How To Be More Masculine In Dating & Relationships (From A Woman’s Perspective)
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Happy Sunday, Courtney and Fellow Viewers! Wishing everyone a wonderful start to the new week!
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I think the best way to be masculine in a relationship is to be authentic and true to yourself.
Because feminine women can’t be authentic and true to themselves?
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There’s definitely some norms and standards if we all decide what’s masculine and the other person doesn’t like it or what not you can’t just keep thinking “I’m being true to myself therefore I’m masculine” I think there’s a bigger underlying question that needs to be answered and not just the surface be true to yourself. Just sounds like a green light to be how you want without considering what the other person wants or likes.
Unless yourself is feminine
CAN’T be masculine if you aren’t 6’5”…
Integrity is the one thing I stress the most in anyone from the moment they enter to the moment they exit my life. Plus, as a veteran, this was drilled hard into me throughout my career in the military! Applying it everywhere is no different. You watch what people do, not what they say!
Love this. Thanks Tommy!
@@CourtneyRyan always a pleasure
Honestly I think that these four things are pretty valid. Thanks Courtney for your womanly insight.
It’s my pleasure! ❤️
@@CourtneyRyan You bet.
Another excellent video, Courtney. Your first point about maintaining integrity in your relationships is so important. A lot of men expect to be viewed as trustworthy without acting in a way that’s worthy of trust.
Yet, we should “trust all women”?
🤌🏼 thank you so much!
I agree with the four points you listed, and I encourage everyone to keep an open mind when watching this video. Whether you are single or not, the points listed in this video are things that a person ought to be doing in their own daily lives. Commit to your goals, be personable with others, adopt proactive habits, give yourself some space when you need it, and be ready to step up. These are some of the many keys to keeping your life in order.
1. Show integrity and reliability (follow through with your promises and learn to admit)
2. See, hear & understand (create emotional safety and stability)
3. Stay focused & disciplined
4. Take initiative and embrace leadership (taking responsibility in guiding decisions)
I only read money, money, money and money. 1. It’s difficult to be reliable without money. 2. It’s difficult to be emotional stable when your financial situation is negative. 3. It’s difficult to be focused and disciplined when you don’t make enough money on what you do. 4. It’s difficult to be a leader if you don’t have significantly more money than her.
All of this is good and yes this does show masculinity. But some women just can’t be pleased and you will never be good enough for them they have too much trauma and some of them are just critical of every single mistake u make.
My experience was everytime I slipped up, I was hammer for it as though I never did anything right. I ca
Good list, but I don’t necessarily regard any of this as inherently masculine. It’s attractive to have your stuff together, but this list is all including things I’d find attractive and desirable in women too. The last one is the one that seems debatble, since there persists a narrative that men lead and women follow, but I know so many women who are capable of taking initiative and leading in multiple situations. I think the idea that men “don’t care” if a woman is emotionally stable, good at listening, mature, disciplined, reliable or anything else as long as she’s hot is kind of a myth. Maybe it’s just me, but I doubt it.
Don’t make any promises you can’t keep. Maybe’s often are interpreted as yes.
Don’t assume when there’s a high probability of being incorrect. Better to ask within reason, be genuine, it’s appreciated. Women appreciate being real. Makes her feel safe and she can blossom in her femininities. Careful with her reasonable expectations. Call her on her unrealistic expectations and any hypocrisy. Shared triumphs over adversity make couple trust and respect, it’s a great foundation for a healthy relationship
Consistency is king
I am consistently unreliable. 😅
Autistic man here, so I view human interactions quite differently.
With that said, every point you mention are traits I look for in women. How are the traits you describe exclusively in the domain of the man? Please do make a video in the same vein that describes femininity–perhaps including how these differ.
Despite this, I think you’re absolutely spot on in your description of masculinity. It is revealing to see a woman in 2024 give such a detailed analysis of masculinity without calling us ‘toxic.’
If I could Thanos-snap my finger and give every woman alive the attitude and mentality you’ve cultivated, the man vs. woman culture war would end overnight.
Important things: 1:00 First Thing ÷ Show Integrity And Reliability; 3:30 Second Thing ÷ See, Hear, & Understand; 5:44 Third Thing ÷ Stay Focused & Disciplined; 7:17 Fourth Thing ÷ Take Initiative & Embrace Leadership; and 9:36 to summarize all the told here.
Additional thing would be also Fifth Thing ÷ Be A Man With The Plan. Partly this can be also used at the fourth thing that you have told as well, Courtney.
When I was listening to you Courtney, I remembered one quote that I saw. It goes like this: “Don’t give up on yourself and your goals. You can be an inspiration to someone.”
at least credit the ai you used to make this
@@Pikawarps Well I’m not artificial intelligence if you mean on that.
@@Pikawarps He provided a basic analysis. Whilst he seems to need serious help, due to doing this in nearly every video, I doubt the 5th-grade reading level was formed by an advanced AI.
Happy Sunday much blessings to you. I definitely agree 💯 with the advices as always. Plus Love the classic looks. Chef’s kiss 🤌
Another way to be more masculine is to establish boundaries with your partner in a firm and healthy manner. You don’t want to be a toxic asshat, but women typically find men who have boundaries and who wont tolerate bullshit to be sexy. It shows you have a sense of dignity/respect for yourself, which comes across as masculine and attractive
Courtney, you said that when a man is more masculine it allows the woman to feel more feminine. I would love to hear an elaboration on that. What authentic behaviors do we see when a woman feels free to be her most feminine?
Staying calm and less emotional in difficult situations is super masculine, very true. You can’t be more emotional than your girlfriend.
Setting clear, reasonable boundaries in a relationship and be willing to walk away if the boundaries are violated.
My last relationship was destroyed by taking initiative and leadership. She was very introverted and submissive, but had an underlying stubbornness to “resist” my initiative because she was raised with the “I don’t need no man” mentality. I’ve actually noticed that among many women I’ve talked to. So I stopped, and it resulted in us just sitting around all day doing nothing and accomplishing nothing.
You’ve said it perfectly. Thank you. Also, I think these are universal. They work well for guys and girls.
1. Be handsome
2. Be attractive
3. Be good looking
4. Be hot
5. Be gorgeous