How to Avoid the Friendzone – Dating Advice for Men
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Hey guys, its Emyli and you're watching EmLovzTV, the place to be if you're looking to meet and attract beautiful women.
When I first began my research into the seduction field, the most intriguing question I faced was: Why I could be attracted to one guy who had no career, a limited education, a sub-par physique, and a bad attitude…….all the while be completely disinterested in other guys who were CEO's, had millions of dollars in the bank, had model-quality bodies, had extensive educations, and/or had a consistently positive personalities?
It seemed counter-intuitive, but I found that many other women were having the same experience.
WTF?…………..
Well, The Truth is: Hundreds of men struggle to avoid the friend zone and just as many women wonder why they aren't attracted to "Mr. Right." Well there is GOOD NEWS guys!
I found 3 simple steps that can help you successfully maneuver your way out of the friend zone and into her heart….
I'm gonna discuss it in this week's EmLovzTV video right inside this blog.
In this episode of EmLovzTV you will learn:
#1: Why a woman cannot be logically reasoned into liking you.
#2: How to increase your social value.
#3: How to avoid the friend zone by using reverse psychology on her.
Kinesthetic touch or "Kino" is one of the most important factors in avoiding the friend zone.
Even if you've properly opened and escalated conversation, if you don't apply the right amount of kino, you'll lose any chance for a sexual attraction.
This can be the most challenging aspect of creating chemistry. You don't want to come off as a creeper by being all touchy feely but you also don't want to be the dope that gets stuck as the buddy either.
Touch has to trigger her subconscious sexual association zones but be appropriate at the same time.
You want to start small and escalate over time by doing something she hardly registers like brushing the hair off her shoulder during conversation but never blatantly commenting on the action you're performing.
The importance of touch is vital for a successful seduction. A woman’s physical, kinesthetic interaction with you decreases her natural resistance and opens her up to your influence.
The psychology of human touch has been used in sales for decades. Smart sales associates know that when they shake hands or hug a potential customer, that they’re much closer to getting the deal.
Natural seduction is really just sales, in a different format… you are selling yourself.
It goes back to childhood and the psychological bond between mother and infant.
Humans love to be touched, when it’s appropriate of course, and the sooner you make physical contact with her, the sooner you’ll be able to solidify an intimate connection.
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Choosing a mate and logic don’t correlate with each other is what I have been saying since I was in high school. I used to be Casanova in my evil days, but now that I’m actually looking for a monogamist relationship finding a female is like looking for ice water in hell.
Hi Em, Love the videos. They’re a huge help for me, especially when it comes to messaging. I was wondering If you could suggest ideas for better profile pictures. From what I’ve come to understand, mine was terrible and I can’t really figure out what kind of picture I should use that ladies would find more appealing.
Of all the videos ive seen on this topic, this one has giving me the most solid answers. I think because you are a woman, i take more stock in the things you have said because it is from a womans perspective. Im a 31 y/o man who while ive been told im attractive, has never truly believed it and has not dated alot in my life. I also have many attractive female friends who all at one point were woman i was interested in but didnt have to confidence to pursue untill i was put in the dreaded Friendzone. It has now made me gun shy with other women because i all have in the back of my mind, that me pursing other women will just end up in making a another friend because women happen to really like me. Im working on having more confidence in myself with is paramount in making women find a man attractive. And seeing this will only help me in the future in meeting women. Thanks
Hello Em, I just saw your comment response. I will be emailing you shortly.
Hi em I’m from London England , what’s your thoughts on British women ?? Im thinking of coming to America because a couple of friend have found love there,is that because of accent ? X thanks
Step one: Be your own man. Step two: Stop playing games. Step three: Don’t think about having to get sex or having to get out of any silly zone. These are games for losers. Just find your propose in life and the right women will be brought into your life. She will see you are special because you are not playing these games. If you have play these games you both are losers.
+Free Breeze I would have liked to agree with you on that, but unfortunately I don’t. Life really is just one big game, whether we like it or not. The sooner some of us realize that, accept it and own up to it, the sooner we can progress in our lives, in all areas of our lives, including the relationship factor.
would this work if we both have boyfriends and girlfriends?
mgtow
10 dates a month?? I’m lucky to get one date in 10 months!!!!!
I had no date in 36 years. Time to to change it I guess.
You’re lucky, till date I have not been even on a single date!
ntnrocket1 My only date is with Rosy Palm! She can’t get knocked up and she’s also guaranteed to be disease-free!
Yeah that is why you should always be prepared cause women give out there number too 10 guys but only one can get to the second date
Thanks, Em. Much appreciated.
Emyli Volz does personality even matter anymore or is it just always physical attraction? 🙁
Emyli Volz okay thank you I misunderstood you I thought you said just your body attracted girls I don’t have to be super buff or anything do I?😂😂😂 I mean I have an OK body it’s got muscle I used to do some wrestling and cross-country I’m not perfect either. and I have had a girlfriend before
Emyli Volz and thank you so much!:D I’ll tell you one thing acne sucks considering I have lots of oil in my skin LOL
Emyli Volz can you please do a video on acne??? that would be amazing I’ll subscribe to you then I’ll know you made the video thank you so much for the video really appreciated it:)
Why play all these games. Why can’t honestly be the key? If I like you, I will let you know.
I agree with you Khalid. I think you should use honesty as an advantage when dating. Using only bits and pieces about yourself to see how the other reacts. And if the person doesn’t respect that part of you. BAM! Leave and move on.
Take it like this. Gaming in dates will most likely get you a hook up and more time with the girl your currently dating. But honesty is a good damn filter to only allow “decent” women to come into your life that respect you for who you are.
P.S. You can use honesty along with flirtation.
From “Wargames”:
“A strange game…..
The only winning move is not to play.”
My God why how come I have only discovered you now in 2018. I loved this video, I’m all in to hear more of what you have to say and teach. You Rock Em Lovz. Thumbs way up for me!
Thank you. I’m back on the YT bandwagon….stay tuned for more episodes 🙂
You’re awesome! I’m 27 and never had a gf. I’m not an extrovert, just not confident with women. I subscribed to your channel
Wow! Thanks for the like @emlovz Update: I’m 30 and still no gf lol
10 a month??? If I could do that, I would not be watching this silly video!
Very good video… Greetings from Chicago…
If she puts you into the friend zone, just simply dont be friends anymore. Its impossible to friendship your way into her pants
@1:48 “Contrary to popular belief, women don’t exercise sound judgement when selecting a partner.”
LOL!!!!!!! THANK YOU EM! I haven’t laughed that hard in a loooong time! LOL!
Popular belief!?! Who the @%#$ EVER thought for even an instant, that a woman has EVER used “sound judgement” when selecting a “partner”!!???!! LOL!!!!!!!!
Best advice : You are the prize
And guess what, i still fon’t know how to get out of friendzone.