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This is such a needed discussion!
Thank you Dr. Ramani 🙏🏼❤️
This just happened to me when the narcissist targeted my vulnerabilities and spoke about my son who has a disability. Everything Dr. Ramani described was spot-on!
I’ve been isolating. It feels as if I am surrounded by narcissists…
Me too
I hear ya
Hell society encourages it. Look who gets elevated to presidential nomination and who makes a living being an “influencer”… makes me sick
Wait till you delete your social media and reduce your screen time then you’ll see how weird people are
@@chrisramos9852lol YES!! I’ve noticed!
Especially when it’s an older mother’s grown child, in their fifties!!! Unbearable pain! Dr. Ramani, please, please talk more about middle-aged children mistreating parents who have given, and, given, emotionally and economically!!
Need help……
Omg! YES!!
And they have taught their children that you are the worst person on earth. You begin to feel like there is absolutely nothing you can do that is right.
How did you raise them? Have you ever give them tough love? Unless the father is also a narc, then you are part of what makes them that way.
This is 100% true. I always felt it was mocking and it seemed to give him satisfaction. He would say I had anger management issues and I needed to learn to control myself. Funny, I never had that blinding rage with anyone before. He had been court mandated to take anger management classes in the past and had been in countless fights with people and even had charges pressed for that. And yet I was the one with the problems. Once he moved out, poof, no more blinding rage. I have never had another person do this to me. Fifteen years of it and a heart issue and I am finally at peace, while he continues on in chaos and cruelty to all he meets. They love to pick fights and prod people to anger. They get off on it.
There is nothing weirder or confusing than having someone scream at you, “you have fawking anger issues ” at the top of their lungs. Especially a 5″3 woman……
@@iainhittel mine forced me into sobriety just so I can make it out alive
@@chrisramos9852 yeah man……I know…sorry buddy.
@@iainhittel well I force myself into sobriety which is a good thing was making me docile
Yes they absolutely love drama and chaos.
Peace does not bring them peace It gives them anxiety.
When we are around these people for too long we are damaged as well and even after I ended these relationships with these awful people it took me a couple years to finally not be anxious with peace.
*THIS🙌🏻 I’ve become so closed off now because I experience this often from a family member. Thank you for this content Dr Ramani it really helps🥺🙏🏻💕*
Nice & short. Thx. I suddenly found myself at the end before I was ready to switch
Last night in fact. Narc husband wanted to argue last night and I didn’t feed into the baiting. Until he hit me. I hit back with all the pinned up rage from my first abusive marriage. Today, he wants to work on things. But I’m done. He even brought up my deceased brother who was murdered by another crazy narcissist. There is genuinely no fixing this disaster.
I feel you Tabitha 😢 and im so sorry for your “pinned up rage” ….becareful sister 🙏
Happened to me as well. Being beat up my whole life I just snapped and hit back. It didn’t end well for him but he kept coming at me. I think it shocked him on some level but he thought I was an easy target. Nope. Farm girls don’t go down easy.
Well done for fighting back ❤ I pray you escape your situation soon and find happiness
Darling, from my own experience, once they turn to physical violence they don’t stop it. They only get worse.
They feel invincible and justified so they won’t stop, and will go further than others would.
My advice is if you possibly can, get out.
There’s no turning back now. Things won’t improve. Especially in the long run.
This is my experience.
They don’t care how low they stoop.
I’m so so so incredibly sorry. You Do. Not. Deserve this.
No matter what he says, you do not deserve it.
You are far far infinitely more precious than that.
I’m praying for you hun ❤
Please know that you are loved.
@@64cuspofchange thank you
Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us Dr Ramani, it changes lives.
Describes my former employer and supposed confidant. Baited until she knew it was time then made sure someone else was present to witness me get upset and nearly cry.
Sorry this happened
I love you Dr. Ramani! I feel so supported by all of your videos 🤗 and I don’t feel alone. These type of people wreak havoc in people’s lives and nothing is off limits to them. I have experienced every single type of abuse at the hands of more than one Narcissist. One is bad enough! Get a group of like minded Narcissists together and the damage is extremely extensive. Thank you so much for all that you do to help people like me and so many others 🤗 It’s much appreciated!! I have done a lot of healing work through this abuse. I’ve come out on the other side so much stronger and I’m not looking back. I hope to help others who have been through similar abuse in the future.
I’ve been pushed to the point of hate and I hate it.
Be kind with yourself…
Me too
I relate to this, unfortunately. Don’t like it at all.
@@Gretagarbo830same
Yes. Please don’t stop posting for free. Please 🙏
I needed this today. The kids’ dad knows just how to hif the right buttons, every. damn. time, even when I try to prep myself for it. 😢Thank you 🙏🏼
Ramani always serves as a blessing for the human community at large. Thank God she chose to pursue her professional/academic study of narcissistic behavior. Education is key to breaking the malignant cycle.
Reactivity has caused me a lot of pain and stress. And what I have found is that many of my reactions were not limited to people who wished to hurt me. It happens in any area where I feel shame sensitivity. After surviving narcissistic abuse and becoming able to recognize it, I am also able to recognize my own reactivity in every day life and I find it’s very comforting to really objectively think about how I am interacting with the information that I am receiving.
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100 % spot on. You’re never right when you’re dealing with a narc. They will bury you with your internal rage.
Well damn. Here come the tears
Happened to me right before I was discarded. Then came the smear campaign where the narcissist was telling everyone I was unhinged, immature, and emotionally disregulated. I never shared anything personal or sensitive about myself despite being baited into doing it so all the narcissist could do was feed everyone lies about me. So long as society continues to romanticize and reward narcissism along with the other dark triad personalities, I will keep my guard up at all times
Reactive abuse. Once i was pushed to my breaking point, I became enraged, cursed, yelled, and he had this slight grin on his face the entire time. I was so out of character i just didnt know i could ever do that. Thank God I finally lost my desire to be with him and was strong enough to walk away…and stuck with it, even though it really hurt. Looking back, I realized I was being abused by a full blown narcissist the entire time.
I know that slight grin. Our pain is their pleasure. Relieved that your story ends with you leaving him. Wish me luck. The narc in my life is my brother and I never know when it’s coming.
Keep going and don’t look back ❤😊
I used to say they make you into somebody that you don’t like and when you finally get that through your head that you don’t like yourself anymore you finally make your way out