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Looking forward to when I can join the Dr Ramani network. Too much financial abuse inflicted on me right now. Trying to get out from under it.
The free stuff is what got me upright! Stick with this! I had an aha moment and I stand tall now . I see the trap and stay in control and calm. Just keep listening as much as you can. It will be your guide!!!
Yeah, narcissistic/toxic mom is focused on finances. I am looking at moving away sometime but other communities are expensive to live in without help. For now, I will just listen to the free YouTube channel. It does have a lot of useful material on it.
Boundaries aren’t about making them change, they’re about keeping yourself safe.
Yes, yes, yes!
😔❤ realizing I suppressed so much for so long growing up to where I realize that I have been attracted to narcissists. I’m scared to even feel sad or aware because I don’t want to come off as ‘I matter, me this or me that’
So much that I’m considering inpatient care
Compare and pit people against each other 💯
Blessings in knowing how to navigate your life around a narcissist. Thank you. Power Psalms 1-150 ❤
I love these ideas & solutions that she is providing. We definitely need more of this. Thank you
Know this well. My entire family of origin is on the narcissistic spectrum.
The Big Chill. A movie about an old group of college friends coming together:
“I’m worried out there in the world bout what people think. Like do they really like me or not”.
“Well, you don’t have that problem here. You KNOW I don’t like you. 😂”.
My takeaway from this conversation is the comment “you have to normalize their ignorance”
Nedra just gave me an idea. Maybe the healing program could include a raffle for a Bluetooth headset, so people can safely have controlled conversations with the narcissists in their lives while they’re driving.
It’s not wise to drive and have a conversation with a narcissist especially. It’s distracting and potentially dysregulating. Which leads to less awareness of your driving, less ability to react well, etc.
Driving and phone calls aren’t safe.
A boundary is one that is set for yourself. You cannot impose a boundary on someone else because you cannot control others.
Wonderful clip😊!
No thanks! You can be black and still be a white supremecist and contribute to an abusive system. I am not convinced that “right” therapist can overcome the racism within the field of psychology, even for a single individual.
For me personally, a therapy has been involved covert abuse and dishonesty
try to never get in a car they are driving. impossible if you are a cholild or spouse, but ehen u move out. just say no.
Wow. Love the glimpse of this convo. So brief yet so many good points to consider.
Since I’ve started to setup boundaries with my narcissistic wife, she threated me with a divorce around 20 times already. Those people hate boundaries.
That’s not necessarily a bad thing. LOL!
A certain narc in my life loves to tell me what topics I can’t talk about. And while I am generally sensitive to other people’s struggles, and would not knowingly talk about topics that can trigger personal trauma, I eventually realized that I basically was not allowed to discuss anything about which I did not share the same opinion as her, including groceries! When I drew the line, I was bombarded with baseless accusations and a whole bunch of rewritten DARVO history from years ago, especially the RVO.
Tawwab is very sharp, and her advice is practical, too.👍👍
Thanks
I went no contact… and that is what it is, no contact. I will not allow anything else. Too many DARVOs have been enough. and enough is enough!
👍 Super vidéo, intéressante et utile ! 🙂 C’est pas simple parfois de fixer des limites, de dire non, et de se faire respecter, mais, en complément, personnellement, je conseille le livre “SE FAIRE RESPECTER”, de Nathan Stone. Il y a tout ce qu’il faut savoir, c’est le livre le plus complet pour faire face à des situations toxiques, au harcèlement, aux manipulateurs, aux personnes dominantes et au manque de respect en tous genres, c’est clair, pas de discours superflu, le top. Il cerne bien tous les aspects et ça peut convenir à tout le monde, c’est ça qui est bien ! 👌