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To be frank, most young women are just not that interesting to talk to or intellectually curious.
I’ve always had better conversations with older women outside of a dating context, but maybe that’s just me.
THANK YOU!!!! After basic Qs, there’s just a void, full of doom scrolling, in most cranial closets..
Facts. There is a reason American women today are the most liberal in the history of America and why men tend to be toward conservative or libertarian minded. The ideological divide between the sexes is vast. Historically women valued talking about feelings and men valued talking about creating things. Women are just not that interesting to talk to.
This is my experience too with older ladies. They are easier to talk to and more open minded
@@KBowWow75 no, this is wrong.
Wow, this is so true. Most young women have no idea what is going in the world.
31 years old and alone for 3 years after last relationship and nowadays yes I don’t know how to talk because I don’t know what is in their mind and what they want
Ако е между 18 и 23 – положителни преживявания , секс , пътувания , адреналин . Между 24 и 39 – стабилна връзка , доверие , комуникация , къща / апартамент , бебе . Над 40 – секс , секс , секс , секс …
Mind reading is not yet a thing, my guy. Perhaps you have the inadequate approach?
My experience is that exact opposite. I’ll ask all the questions, and I’m rarely asked a single question about myself. I went on three dates with a girl, never once did she even ask me where I work, or what I do for a living. I’ve always had a general rule, that if you’re asked a question, you ask the same question back after your response.
You’re probably also getting 1 word responses too, right?
Did she show very little interest in you or attraction towards you?
Why did you keep asking her on dates lol
You are spot on.
We used to call it game back in the days from what I hear the internet destroyed dating, I think that’s just an excuse men use when they can’t get laid 😂
Communication nowadays is terrible, but it’s a two-way street. Both men and women should be asking engaging questions even in normal conversations with others, and anyone who doesn’t ask you any questions about yourself clearly doesn’t care about getting to know you. Listening is even more crucial.
Too many questions will make it like an interrogation.
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Women: men aren’t great communicators!
Also women: instead of talking to her date about the issue she makes a video for the internet, i.e., clout chasing.
Never take a woman’s shaming/rejection personally. They aren’t known for making smart choices about anything. They’re only as faithful as their options allow them to be anyway.
Trust me when she finds out I’m on disability the conversation just ends there we don’t even get to the dating phase
I’m sorry to hear that. I’m unemployed at the moment. I have noticed the same issue you have when I am out of work.
Get you a homeless chick!
I’ve been out of work many times, i’m working and they still ignore me. Women always find a reason to snub you.@vijayiyer8518
Well who wants a guy who does nothing with his life?
I think a reason for this could be that a lot of women have said that small talk is not attractive and that men have to impress them socially
It is true that small talk is boring. It’s not even about men impressing us. I want deeper conversations about the meaning of life, the universe, mysteries of life. Most of the time all men ask about is work, day to day life and that gets boring real fast and doesn’t even spark attraction.
Fair enough
Exactly what I was thinking
@@HaleyMary the women on online dating apps are not interested in any of those topics, at all. They expect to be entertained and catered to, like we are butlers and jesters. I found dating apps and the people on them to be a waste of time.
@HaleyMary I just don’t see how you can expect these deeper conversations when you’re still getting to know the person.
Most women treat not sounding like a pick-up artist or have the smoothness of a Casanova as “not knowing” how to talk to a woman. Anything outside of that is “saying the wrong thing.” It’s been my experience.
Women don’t want “smoothness”. What women want is a man desperate enough to sIeep with a complete stranger because women view men as nothing more than se×øbjects.
It’s literally all about whether or not you’re attractive and high status. That’s it
Not too long ago, women didn’t want men to talk to them. Guys were literally prosecuted for doing so.
Men were never prosecuted for saying hi 😆
Just the ones who are broke and/or unattractive
For real
Absolute nonsense and hyperbole. Men were never prosecuted for talking to women. I’d be serving 50 life sentences if this were the case
@@DrBeef216 Oh, Dr. Beef, how naive you are.
A man knows that he can be rejected for saying just one thing she dislikes. A woman is, on a date, usually looking to find reasons to reject him.
Bingo! That’s exactly my experience too.
Exactly! Women get the “ick” for the most ridiculous reasons you can imagine, so why should men even try..
Agreed! One wrong question, laugh, or even sound. Done 😂😂😂
I hope Courtney pins this.
