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How to Get Over your Ex Wife |How to Get Over a Breakup | How to Move on from a Relationship is a RenesanceMan Production is about how to get over a breakup for men. After thousands of hours of research and going through my own personal betrayal, here's only one of the beginning of a few episodes on how to get over a divorce for guys. Truth is, men have less options and it's seen as weakness when we hurt for our loved one and we're alone, more alone than ever. How to get over your ex when they are with someone else, grief and how to cope with a broken heart for men, we’re going to discuss grief and how to cope with a broken heart, grief and how to cope with a broken heart, how to go thru a divorce for guys, how to get over your ex girlfriend when you still love her, how to move on from a relationship when you are still in love How to get over a breakup when you still love her surviving a divorce for men, is a personal growth on youtube channels video. In this episode we're going to discuss how to get over her and if it's love or limerence and the difference between the two, later rebound sex will be discussed as well and getting over breakup motivation. She's movinShe's Moving on and you Don't Want to Let Go | How to get over a breakup when you still love her I started writing and word smiting this episode almost a year ago because I had to get it right. Spoke to relationship experts, psychiatrists and even my own doctor. I interviewed and have personally spent countless hours speaking to men either grieving towards their breakup or inevitable breakup and lemme tell you, you’re not alone and you’re not weak, you’re human and it’s normal. I think what hurts the most was realizing how insignificant you have become to that person. The sooner you get over the relationship, the easier it will be to forgive yourself and move forward.

Listen to this part please because it’s very important. If you are still in a relationship and going through the breakup, you need to ask yourself if it’s love or limerence. This is important because you have to ask yourself if the relationship is really worth saving. We all know what love is, limerence however something much more different. You can think of limerence as an addiction to someone, an emotional dependence, an obsessive compulsive thought. If you’ve seen the movie Casino, Sharon Stone’s character plays an extreme case limerence with James Cahn being the Limerent Object. Only you can answer that question but if it’s limerence, you’re not in a healthy relationship. You need to get the bleep out. But that’s about as easy as telling an alcoholic to stop drinking or to drink in moderation.

I began this research as I was going through the break up because I felt I had one chance to get it right. The following is what I did.

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  • @ortallevitan1 says:

    This video was EXCELLENT! thanks so much for all the information

  • @seahaltura7116 says:

    Great insights. This advice is what many people need to know especially those who are having issues with their relationships.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach says:

      Thank you Seah, you’re correct. Often, we confuse love and limerence. Such a dangerous zone.

  • @juancarlosalvarado3904 says:

    Excellent advice, it really hit the spots. It took me 9 years to get thru this. I wished I had seen this video back then, it would had help me tremendously. Thank you Mr Renesance man…excellent advice.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach says:

      Thank you Juan Carlos. That means a lot. It’s so important to change your paradigm in life and that’s such a challenge to do when you go through such trauma.

  • @jasoncarnicelli144 says:

    Fantastic video. And it really is Renaissance period that a man must go through as Rene indicates. A man must be willing to give himself permission to be really attentive to himself during this time where he works to find himself, reinvent himself. Rene’s insight will help many men, and helps me!

  • @pearlfisher2813 says:

    19 years, and still hurting. Years and years of anti depressants, and 15 years of post break up heroin addiction have rendered me an empty vessel. Constant melancholy, darkness, and pain. I can’t find a way out apart from the obvious ( which I contemplate constantly ) . I hate being like this but at 59 years of age I couldn’t get back into the dating, meeting potential partners game etc, I have neither the inclination nor the energy to go down that route.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach says:

      Pearlfisher: Rather than assume what you’re going through, instead, under the comment section, there’s my FB Group. Join it so we can communicate. Let’s talk one to one. I’d love to hear from you and hear your story.

    • @craignodder6051 says:

      Orr bless you l sore you will get throw this all the best n see a doctor 🙏

    • @novaheads says:

      You have to move on for yourself man. You control your emotions

    • @joaquinfigueroa3640 says:

      Turn to God, my man. Jesus is the way.

  • @andyc3537 says:

    Great advice…my now ex wife divorced me and I didn’t know it was coming at all…I threw myself back into training and boxing and I feel better than I have for years…
    I will not allow her actions to dictate how i will live my life… get busy and do the things you love..
    Health and happiness to you all all.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach says:

      I love your attitude. It hurts man. I know. Thank you for your comment. I hope you’re doing well and thriving.

