Good Men Don’t Want Women Like This
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Big pet peeve of mine when men and women collect their worst experiences of the opposite sex and then speak generally, “Women do xyz,” “Men always xyz.”
A more responsible and more honest phrase is, “Every man I’ve been with cheated,” or “A lot of women I meet ghost me.”
It’s the difference between hearing, “That’s offensive!” and “I found it offensive.”
Have a great day, Courtney!
Those people are also not self reflective either. Some ppl are really bad at identifying high value people and when they go after low hanging fruit, they blame the system instead of just realize how blind they are.
It only drives the gender war deeper. People simply don’t want to feel responsible even if it frees them, because it’s uncomfortable
Yeah right, like women dont all act in a similar manner, do you know what a bell curve is?
@@Youaretheactionsofgoda fifth grader could tell you what the bell curve is, only fools can think without even the shred of a doubt that every single member of a group is the same or that there’s never room for nuance. Are all men the same? So why would all women? Is one somehow superior to you?
All women look better in skirts than I do.
Is that statement offensive? s/
I have been married for 42 years and have never cheated so there are men that don’t. Thanks for sharing Courtney.
Thank you for sharing your experience! ❤️
u come from a different time/generation. youve been out the game for 42 years. things arent the same today vs when u grew up
@@iBuyBitcoin Go Talk to Men in the Church or the university or at work , if you talk to men that are on nightclubs or other Places that Bad Boys go to you will find that type of man .
Often “all men cheat” is used to say “therefore it is okay for me to cheat.”
If she wasn’t pretty who would watch?
Thank you Courtney 😊
Excellent Topic 😊
Excellent Message 😊
Thanks Courtney for showing young men that there are still decent women out there. I love my wife and I would never cheat on her under any circumstances ever.
ive decided to stay away from any women who makes any kind of “all men” claim. like if they use that phrase for anything im staying away, i never realized it but that is literally the women’s version of red pill. i always tried to just be understanding because they always say “its obviously not all men” and “a hit dog will holler” but im realizing some boundaries are necessary.
Good rule to follow – when you see a video online by a random person, first thing to think is that you know nothing about the person, what their history is or what their issues are. If you knew them IRL you might not take their comments seriously. A friend of mine (may she rest in peace) was a 98 year old woman from Taiwan who spoke little English. She would post incendiary things on Twitter and used an Avatar so no one could see who she was. People would get so terribly angry, if they knew the person who was actually posting they would laugh instead.
“All men cheat.” I physically rolled my eyes when she said that. ……. I’ve never been in a relationship (and most likely never will be), but I would never cheat. Also, my maternal grandfather never cheated. I have uncles who never cheated. The pastor I grew up under, he never cheated. The pastor that one of my aunts is under, he never cheated. There’s somebody else that my family knows, who was in the pulpit, he also never cheated. Just right there, that busts that lady’s theory that all men cheat. Maybe too many men cheat, just like too many women are gold diggers, but in both of those instances, it’s not “all.”
With the part about “if we keep getting into relationships where the person cheats, look internally” part, I would say there are two things with that. There are people who are drawn to that type of person, and there are people who simply have bad luck with that type of behavior. The people who have bad luck, and merely happen to constantly wind up with that type of person, I would say, maybe they could look in different areas of the country to find good men. It could be that the city they are in is full of cheaters. Whereas those who are drawn to that type of person, I would say, THEY are the ones need to look internally and ask themselves why they keep choosing that type of person.
Yes, phones down, everyone! If only it were just that simple, but it helps.
And yes, as much as those of us in Cleveland get winter weather, at least we have today to enjoy nice weather, for once. But key word / phrase: “today” and “for once.” That’s why I want to move south. To escape winter. It’s just a matter of if I will ever get to go south.
Take a moment to appreciate how Courtney has never missed on one personal style choice on her videos, ever.
Exactly. Plus, if a woman believes that all men cheat, and she gets lonely enough to start dating anyway, she’ll actually *tolerate* her boyfriend/husband cheating *because* she thinks all men do it. It ironically makes it sound less bad (more “normal”) than it actually is, to say that everyone’s doing it.
I love Courtney’s videos. She always puts a positive but still-common-sense light on the crappiest social media topics. Her videos make me feel just a bit less negative.
The crazy part is some of these women not only choose cheaters , but they go back to them after getting cheated on, just because the guy has money, looks, or whatever. Then when they get hurt again, suddenly it’s “all men are trash.” But it’s like… you kept going back to the same type of dude who broke you in the first place. And because of your bad experience now you’re jaded, bitter and acting toxic too. How does that help anyone???
“Trauma with a microphone” That’s a catchy phrase… mind if I borrow it?
that’s why I say that every single guy should read the book Femmezia Enigma Unlocked by Mark Salar. There are plenty advices for situations like this and how to handle it. Its always about your attitude and respect you get from woman. Once when you got respect, you can me the man in every single situation!
Great book 🫡 I read it
Part 2 is better in my opinion, Femmezia extension is next level
Thank you I will read it!
All I’m saying is, misery loves company. Take the time to unplug from social media. I got off Facebook for a little bit because my videos were nothing but random men doing interview styles just bashing women and pushing the rhetoric of a woman “ wants a 6 foot guy and 100k salary.” It’s just bashing women for absolutely no reason. It was bleeding out onto my marriage and Facebook is just garbage now. Thank you for bringing real life to the screens of many people.
So because one girl got cheated on, all men cheat now? Video has no sense.
It’s weird, I’ve never cheated on any GF I ever had or my ex-wife.
I must have missed the memo.
It’s interesting that one thing that women forget to mention when they talk about Men who cheat, is the fact that they cheat with other WOMEN. Yet they never blame the woman, who more likely than not probably knows that the man is in a relationship with someone else, yet still continues to have the affair anyway. Not saying that this justifies cheating, or abolishes the man from any blame; but the man isn’t the only one involved.
As a woman, I can confidently say that most men are NOT cheaters. Of all the men I’ve known personally in my entire life (40+), including extended family, friends, etc, only one has cheated. Most are great guys, loyal, caring, hard working, varying levels of emotional vulnerability and communication, from what I can tell, but overall in stable long term relationships. I don’t know where these women are finding the horror stories they’re talking about, but it’s not been my experience at all.
❤❤❤❤ “Go touch some grass” that’s funny.
It could be that the type of man that they are choosing tend to be cheaters. I was loyal to my ex wife for almost 20 years and she cheated on me several times and I still attempted to make it work until I realized that I did not deserve to be treated that way. All I want now is a caring and empathetic woman.
I read The Girlfriend Magnet Masterplan once…just once…and almost instantly, women started looking at me different. More eye contact, more smiles, more engagement… like something shifted. It felt like I unlocked a literal cheat code to attraction. Not some fake gamey tactics…real internal changes that women feel. It’s wild how fast it works
my friend has this book and he talks about it all the time