This happens to guys that aren’t attractive enough and she only went out with because they’re backups and she had nothing better to do that week
Happy Wednesday, Courtney ❤ I feel that a lot of women nowadays are more interested in their cell phones more than physically communicating with another human being but this is my perspective. A lot of people are out of touch
Courtney, coming from a guy who’s never had too many problems finding a girlfriend ect. The way men think is very logical and puts emphasis on step by step thinking. So, most men have 110% fully given up on even trying to talk to any women. They genuinely are just NOT pleasant to be around anymore. Women are like children, and taking on a woman means taking on a lot of responsibility. Taking on that responsibility is an amazing and fulfilling thing when you actually get the reward you wanted for taking on that responsibility. For example, the happy perfect family with a great wife and kids. THAT is what makes it worth it, it’s the sentimental things. But this is the same thing I tell my mom every time she brings it up. 95% of the women today are just NOT worth taking all of that responsibility for. Us as men today, we have to work 10 times harder for 10 times LESS in the quality of woman that we would get today, than how hard our grandfathers had to work, to get a good honest loyal woman back then. So the bottom line is this. The juice just isn’t worth the squeeE anymore and supply and demand is showing that in the real world. The WOMEN are the problem, honest god they are. Men are not going to work 10x as hard for a lesser quality of woman today, because the women are simply just not worth it. They don’t act right and have lost all moral judgment and societal pressure to maintain a family ect. So now, a happy healthy household will be few and FAR between.
Big facts 😢
That is why my wife is an Asian foreign national. I gave up on American women decades ago.
You don’t speak for me
Oh boy. Dude. You’ve got red flags galore.
@@angrybatarian Then speak for yourself. Did anyone mention you? Do any of us even know who you are? No. So why the irrelevant comment when I wasn’t speaking for you in the first place? 🤣🤦🏻.
These women can’t hold conversation unless you’re talking about TikTok, their favorite music, or reality TV. Plus I’ve even cussed out by girls for when they ask what the main thing is I look for in women I say “I like girls that are happy” or called a misogynist for simply saying “men don’t put as much emphasis on a woman’s career as women do on a man’s” plus girls think questions guys should ask is “what’s your zodiac sign” or “whats your favorite color” or “what’s your middle name” they only care about stupid things that mean nothing to build a relationship
Not to mention if you’re hot as a guy these girls don’t care what you say or do. I’m 6’6 and have had a dad bod and had a 6 pack. It’s worlds different how they treat you when you’re in shape and when I’m shredded I can do or say whatever I want and the girls don’t care
@@TheBlueBookGentlemanthere is no point whatsoever in dating in the West. Go to Eastern Europe or Asia. The ones in the West are all vapid regarded feminist slags
@@TheBlueBookGentlemanthere is no point in dating a Western one. They don’t even date guys they actually like, just hookups. Disgusting
No point in dating in the West. Rotten apples
I hate that zodiac question. It always struck me as showing a lack of intelligence.
Sounds like she’s on a date with Chad. In my experience, women in their 20s and 30s these days more often than not SUUUUUUUCK at engaging in conversation. They rarely ask questions, rarely show a whole lot of interest in anything that does not directly pertain to themselves and rarely answer questions they’re asked in more than a word or two. And then they turn around and complain that MEN suck at conversations 😂
No, Chads try not to talk about themselves.
The other reason why some people, regardless of gender, might talk too much on dates is that they might be nervous.
Modern relationship dynamics have skewed the power differential so far in favor of women that it oftentimes feels inappropriate to ask too many questions.
It’s like a hiring manager talking to an applicant. You ask one too many questions (or the wrong questions) and you’re immediately out of contention for the position.
Something that I noticed amongst at least my generation. Any normal male human being who doesn’t want to harass a woman, or being accused of it, does not and WILL NOT initiate a conversation.
We didn’t lose the ability to talk to women, we lost the desire to.
True
Probably because you spend too much time playing video games, watching comic book movies, and cosplaying. Perhaps you should focus more on working out, growing your career, leaving behind children hobbies, and allowing yourself to age/mature.
@@JasonNortwich Wooo, Did a woman write that? Sounds like it. Sooo catty!
@@Lawrence_writer I thought the same thing. 😀
@@JasonNortwich Why? Not every man has the desire to waste his life as a simp.
I am a naturally inquisitive person. I ask all kinds of questions. So here is my take: as a man who asks questions, it intimidates women. Oftentimes they say “you ask a lot of questions” or “why do you want to know all this stuff on a first date?” I am assuming they find my natural inquisitiveness creepy. So again, it comes back to the “damned if we do, damned if we dont” reality of being a modern man. Why dont you women all get together and come up with a number that you can all agree on as an acceptable amount of questions on a date. We dont want to ask too much, or too little.
Also, men know that most women are attracted to indifference. The less we act like we care, the more interested she is in you. In my experience, because I am so genuine and authentic who doesnt fake anything, all my inquisitiveness just makes me look like I care too much, and that is a big “ick” for modern women. I belong in a different era, and unfortunately I am stuck trying to find a mate in this one.
Well said brother. Long story short, I found out that it’s “creepy” to give a woman my full attention when engaged in conversation. Soooo now I have to intentionally , periodically look away ? Really ? Good Luck
I would be willing to bet on at least half of her questions he responded and what about for you. She likely didn’t count those as they were not “original” questions. When posting from a date, it is reasonable to not expect a perfect recount of events.
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I’m so glad I grew up before the internet ruined people and I actually learned how to communicate in person.
Honestly it’s going to be a long time until humanity regains its sociality.
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Girls like her is why being single is the preferred option at this point. I’m so sick of these women putting down men in general and posting on social media for clout like get off your high horse you ain’t all that.
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