dates before making any type of judgment as to if they want to continue or not. Unless there is a serious red flag at the beginning.
This was great on many levels!
Yes
Thank you so much
I had a man that lived 3 1/2 hours away from me, drove over to me every single weekend, we ended up getting married. So nothing is impossible.
Are you still married to him?
That’s amazing! You’re absolutely right that nothing is impossible. It just takes effort.
People do not have to be together every single second of everyday, it’s a good thing to get board together, that’s when you really know about the other persons authentic self and creativity. People….
Yes
Totally agree that being boring and bored together is an essential element of a relationship.
I guess I’m highly qualified if a surgeon wants me for his. Well I’m a nurse.
I dated someone an hour and ten minutes away.
What we did is took turns driving to the other. Every night. Every other weekend we would stay at each other’s houses taking turns. We did this for 3 1/2 years.
Are you still together?
No
That’s incredible effort! There is something romantic about a long distance relationship, where you have long conversations and really open up your hearts with the safety of the phone in between. It’s like that first love feeling where you can be completely open and authentic without fear of judgment because you aren’t face-to-face.
IDK.. Everyone has their own measure. To me, if I’m not drawn to a person, nothing else matters. The reverse is true as well. Guess these things that come naturally to us can’t happen online, so protocols are being created that sound weird & unnatural. Wonder if it’s uniquely an American phenomenon. We have a reputation for being ugly. Bulls in the china shop.
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@@JonathonAslay? What? Do you mean if you meet someone the old fashioned way, you go through the same protocols instead of doing the gut check of whether you like them or not? Do folks have so many people interested in them that they can’t take time getting to know a person? What’s with the brutality, the immediate invasiveness?
You can create feelings. Which is why some of the best relationships start as friendships and bloom.
@@DatingLaurel I’ve never been able to create feelings, so I’m reluctant to believe that it can be done. I think folks either talk themselves into it, or we have at least 2 types of folks in this world as Dorothy Tennov postulated: limerants vs non limerents. I can see the advantages of being able to choose cerebrally, yet instinctive & inexplicable desire is the only thing strong enough to make it all worthwhile.
I like that, that guy “makes me feel like a goddess!”
Yes
And if he’s the right guy, you will make him feel like your king. It is mutual.
I couldn’t care less about eHarmony’s findings. Those freaks denied my profile creation 20 years ago because I’m not religious and extremists aren’t objective
Really?
I’m sorry about that. I know that eharmony has gone through a dramatic transformation since 20 years ago and the religion and extreme perspective is not what they stand for anymore. It’s also not what I stand for. I help them to develop their studies so that they can find out what’s really going on in the dating space and they can also evolve and expand with the times.
I agree with her about first date chemistry. A lazy casual first date is not putting forth the right energy
I’ve known people who got married, and their first date was coffee ☕️
I believe in a romantic first date where you can put your best foot forward and really set the stage for romance. That being said, your first date can be a coffee place and you can zone into each other and create an amazing connection. Your first date can be an accidental meeting sitting next to each other on an airplane, like one of my clients just experienced, and it turns into a magical relationship… The reason I prefer effortful first date is because it helps to increase your chances by setting the stage. But the stage doesn’t have to be set in order for a relationship to blossom. My husband and I first met when we were 14 and we certainly did not go on a romantic first date. it was more of a bunch of kids hanging around and we started dating. When we re-met as adults. It also was not romantic. And still, the connection was there, and romance eventually blossomed.
Love your honesty Laurel! Thanks Jonathan!! Love your guest!!
Thanks 🙂
Thank you! I’m glad you enjoyed it. I hope you got some helpful tips out of it.
Brilliant. I love her honesty!! Thank you both x
Glad you enjoyed it
Thank you so much!
Great interview!
Thanks 🙂
Thank you so much❤
This video Hit a Home Run w me. I absolutely Love this Content
Thank you 😊
Thank you so much! I appreciate you.❤
Loved this❣️
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How many of the 10 items on the should be checked off?
Thank you ❤