How other people DISRUPT your healing process after narcissistic abuse
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Other people who either have never seen the narcissistic abuse behind closed doors and or the narcissist doesn’t displays their ever true colors such as charming kind loving in public but mean rage full because behind closed doors they are mean resentful.
I hope you’ll be able to end the abuse ASAP
Then theres this thing called toxic positivity and your friend or whom ever is the pillar of community your so lucky that your friend is savor of the world
Stay strong Sunshine 🌞 Radical Acceptance might help to not personalize it, IT’S NOT YOU! ❤
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It’s great to have Dr Ramani’s ability to IDENTIFY with us ,not only to EMPATHIZE…
THANKS FOR STAYING IN THE FIGHT DR R AND ASSISTING US SURVIVE OUR INDIVIDUAL BATTLES!
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@Tina-yu1zeStay strong Tina and keep learning these skills and I’ll SEE YOU AT THE TOP! 🎉
We can only get to SURVIVOR by Learning! It works if we work it! Stay awesome Tina 🙌
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😍Thank you so much🙏💖💖💖Stay awesome too🎉🎉🎉
A Ramani a day keeps the narcissists away ❤️
Nice! I was thinking something with Ramadan 🤔😂 idk where I was going with that but it’s a start of a good Dr R. quote 😄
Better than Raman noodles
Might not keep em away, but at least we’re taught how to manage the interaction 🥳
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Many people don’t actually know what real emotional abuse is but they will always over look what they see because what they see on the outside.
People often can’t believe others will do things that they themselves would never do or which they haven’t experienced themselves. They cannot understand how insidious the words and patterns can be.
You get it, “And the Oscar for the best performance of the year”, OUR FRICKIN NARCI…!
THANK GOD for Dr Ramani becoming THE PRAYER 🙏🕊
@Listenmtys What I found works is if you just describe the negative behaviors in general and then ask if they’d encourage their children to marry an individual you described.
Then don’t respond further 😅
Love the book title message it’s not you
Apply Dr Ramani’s teachings to your life and I’ll
SEE YOU AT THE TOP OF SURVIVOR MOUNTAIN! The view is aaamazing!
The World needs your Beautiful Soul, Peace Be With You All on your journey! 😇
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Dr. R., you are so right about the narcissist missing the joy in the simple ordinary pleasures of life like “the flower in the garden,” that you mentioned. In my relationship with a narcissistic spouse, I was confused and perplexed and disappointed that she could never appreciate the songs of the birds in the trees, the gentle breeze and how it rustled the leaves, or the delicacy of the flowers. Wonderment, curiosity, contentment were absent in her. She instead was driven by the insatiable God-shaped hole in her heart that C.S. Lewis suggests is the reason for this emptiness that she tried to fill with go-go-go relentless activity, mindless, purposelessness, pleasure-seeking but never fulfilling endeavors. So sad. Tragic. Thank you for educating me and helping me to navigate this journey alone. Your videos and books have been instrumental in my healing through understanding.
Bright siding is just a way for others to minimize your pain so they do not feel bad.
…so THEY do NOT feel BAD and have a EASY life, but you feel worse afterwards thanks to them!!! Nobody needs a Bad advice!!!👎👎👎
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Most people are ill equipped or uncomfortable with others suffering in my experience.
Maybe it reveals the cracks in their lives….🤔🤷♂️
Thank you for validating that some of us get stuck in loops. <3
Nothing makes the long term abuse, smearing and destruction of who we are as victims, NOTHING makes that bs okay or tolerable. Life gets shorter every day.
Thankyou for the validation of the mix of feelings that survivors go thru.
I feel sad for your loss, it will pray for your health. You have helped me so much of the last two years and I have passed on your podcast for several of my friends and family and I have a big family 11 children and 38 grandchildren lots of prayers coming your way God bless you
How people dare to know better when they know nothing about other people’s individual Situation!!!😡😡😡
Their “good advices” which are Bad advices hurt the Person who suffers even more😢😢😢
Yes, truly an understatement.👍💯
Thank you. Needed this message today!!! ❤💐💐💐💐
I had a ‘tough” childhood and I don’t take it out on others, I learned from it.
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Some micromanagers mean well. Other micromanagers are covert narcs, who bully you and start smear campaigns when you don’t accept their ‘help’.
Oh how wonderful it would be to have a Healing retreat together
Thank-you, Dr. Ramani. I definitely needed this today.
Spot on. So good to hear. Hurts, but so true.