    • @andyc3537 says:

      @@Mensdivorcecoach thank you so much I really appreciate your reply and your so so right..Getting busy is the best thing you can do. And I had to laugh at the ring tone and names.. it does help for sure. And most of all. The most important.. dont look for her life on social media or anywhere. I’m embarrassed to say she controlled everything.. her deciding to divorce me without me knowing was the best thing to happen to me for a long time..
      She probably hates I’m doing well right now. She loves her job of power..
      Proper narcissist behaviour..
      Better off without her even though it made me homeless.. Every cloud has a silver lining if you work at it…
      Great advice for anyone going through a break up whether it be weeks or years.. if your the only person fully committed your wasting your love on the wrong person… wishing you a super day every day…and thank you..👍

    • @Mensdivorcecoach says:

      Andy, my pleasure. You’re the reason why I started this channel. Hope you join our FB Group. Would love to continue our communication.

  • @Mensdivorcecoach says:

    Make your free 90 Minute Consultation at https://calendly.com/renesance/free-consultation because you should go through this alone. 3/4 of divorced men seek professional help, why not hire someone that’s highly specialized only in divorced men.

  • @NavD1 says:

    thank you for the advice brother

  • @gamrleomord937 says:

    My wife just left me 3 weeks ago and I can’t even bring myself to get the divorce papers! This video was super helpful, I’ve been in the depressed phase and have drank nearly every day since she left but I am seeing now that alcohol is only making it worse, I want to feel positive about myself again and just co parent with her. I know that moving on is for the best I just can’t seem to do it

  • @fernandocabanillas8133 says:

    I love your video brother, it’s just so fucking hard after 27 years and 4 children with the youngest is six years old. I really don’t want to have to start over again but I know eventually I have to.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach says:

      Thank you for your comment and there are 1000s of guys like you so you’re not alone. Why don’t you join our free and private FB Group? It’s the fastest growing group regarding divorce. All I ask is you answer the questions saying that I invited you. Here’s the link you wont be disapointed: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1381621565353978

  • @brandonsmith302 says:

    Thank you for your honesty. It’s very supportive.

  • @Americanpatriot-zo2tk says:

    There’s no such thing as being boring are weak minded because you’re upset that your marriage failed. All that says is that you cared about it. I’m not going to pin the blame on women or men but I will say this not everybody is committed to their relationships. This gentleman just pretty good advice in my opinion.

    • @Mensdivorcecoach says:

      Thank you for your kind comment. I did a study to see what works best. Hope you got the opportunity to see it. It’s under 4 ways to get over your ex. The results surprised me.

  • @gilbertperez1589 says:

    My wife just left me after 22 years of marriage and she is filing for divorce . I don’t know what the heck happened!!!
    I want to thank you for your videos they are very helpful!

    • @Mensdivorcecoach says:

      Thank you Gilbert.. I hear that a lot, guys say it was all of a sudden but signs are always there. A guy once told me his ex left him and that it came out of nowhere. She had cheated on him several times before as he would catch her and he said it came out of nowhere. That’s of course an extreme example but signs are always there. I work with guys and caution them about this because they’re in danger of repeating the same mistake if they don’t know. Relationships, they repeat themselves if no growth has taken place and I’m perfectly aware of this because I am guilty of it also in my past.

  • @CoachKen10 says:

    I love this video Coach Rene!

    • @Mensdivorcecoach says:

      Thank you brother. You know what’s crazy, this was the video that ultimately made me decide where I was supposed to go. To become a DiVo coach.

  • @stanmoney8470 says:

    My second divorce,my wife divorced me. Its hard to move on . Im doing it, but i think about her everyday! I wanted us too keep working on things! She quit!

  • @stanmoney8470 says:

    It doesn’t make you weak, it’s normal.

  • @stephenhenson7973 says:

    Me and my wife of 38 years had just over a year where we slept in Separate rooms and didn’t talk. Then 6 months ago I found out she was sleeping with someone when I confronted her she left and went to her parents and is still seeing this other man. I’m devastated and have tried to talk to her but she doesn’t want to know me. I just don’t know what to do as I’m 60 now and feel life’s ended

  • @stanmoney8470 says:

    I unfriended my ex wife on social media. Sometimes I regret, but then I don’t feel as bad because she divorced me! That hurted me like hell! It still hurts like hell! I still laugh and talk with others. They just dont know the hurt i feel inside. She is divorced me like I wasn’t nothing to her! No respect for our marriage!

  • @fernandomacedo9586 says:

    Going through a very painful divorce, it’s been 5 months since the breakup, it’s been hard because I have a beautiful daughter with my ex-wife, and it makes it more difficult because I have to be in contact with her, I don’t know how to behave around my ex, if I behave indifferent or like nothing happened, or happy or what??? This videos are amazing and very helpful, keep up the good work, see you on the other side!!!

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