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Truth! It takes a long time. I’m nine years post discard and feel like I’m finally getting back to normal for real. The self doubt and questioning are the scar from this kind of abuse. But every day I feel stronger and happier and know that I’m recovering. It just keeps getting better.
Keep going Saga! You’re braver than you know❤
Saga is a lot stronger and smarter than she thinks. Rooting for her too. Just loved how empathic and supportive Dr. Ramani and Moon were.
Sadly it takes pain for a young lady like Saga to learn wisdom.
I once heard a fellow colleague who said in those earlier days from what you got from school you could have gone and achieved to much more that what i ended up right to this point in time from many lost time and opportunities
It’s not My truth that was stolen. It was THE truth.
yes! they have lies only. that’s what is so frustrating, you want the truth to be believed because it’s true. you recognize value outside of yourself. that’s why you value the truth. a narcissist will never value anything external so they refuse to see reality. they celebrate their own lies above anything else because they are Their lies.
Yes! This!
Narcissists steal and rob and that includes your identity . They get away with stealing.
The smears steal truths – I agree with you and I refused to allow anyone to steal my soul or my truth but others don’t know the whole story. And they can and do ruin credibility and reputations with bogus smear campaigns. Strangers do not know you or have the time to get to know you – so you can lose a lot by being unfairly sidelined in your professional and personal life. Eventually it catches up to them but it can take a long time and we don’t have 9 lives to re live or build again what narcissists so immaturely destroy. In theory we hold onto our truths and in the long run that is all you can do. But the “ reality” is that destructive people who play victim can do a lot of damage because intuitively they get it that “ truth “ and “ reality” can be slippery subjects or it is as such with people who lack empathy and conscientious behaviour. 🫶
Well said!
wow! This is so eye opening! My parents were narcissist among other thing, been gaslight to so much, that only in my forties did I finally realize what happened to me. I have been second guessing my own feeling all my life damn it. I am just realizing this as I am watching this video! Thank you. its crazy the damaged. I have been told so many time that I was overly sensitive that I have label myself this way, like I am defective and not capable of dealing with people. Damn, this is so eye opening! I also discarded my intuition so many times because of this, chose bad places for me and accepted my boundaries being crossed all the time thinking I had to be strong and nice.. etc…. MY GOODNESS. I am choc, for myself and for her. That psychologist! I am angry for her.
I read your comment and it was and IS 200% true for me! Thank you for jarring my soul. ❤
Please do more about this!!!! I didn’t want it to end. Do a video on this topic please 🙏
Saga, you are incredibly brave to speak about this. Keep preaching and talking about what you have endured. You are amazing!
God treatment of victims can be so cruel. To go through horrible abuse, and to then be re-victimised by professionals who are supposed to be safe, honest, and supportive but are choosing to do harm is disgusting. You were a witness, you saw it, you heard it, you felt it, their body language doesn’t lie, and neither does your internal safety system, those ‘alarm bells’ going off are the truth, and your recollection is the truth, and also your young age has nothing to do with your ability to tell the truth and to have full comprehension that you were harmed. I 110% believe you. You are entirely worthy of respect, and I wish you all the very best on your healing journey, now that you have some incredible professionals support.
Amen!!! ❤
Thank you for being the hero we need Dr. Ramani. Stay strong Saga!
Thank you Dr. RAMANI❤I believe the body is more intelligent than our thoughts, so I’m learning to listen to it….much love from SoCal❤
She can always say, “I remember things differently” and leave it at that. Do not get into the mud with people committed to misunderstanding you.
Not if the narcissist has ‘experts’ as this poor gal stated a psychologist attempted falsely diagnosed her. What the psychologist did was emotional abuse, its highly unethical and criminal even. It will follow her for the rest of her life as the system has a monopoly on truth.
I’ve experienced this myself, the government declared in absolutes that I have x y and z labels for life. All false and nobody cares since my covert narcissist mother had said labels placed on me at a young age. I just went to another psychologist recently and instead of helping me he called a liar about everything I’ve lived through. He told me I deserved to be abused and bullied. That I’m defective and caused the abuse and bullying as a child. He tried to place more labels on me and write up a report about his own false narrative. Therapy is abusive 9/10 as the extremes victims of narcissistic abuse suffer are not believed by ‘normal’ people.
@@user-gz4ve8mw9lOmg 😮 This therapist is a sadistic criminal himself
Indeed!! Trying to convince others of what happened to you is the way others try to twist things.
Journaling saved my sanity. I often questioned myself about whether my recollections were just me making things up in my mind. I have saved journals that were written in real time as soon as I could any time I felt I wasn’t coping. A life of journals. Only in the last decade to I put it together that they were my proof.
Me too I started journaling in about year eight of my 22-year marriage.
It took about 3 years for me to figure out that I was remembering correctly and I was not wrong or crazy.
Back then I still didn’t know that was called gaslighting or even how terrible it is.
Unfortunately after the divorce I repeated the pattern of being with narcissistic sociopathic or abusive partners with the next three.
Now that I am educated on these things I have been able to heal.
It’s sad that it took 30 years but better late than never.
I have all of that journal proof too, plus depositions from the divorce, but no one cares. Been keeping diaries and journals since I was 8-10.
That is outrageous that she was diagnosed with dependent personality disorder. I’m rooting for her, too! She is so much braver and stronger than she realizes. Thank you for being a hero, Dr. Ramani!
Oh my gosh. Yes! Dr Ramani and guest allowing their passion to show thru in response to this horrific complex abuse. All too common and I can relate on many levels. My heart breaks for her, and is so happy to hear such kind validating and fog dispelling truth. Thank you!
Victim blaming! It’s another trauma on top of the domestic trauma
Narcistic persons are literal demons. Many blessings to you Saga, i am also in a process of trusting myself again after narcistic abuse by my caregiver. I am finally breaking free of his chains
Everyone who has experienced this has tears in his eyes because he knows how painful it is. Thank you for your compassion.
Omgoodness, I love how empowering Dr. Ramani is. She pulled out every strength the story itself showed Saga had and reassured her in minutes flat. I was in tears watching
Journals are so important, slowly the lies, manipulation and gaslighting will emerge. The journal will become your truth book of experience. It’s also such a powerful tool, to look back on, see yourself getting stronger and praise yourself for your steps forward.
I love how empowering Dr. Ramani is. She’s such a needed advocate. I pray this survivor heals and grows 💕