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😂🤣 I used to get rejected about 50% of the time, but then I finally found the one and got married..
Now it’s more like 90%
Amazing how it happens like that
Rodney Dangerfied? You’re still alive!
@@mrcrhartman 🤣👊
Why not 💯%?🦧😅😅
1. Personalized openers 0:34
2. Playful or lighthearted messages 2:18
3. Genuine compliments with context 4:51
4. Ask thought provoking questions 5:42
5. Responses that show you are paying attention 7:39
1. Can be mistaken for arrogance, cockiness.
2. Corny, nerdy lacking “game”
3. Coercive and “love bombing”
4. Thinking he’s smarter or better with his questions
5. Why’s he so obsessed with me
Women are not so straight forward when, themselves, don’t know what they want.
@@BheeOrghchill out bro I’m just here to add the timestamps😭
@@Fc-cb3tn Same!!! WE are both adding clarity. 😆
I’ve done all this & still get rejected.
Cause I’m not a lumberjack Chad type of douchehead…😵🤕
😂this is so on the money lol. Every single one based off of all that guy above wrote 😂😂@BheeOrgh
How many of these intros are unsolicited and unwarranted advances? Call me a naysayer but to deny that these happen is delusional. If I find something on a woman’s profile and use this to “break the ice”, I run the risk of being accused of stalking her profile and being creepy. Courtney, all the positivity in the world can be misread as “doing to much” for a person she may not even want to communicate with.
I once saw a woman’s profile stating Reiki Massage, so I opened with “Hi!, Do you incorporate Chi in your Reiki as they are complimentary?”, her response was, “If you are seeking to book a session, I will answer your question. I do not have social conversations on this account”. On her profile there was no mention of her account being a business account so I was not wrong in my approach. You can be as inviting, thought provoking, interesting in your opener as you believe may be mutual but you have no control over their response or reply. 🙄 I’m just saying.
From a mans perspective , doing all of this will still get you one word answers and still ghosted. It’s exhausting and demoralizing
If you can find a Latina who hasn’t been westernized take it slow and you’re good.
That means they don’t like you
It’s not easy but I intuitively did this and it worked for me. You could try doing something in your bio that sort of is that intro question especially on bumble. IE I play 3 instruments, can you guess which ones? or something like that and that will get the girl to engage. But also these tips are great for when you meet people in person too. Oh I noticed you’re shoes are so and so brand. Are you a hiker? Where is one spot you would go to etc.
@TKINcaidduh3jp Latina women are western too 😂 You might condider moving to Saudi Arabia
Tease her. Qualify and disqualify her. Make statements (especially cold reads/assumptions) rather than asking questions. Be playful: most guys are way too serious and that comes across as boring
3:50 So true. Some girls would like me first and when I try to start a conversation, their responses are so hard to follow up. Doesn’t comment on my profile, doesn’t ask me questions, etc.
I’ve noticed in general that gen z seems to struggle mightily with carrying conversations.
@@davidchambers44 Haha nooooo…I’m 40 and these women are in their 30s. 😂
That’s a mix of lack of interest and too many options.
Men start with well thought out messages. After 3,675 non-replies. Will stick to copy and paste 😂
Texting should be for making plans. If you want to talk, either meet in person or video chat, or write letters. (Lovecraft had it right, in the latter).
If I had to use a pick up line it would go like this, “You know, according to the Dorian Grey Effect, people actually look like their names. Stacy is a pretty name by the way.” It’s the perfect way to sneak in a compliment.
All great advice I can say works great.
I would add something about what to do when women only have pics and almost no information. That’s about half of profiles out there.
I’ve had luck with calling them out for lack of information and then asking a list of silly questions that I claim are “super important “.
What truly matters is her interest level if she wants to talk she will. What really distinguishes the time wasters from the mature girls is getting her on the phone , that’s the secret kids
That’s the truth.
I would like you to make a dating profile as a man and truly see how hard it is to get a date.
100%!!! I would want all current female dating coaches to do this and then they’ll know what men have to deal with.
Appreciate the good (imo) advice. To the guys responding in a negative way I suggest not caring how the lady responds (if she does). This is about your game, not hers. Her loss if she ignores you.
I disagree. Opening with questions like “… What have been your favorite Pilates class…” often doesn’t go anywhere, because most women online don’t want to go through an explanation on the first line, unless you’re the only guy they’re messaging, which is highly unlikely. But you can ask something more simple, like, “nice beach pic, where was that? ” 🌴
Courtney acknowledges that some women suck at messaging as well. It’s not our fault sometimes if she women doesn’t respond or gives a generic response.
@@gk_zone4274 Women have the expectation that men should initiate and carry the conversation, ’cause that’s the “bare minimum”, they are lazy, nothing to do with being crap at messaging. They have no issue initiating, engaging and prolonging a conversation with Trust Fund Tarquin or Cash Rich Chad, Male Model Marcus or Dark, Chiseled, DeVonte. 😂
Some girls have little on their profile hard to start from that.
Guys, It’s time to give up on online dating. All the apps are rigged against us. We shouldn’t have to learn all these tips and tricks on how to talk to women on these platforms.
Current female dating coaches should make a fake male bio and try what they teach towards women today. Then they’ll really know how hard it is for men when dating today.
Do this with an attractive appearance but crappy personality vs one with an average appearance but great personality. There will only be one winner and that’s the best looking and crappy personality because looks and then money is the only way to successfully date women.
This is why I prefer to meet women when I’m out and about. You can establish a much better rapport in person.
Yup, most guys are wasting time on dating apps
Texting should be for making plans. If you want to talk, either meet in person or video chat, or write letters. Lovecraft had it right, in the latter).
@@Celi.S.00 Agreed.
I agree, women can fake their emotions so well on social media to lead a guy on and on and on.
In real life they’re pretty easy to read, they’re emotional and hormonal and hence they can’t hide their true intentions unless they’re very mature
I’ve been using personalized messages for a decade; rarely do I get a response.
I stopped for a day to send copypasted messages from Reddit about made up drama like “i married and divorced you in my head”; the response rate was insanely high.
Just my experience, though.
Courtney can you make a video on creating a male profile and try to message the girls? It would be great to see your perspective upon utilizing your suggestions in practice.
I would like this. But it needs to be an average guy profile.
“Hello, I’m looking for someone to help me spend the millions of dollars I have” 😃🤣
This video can be summed up as: “Read her entire profile and base your interaction with her on it.” And while I’m happily married, not dating, this makes sense to me, because doing that checks a lot of boxes for her. It shows you’re responding to more than a photograph, that writing up a profile wasn’t a waste of her time, that you’re interested in her as a person and not just her looks, that you have some shared interests, that you’re probably a good listener. That all sounds like good first impression material to me.