Dating Tips For Inexperienced Men (What Every Beginner Needs To Know)

@Harikejn says:

Important things: 0:37 First Thing ÷ Stop Thinking You’re Behind; 2:01 Second Thing ÷ Confidence Comes From Competence; 2:59 Third Thing ÷ Focus On Connection, Not Performance; 4:15 Fourth Thing ÷ Don’t Overcompensate For Your Inexperience; 5:46 Fifth Thing ÷ Learn The Basics Of Planning A Good Date; 6:34 Sixth Thing ÷ Learn To Read Interest And Disinterest; 7:36 Seventh Thing ÷ Build A Life That Feels Full; 8:27 Eighth Thing ÷ Be Kind To Yourself Along The Way; and 9:21 to summarize all the told here.
I completely agree with you Courtney that you don’t need to compete with other people. Why? Because not all the stories are same, and not all the people are the same. The only thing you should compete with is to compete with yourself. And I mean on one thing: You have to compete on how you have been working and trying to improve yourself lately versus when you didn’t know to do things that you showed interest in them (for example, of course).
Additional things would of been these: Ninth Think ÷ Don’t Overthink About The Relationship Or The First Person That You See; Tenth Thing ÷ Don’t Lie To Yourself No Matter What’s The Situation.
The ninth thing can be partly used in first, second, third, and sixth thing. What I meant to say here is that you don’t need to overthink if there will be a rejection from woman. You just have to act normally. I know that men are afraid of rejection. But here is another thing. As much are men afraid of rejection, also are women afraid of rejection. Like it or not, that’s the thing.
The tenth thing can be partly used seventh, and eighth thing. What I meant to say here is that you have to be honest with yourself whole time. Why? Because you have to help yourself to be good person to yourself, and to do a decent self-care. I know that women are different. Some love skinny men, some love fat men, some love with muscles, etc. But that’s not the just to look at, cause that doesn’t mean a thing. What does matter is who are we deep inside the head, and heart.
When I was listening to you Courtney, I have remembered one quote that I saw. And it goes like this:
Patriarch Paul once told this thing: “Everyone wanted to be special person, and nobody wonders how to be an ordinary person. Because only special people can achieve being an ordinary person.
All in all you have to behave quite normally. And when I say that, I meant on being relaxed, being mature and being serious. And behaving normally does every honest person. Since that’s who you are and that way, you can also improve yourself to be a better person.

@poeticeclipse says:

That gym example is spot on. I’m always watching what other people lift 😂