How To Keep A Woman Interested (From A Woman’s Perspective)
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ANSWER: A man MUST stick a credit card to his forehead where the woman can always see it.
He will NEVER lose her attention now.
Courtney with more Big Sis advice is always great 😊
Thank you my friend 🥰 enjoy your Sunday!
Wonder how true it is that the worse thing you can be to a women is boring, hence why funny / ambition is attractive as well as the other end of the spectrum which is why women stick around even in those kinds of relationships
Therefore, you have two options: Be the dancing monkey with a new funny performance every time she starts to get bored. Or, be ambitious enough to earn the resources to take her somewhere new every time she gets bored.
@@pace1195But don’t be working too manying long hours where you aren’t around, she’ll get bored there too and stray on you.
Be active, do hobbies, make money!
The problem is most of the man’s hobbies cost money just like women’s hobbies. Better make more money.
Exactly, women should not be the end all, be all of men’s lives.
This video is another “Happy Wife Happy Life” video. Trash.
@@taras3702 but men are also punished if women aren’t the end all and be all of their lives.
to simply put, men have to constantly adjust themselves because women will refuse to hold onto any standard of discipline or coherent behavior. so even simple things become extremely taxing.
it’s like turn a task as simple as “pick up a bolt and secure it to the slot on the front end of the bed frame without one”
into:
1.walk to bolt in 6 paces….
2.bring your hand to do a lord’s bow in front of the bolt
3.recite the word of the lord god feminism by heart without error
4.lower hand to your feet.
5.raise hand to reach for the bolt.
6.cry to god about the heresy of your existence as a man with a functioning genitalia
7. bring bolt to bedframe
8.circumvent the bedframe 4 times clockwise and 3 anti-clockwise
9.remove the bolts of the bed and pray to feminism again
10.now place the bolts exactly as is demanded by the woman.
as ludicrous as this sounds, appealing to women to do any task they demand you to do will feel like this because the moment you simply do ANYTHING even remotely with delay, not in the order they like or in a manner she does not explicitly state is correct…. she will lecture you plenty for that mistake
It’s about intimacy, happiness, self improvement
Happy Sunday episode viewers!
satisfaction is key 👏
Until the man is too smothering, the woman is bored, and the man gets sick or injured. Then the satisfaction is GONE, and likely the woman is too.
Keeping a woman interested when you’re still dating is one thing. Keeping a woman interested once you live together or you’re married is another. Keeping a woman interested once kids enter the picture is a whole different ballgame entirely. When kids consume the attention of both parents, especially the mother, keeping the spark alive is nearly impossible. Courtney, if you ever have kids, you can do a video on that dynamic. 😅
Actually this is a very good comment.
Keeping the spark alive when you both have children isn’t impossible, but it does take a lot work and true commitment to each other.
You shouldn’t have to _keep_ someone interested. Who wants to be a slave like that? Stay or go because I can tell you this, most women aren’t interesting on deep level to men. Expecting a man to work to keep her interest while she just shows up is NOT worth it.
Very good point
Great point. It takes a lot of intelligence from the man, especially after a long marriage, and it helps if age of the man and woman is similar, in my opinion. Not impossible !
Important things: 0:23 First Thing ÷ Keep Things Interesting; 3:47 Second Thing ÷ Show Genuine Curiosity In Her; 6:53 Third Thing ÷ Have Your Own Life; 8:56 Fourth Thing ÷ Follow Through; 9:32 Fifth Thing ÷ Affection And Appreciation; and 11:16 to summarize all the told here.
What you have told Courtney it’s so correct. I might add few additional things. And those are these: Sixth Thing ÷ Knowing When To Be Serious And When To Be Relaxed; Seventh Thing ÷ Be A Supportive (but this can be also considered with women as well). When I mentioned sixth thing, I meant that you have to have balanced thing when it’s okay to joke relaxed, and when you will talk serious thing.
From all the told here it can be told that the deeds, and the gestures (the small gestures especially), can be shown how much does someone care about the loved one’s (either they are interested in us, or either that they are not) (and that’s from men’s, and women’s perspective).
If a woman is not interested in you she can WALK. Entitled, immature persons who needs to be entartained to not be bored are grown kids who don’t deserve your own precious time.
