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If a perfect stranger is mad that you didn’t spend a fortune entertaining her, then she isn’t for you.
Sure, but reality is that the expectation standard is there and women now prefer to share elite men than have a less elite man to themselves.
Agreed lol
That’s just sad. No wonder they stay single @@jfkst1
Yup, those kind of girls are high value and want more.
It means she’s not attracted to you. Attraction changes everything. She’ll find you funnier and more interesting than you really are and coffee will be perceived as the best meet-cute by her…
I took someone to an ice cream shop for a first date once. Easily accessible, casual, and fun. Second date was a board game cafe and that was a great time as well. Highly recommend those if available
Escape rooms are fun too; builds and tests connections and destroy friendships lol
Gonna add Axe throwing here as well! It’s fun, low pressure, and a little bit different!
Sooo cute!
@@grants5383 what about Gun Shooting?
bowling is also fun
You should dress as Morticia Addams for Halloween.
😂🖤
@@CourtneyRyan Then the husband would have to be Gomez.
I second this
Talking during a movie: straight to jail. Hilarious!
😂
For a first date, yes I agree. When she says “straight to jail” cracks me up haha
I agree. Movies theaters are sacred.
Anyone complaining that something casual and little to no pressure is no effort shouldn’t be dating period! I’d combine a walk with either coffee or farmer’s market, etc.
Love that!
Holiday light displays are another great idea
@@mikeklein1779considering that’s coming up, yes! And go somewhere after
@@mikeklein1779 I love that! So cute!
@@CourtneyRyan How should we respond if she says that a gentleman would take her to a high-end restaurant?
We gotta have. Winter date tier list
👀 good idea!
Let’s make it happen, Courtney. The tier list needs to be seasonal
Depends where you live. If I the upper Midwest skip the date and wait until spring.
I agree with her. Coffee date first.
I love a coffee date!
@@CourtneyRyan You’d bone after a coffee date?
Coffee dates are great for starting friendships!
@@alohayoutube Why would a coffee date be more likely to cause you to be friendzoned?
@@RobertTaylor-gz2fu Coz aloha ain’t got no game my man.
MUSEUM – I have found museum and coffee or museum and lunch is a great first date. It’s easy to talk as you walk around and conversation keeps flowing because you can always talk about the art when you’re not sharing about yourselves. Public space. Admission is usually affordable and better museums will have a cafe and a gift shop as well.
This is a good gem, I think what’s missing from a lot of good/great dates is flow and this certainly helps creates that
I’d put zoo and arboretum in the same category. Excellent choice.
S Tier- Informal Meal, Museum/Zoo/Aquarium,
A Tier- Coffee
B Tier- Formal Meal, Comedy Show, Sporting Event
C Tier- Walk, Concert, Bar/Drinks Only, Amusement Park, Shopping
D Tier- Hiking, Group/Friend Date
F Tier- Movie, Family Function, Your House
Thank you!
‘Your House’ is def F tier.
F boy tier lol
She moved concert up to B tier
Legend for doing this 🔥
Thank you very much
Only Americans would complain that meeting up for a coffee — the gold standard, low stakes, great-way-to-get-to-know-someone hangout — is “low effort” or “shows that a person just sees you as a friend.”
Right lol I think it’s cute!
Not just the US – most of the Western world’s women would say it’s insufficient.
This country is over.
Let’s sit in a busy cafe for 15 minutes until someone gets the coffee poops and has to leave.
More appropriately, American women. I think most men would be fine with it.
“Do you really want to be getting sweaty, out of breath, unable to talk to each other…” Lady; you just described the entire reason I’m on this date!
Exactly. Does she not have bdroom fun?
Ha! Exactly!
First date should be simple, inexpensive, and extendible. That way:
1.) If it sucks, you bail out quickly. For example, if it’s a coffee date, you take the coffee to go and get the heck out of there.
2.) If it’s going okay, you can add on to it. For example if it’s an ice cream date and there’s a rail trail nearby, go for a stroll on the rail trail.
Simply put, the first date is to get to know someone. It should not cost hundreds of dollars. If it does she should move to the Klondike because she’s a gold digger.
I agree with this. Definitely like coffee since it’s inexpensive and I always have a nervous stomach when meeting someone for the first time, so I am not a huge fan of meals for a first date.
Went on a coffee date and went to the antique shop across the street for a first date. It was awesome, would recommend.
Don’t forget bowling and arcades. I took my date to both of these and she had a great time! Definitely should be s rank for both of these.
I took a friend bowling and it became our first date. Next I took her apple picking (it was that time of year). That was a fun thing to do.
I’m a good bowler, so that looked good. Then apple picking was fun picking her up to reach higher apples, plus there were animals and treats and all that stuff.
After a first marriage that went 20 years and another marriage I went 16 years, I was dating again and decided I didn’t know anything about it. I started listening to people like you and I am forever grateful. Everything you say in this video is good advice!
FYI, I proposed meeting at a Starbucks. I did this several times. When they replied why Starbucks, and sometimes said they did not drink coffee, I gave the following reasons:
1. It’s busy enough that neither one of us will feel like we are sticking out like a sore thumb;
2. We should find a nice place to sit down so we can have a nice visit;
3. It’s not so noisy we can’t have a good conversation;
3 1/2 there will be an exit door on either side of us so if either one of us feel we needed to get away quickly we could do that.
Not a single girl turned me down on this first date option
Starbucks isn’t terrible, but it’s a little bit boring. An independent cafe or coffee shop in a nice location where you could go for a nice walk after would probably go down a lot better.
OG Stud moves! Well done. Dude – don’t get married, again. Three times isn’t a charm.
Controversial opinion: The better you are at conversation, the better a stripped down date is. Walking is fine if you can find topics to discuss and engage in.
For a first date, you want to maximize conversation time and minimize distractions. That means coffee, drinks, and walk should be at the top, and movie, concert, comedy show, and sports should be at the bottom. In those four bottom ones, they all involve an active real-time presentation you’re supposed to be following along, and they all involve noise that could drown out or otherwise conflict with conversation. Zoo/museum could actually be a nice balance because there’s space to talk but there’s also a passive conversation piece to talk about, though you’d want to make sure everyone is actually interested in what the place is offering.
First date to the house is S tier boyz.
I think a good one to add would be a friendly competition date: Bowling, Mini-golf, Arcade, things of that nature. As long as it is something you both really enjoy.
First date; coffee or a walk. In a large percentage of first dates, the dude will never see the lady again, so control what you spend.
You don’t owe total strangers half a week’s wage.