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  • @CourtneyRyan says:

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  • @ajtaylor8750 says:

    Own your interests and hobbies, fellas. Even aside from getting women to find you attractive, you will just feel much better about yourself because you love what you love. People constantly criticize my love for WWE, and I could care less.

  • @PRdude says:

    About how a confident man doesn’t feel the need to fill the air with word, it reminds me of a quote by Plato that goes “a wise man speaks because he has something to say. A fool speaks because he has to say something”.

  • @lawrence31415 says:

    Here is one thing I will add to the list: confident people do NOT complain; they focus more on finding and trying out new solutions, as well as expanding self improvement. It’s okay to acknowledge some insecurities and ponder about a few problem at times, but there’s a lot more to life than just complaining and playing the victim card.

    • @CourtneyRyan says:

      Love this!

    • @lawrence31415 says:

      @@CourtneyRyan here’s one more thought: confident people appreciate what they have and those who are part of their lives. I always remember the steps I took and the incredible people I met along the way to get where I am today, and I’m always ready to look forward to the next exciting moment in the journey!

  • @twk9541 says:

    I think confident man don’t need to please anyone on purpose ❤😂🎉,

    • @NewWave-n2s says:

      People pleasing makes people seem insignificant and irrelevant. That’s why they don’t like it. But acceptance is two fold. You shouldn’t have to tip toe around people. They never grow while at the same time boxing you in. People know what they do. And it’s unfortunate that not everyone can shine their light or be who they are

    • @On_T.elegram_The_Courtney_Ryan says:

      HEADUP LES’T HAVE A CONVERSATION.

  • @Snarge22 says:

    I prefer to sit with my date, not directly opposite to her, but having her to my left or right (on a square table). It’s less confrontational and more comfortable.

    • @JohnM... says:

      I was thinking of doing that next time I have a ‘date’ with someone I’m in the friend zone with, and when she objects, say playfully that ‘We’re not on a date for goodness sake!’

    • @On_T.elegram_The_Courtney_Ryan says:

      HEADUP LES’T HAVE A CONVERSATION.

    • @literallyunderrated says:

      @@JohnM…I would leave out the goodness sake part

    • @Svn6twomm says:

      Solid point. Yet I am more of a sit on the opposite of the table kind of guy. I like to see there reaction and gives me better overview of there language. Also I use the “drawn in” effect if things really go well.

    • @JohnM... says:

      @@Svn6twomm surely opposite there’s no opportunity for (especially a friendzoned guy) touch (without it being obvious?)

  • @jmac4910 says:

    2) Connect vs. Impress. This might be the first time I’ve heard this comparison; I don’t think it can be overstated.

    In my 40s now, and connection is such an integral component of all my relationships: romantic, personal, and professional. Point 2 cannot be fully accomplished without points 3 and 4.

    Well said.

  • @retrorecall says:

    1) don’t apologize for preferences
    2) don’t focus on impressing, focusing on connecting
    3) don’t overcompensate
    4) don’t need to fill the silence
    5) don’t control the situation – overthinking, preplanning

  • @Ezilla82 says:

    Honestly, I’m still working on my social and conversational skills so that’s going to be some baby steps for sure. I’m glad to be part of groups that are share the same interests that I do like horror to action figures to movies and etc. And having conversations that are civil and what not so that we get their points of view on certain topics.

  • @KoachOfGaal says:

    My inner Michigander was screaming in frustration when you were talking about saying sorry 😂 That’s part of the Midwestern vocabulary, we don’t view it as an actual apology, more an acknowledgment of your time being utilized by us.

  • @austinmcnair612 says:

    I had to start out with a list of talking points or fun questions. I was creative when I had time to think, but not in the pressure of a moment. Eventually I was able to notice patterns, learned good conversation tips, and develop a flow that works for me. Coming from a background where it was difficult for me to talk, knowing what to talk about and noticing how those topics make someone feels gave me more confidence for natural conversations. Even your natural quirks can become charming if you learn to master what works for yourself.

  • @arthurfranklin6243 says:

    Great clarity all points well taken. It’s a learning process…Thank you and grateful for pointing it out.

  • @cesarmojica1381 says:

    Idk how a ran into your channel but THANK YOU for making content for us men.

  • @koolandblue says:

    0:20 They don’t apologize for preferences
    (2:02 Factor sponsor ad)
    3:17 They don’t focus on impressing, they focus on connecting
    4:48 They don’t overcompensate
    5:33 They don’t need to fill the silence
    6:42 They don’t try to control the situation

  • @ilai7893 says:

    Thanks for #5, I’m with a girl who is very generous and considerate to me through her gestures but often just talks about herself and said she’s not all that good at thinking up questions on the spot, so besides encouraging her once in awhile to also ask questions I’m learning to be patient and allow the conversation to flow as it may

  • @armanddimeo6575 says:

    “Thanks for your patience” is a less wimpy way of saying “Sorry.”

  • @ChadSteehler says:

    I must say that I really admire how you hold and present yourself in these videos. You speak the definition of what a real and genuine women is.

  • @TheSaneHatter says:

    Thank you for addressing confidence as a matter of technique and strategy, rather than of attitude. Confidence, I have come to realize, is not a character trait but a behavior that’s often taught to people with desirable social attributes and discouraged in others. It’s something you do, rather than something you are, and the playing field isn’t very level.

  • @johngonzalez4298 says:

    Wishing you a wonderful Sunday, Courtney ❤

  • @loganshell says:

    Speaking of confidence I’ve been watching some of your old videos and wow has yours grown. Keep
    It up Courtney!

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