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My question is, what about a man who says he wants to spend the rest of his life with you and it’s been over 3 years? It was a long distance realtionship. I was in San Diego and he was in Florida. I moved to him and we have been living together for almost 3 years. I am 57 and don’t want to waste my time with someone who doesn’t want to commit.
Been there a few years ago at the same age & decided my time left on this Earth was more valuable than him & I walked away. I’d rather live that life alone in my peace & healed emotional state
Are you happy in your relationship?
Talk it out….Have a
Spiritual Marriage
……If it really bothers you… communicate about how you feel.
Just my thoughts..
Ask JA….🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
What does he say when you guys have conversations about the future and what you want? What does you want? Lol
Sometimes it takes a death of a close friend will make him realize he does have that much time
I’m just curious what his definition of spending the rest of his life with you means? And what does your definition of commit mean maybe you mean commit by marriage? Maybe he thought he could spend the rest of his life with you without the marriage sounds like a miscommunication, possibly
Jonathan, opposites attract, likes repels. Please allow yourself to open your heart and explore new situations. Just my two cents here.
Alignment is important
So many people just playing and lying too😂
Read all the books now I’m overqualified 😂
Yay!
I’ve found at least 98% of these men over the age of 40 that say this just haven’t grown up to take responsibility with a solid healthy relationship with a mature professional woman with great qualities with the excuse that their wife died or cheated & are too full of fear & insecurities because of that past but expect us as women to have healed from our past trauma which 9 times out of 10 is worse than their trauma, respectfully
Yep, and I say nice to meet you but we are not a match. I’m not trying to convince anyone that I’m not their ex
@dpharrison7 :EXACTLY but have met too many that were toxic like my ex, & it took me years to heal from that abuse
Jonathon says emotional zombie
Very interesting Tonight JA.. sorry I missed the Live..
I do enjoy your thoughts on keeping it REAL….😅
Thanks for watching!
I just want more than hook ups😮😮😮😮😮🎉
I’m thinkin we’re a ‘match’😂 too bad you’re too far away! Good luck in your new connection! 🐬
I know a nurse friend I’ve known since 7th grade she is so very extremely co-dependent she gets angry and makes threats if she is told “no I’m not going to do that, Bcz it’s deceitful.” Once upon a time I used to just go along with her demands and say “yes, ok.” Just for the moment to make her quiet and stop. But now I tell her “no.” WOW does she ever get angry to the point where she threatens your job to be fired…. I can call her on harassment for that, I know.
To add, yes her mother was an alcoholic. And now her daughter is co-dependent to the point that she was financially supporting her ex-husband to only discover that he was engaging in sexual activities with teansvestites, which gave her STD’s at multiple times. Co-dependent with flying colors. It has become genetic, pass from mother to her daughter. Her daughter never knew her biological father and learned to live a step-father that ended up being arrested for child molestation. Yeah, real bad. Poor girl.
I gave up online dating and have focused solely on meeting men in my community in real life. The last man I spent time with lives 3 miles from me and I’ve known him for 25 years. We’re in the same dance group. I’m 67. He’s 77. He seemed like a good man as a more distant friend/aquaintance. As I spent time with him over the last month he insists that he has secure attachment yet I experience him as avoidant dismissive. The more I get to know him in a variety of activities and settings the more he comes off as a cold, distant, emotionally unavailable and dismissive person. It’s actually been shocking for me to discover what it actually feels like to be with him. He travels alot, thankfully. We’ve backed off from exploring any romantic involvement. Now have to navigate seeing him regularly at my weekly dance.
@motheryuba57 You’re doing the right thing, IMO. Walk away emotionally. Psychoanalyze him and yourself less. And who knows, maybe he will feel less of an urge to be avoidant and will then reconnect emotionally. I’m being a complete hypocrite…it’s almost impossible to change our anxious habits. But that is the answer if there is one. Walk away…but leave a tiny door open. And don’t give up looking for men in your community. You are on the right path.
@@JeniinIL
Just remember.. we all are different.. and actually we
Don’t know what a person has gone through..
At least he enjoys dancing 🕺🏻 💃🏻💯… that’s a plus.
Yes .. this is directed to
@motheryuba57 …
@@motheryuba57 Have an adult, professional, and civil conversation with this man and tell him you don’t see a future together and you wish him the best too. That’s the way to handle toxic people and then your self esteem will remain in tack and he can go on his way to seek other people and activities in his life! Please don’t think about this guy anymore, but end the relationship in a fair, polite, and professional manner. You’ll feel better in the long run too, by taking back your power as a feminine woman who’s also assertive, and you know what you want in life! Just my two-cents here… 😉
Ok so on my next dinner date with this guy I have been seeing not seeing, lol. I will have my list of unanswered questions for him.
I’m glad you’re taking charge of your dating life!
Power outages her in California due to wind advisory, fire prevention. My frig. food will go bad, eek. Power should return tomorrow 🙄 hopefully.
Sending good vibes your way ✨️
My son is a Christian, so he knows there is an end of life. He post daily prayers on facebook. He has flourished in his life, has a contractor license specifically in plumbing and his annual income is comparable to a surgeon in the medical field.
I think it’s a good method to friendzone a candidate😅 … if it’s meant to be it will be. Most times it’s not meant to be so you can avoid too much attachment and waisting your energy
The way You speak about THE woman one can tell it’s not a match😮… ❤ It’s my opinion
Agree, watched the video and you can tell he’s just not that into her. He honestly sounds hung up on his ex-girlfriend.
@@JessicaPolman-i2pI think the ex girlfriend was disconnected from her soul and a kind of narcissistic.
BE BRAVE JONATHON 😊❤
Interesting video. Have fun on your date!
The cheater is just trying to get permission to cheat on her.
BTW, An interesting conversation posted by “A View From Appalachia” about dating. A guys perspective. Uploaded mid Jan 2025.