Love and affection are on ANOTHER level, and most of these people does not deserve your efforts because are totally immature.
Right on. 💯
If she’s not interested, she WILL walk, after taking advantage of you if you allow it.
Title is misleading. There is no such thing as keep interested. It’s a concept based on entitlement. Either both want to stick together and make their relationship the best possible or someone is just wasting their time.
You phucking get it. Well done fellow sir. Well flipping done. This video is trash “Happy Wife Happy Life” by her.
Lack of effort to keep the other person interested even in long term relationships still kills the relationship. Putting it on autopilot leads to divorce. I know from experience.
That’s true. Your partner should compliment your life – not complicate it. If it’s the latter it’s best for both to call it off.
There seems to be a gap between what women say and what men experience.
I think it’s because while Courtney comes from a good place, she is totally unaware of guys’ experience in the dating market, or at least most guys’ experience. She gives cookie cutter advice that is generally good for you but doesn’t result in more dates.
When you do these things there should be reciprocation. If there is none, plan on moving on, soon.
I will openly admit that being boring is my number one flaw. I’m handsome—I’ve got a very attractive face, abs, wide shoulders, and nearly zero percent body fat. Women look at me as I walk by, often turning into zombies hypnotized by my looks and following me around. I’m not kidding; I’ve accidentally hit women with my elbow while turning around because I didn’t realize a hot woman like Courtney was just a few inches behind me, following me the whole time. Yes, I’m that guy who makes stunning women act as if they’re under some kind of spell.
And yes, I do have a playful, sinister urge to tease women, but I make sure to be responsible and immediately stop if I sense it could cause her emotional harm, switching to big brother mode instead. I’ve got that power! The problem is, I’m also the most BORING person you’ll ever meet! I don’t drink and look down on drinking, so you’ll never see me at popular bars or pubs. No drugs, so you won’t find me at the well-known hotspots. I’m not into body modifications, so I’m not at trendy downtown places. I’m actually a misanthrope, so you won’t see me shopping at Walmart or visiting Disney World or any amusement parks. I’ve never been to jail because I’m not a thrill-seeker.
I personally don’t have a problem with my natural boringness, but that’s why my longest relationship to date has been only three years, and even those three years felt like two years too long for her. I felt bad for her for sticking with me for two years after she lost interest in the first year after we met. There’s really nothing I can do to be less boring. So, if you like a guy who is eye candy but will bore you to death, then I’m your guy!
Eh, simply put, I’m that fancy looking action figure you played with as a kid and then dropped on the floor to collect dust after you got bored playing with it.
Emotional bonding key to keep women interested.
Is it a bad thing that as I go along watching this video, I feel a tad more repulsed upon entering a relationship? This all feels too tiring
It’s more “Happy Wife Happy Life” nonsense
What, don’t feel like being a workhorse/jester/wage slave perpetually until someone better comes along?
Notice how a man has to keep a woman interested but it doesn’t ever seem to be reciprocal. 🤔
Something seems a bit……lopsided?
Why does it seem like keeping a woman interested is on the same level as keeping a child entertained with coloring books & puzzles?
Because they’re Adult Children.
Read “Schopenhauer on women”
Every time I set the dates up either she would flake and want to reschedule or not want to do what was planned. We guys need to just stop chasing after them, if someone is interested in you then go with the flow. No need to play these silly immature games. Especially after age 30
It is easy to keep a woman interested. It is hard to find a woman who is actually worth your time, which is the actual problem cause most aren’t worth your time. Know your worth and value your time. Time isn’t something you can get back so value it and especially for who you spend it with. Focus on your goals whether career, physical, etc. So far at 22, I have a couple of exes and only one treated me good but certain values didn’t click so I split with her. My first good one was my most recent ex. She restored my faith in women. Now I just chill out and do me with family and friends. Prioritize yourself. Key tip: if you don’t feel peaceful around them or your mind is stressing out, she ain’t it chief. You need to feel at peace with the woman you are with. Remember a woman has the capability of making or breaking a man. So pick carefully.
Well, if dating apps are any indicator, and the few dates I’ve gotten out of them (I’m in my 50s) for most of them you need to eat out at a lot of restaurants, travel places, and visit NYC for events. Oh, and preferably they want me to be the one planning it and bankrolling it all.