How Women Act Around Attractive Men (& What It Means)

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  • @BlxckVanilla says:

    I am attractive after watching this 👀😂

  • @SweepTheLeg31 says:

    ❤😂 *First woman on the Moon:*
    “Houston, we have a problem.”
    What?
    “Never mind”
    What’s the problem?
    “Nothing”
    Please tell us?
    “You know what the problem is.”

  • @Vergil14 says:

    A lot of what was said makes sense. But there’s a question I have that maybe you could do another video on: what happens if a woman shows and does everything in this video, but then when directly asked, she says “I’m like this with everyone” OR just says “I’m being nice”?

    • @Cee_Eff says:

      I’ve gotten a lot of that-I figure that she got her daily attention fix, plus she the bonus having to reject a guy as well.

    • @AverageYoutuber6615 says:

      Could just mean she’s insecure about herself

    • @pace1195 says:

      She’s phishing for simps. Many of these are sales tactics to get resources from an ignorant customer. She’s not really attracted to you. You just have something she wants, usually time and/or money to give her.

    • @Celi.S.00 says:

      Attention and validation, that’s it.

    • @TheCapn23 says:

      Take her word for it and move on to the next one. It ain’t worth your effort playing games like that. If she wanted to, she would.

  • @johngonzalez4298 says:

    Happy Wednesday, Courtney ❤! I received 2 compliments yesterday from 2 different women which was a nice feeling since I don’t get compliments often. First compliment was I was told I looked spiffy. Second compliment was I was told that I looked great

  • @karuns9500 says:

    Question: If women know the non-verbal, subconscious cues, wouldn’t it just allow them to use it consciously when they may not actually be interested and using it for a confidence boost? That’s where lines get blurred.

    • @HateBear-real says:

      They’re good at manipulation, so it’s best to sidestep the whole game. The ones that make good wives don’t give any guys signals. If she gave you signals, then she gave every player in a thousand mile radius signals too and probably banged half of them. You don’t want that type of girl.

  • @nickc3856 says:

    If you have to ask, she doesn’t find you attractive.

  • @tommygunn6901 says:

    Just met someone recently and already, she complimented me first! She had told me I was unique based on our conversations, not to mention she was the one who would keep it going

    • @dannylifted says:

      How did you meet her? My problem is meeting anybody at all. All of this advice assumes you already have some degree of repour or familiarity with the other person. But how is the initial repour being built? Anybody who isn’t in college might as well be living on a desert island, it’s extremely difficult to gain any familiarity with anybody at all.

    • @tommygunn6901 says:

      @dannylifted  it’s called putting yourself out there, and not give a damn what anyone thinks. It begins with your mindset. With your mentality that you have right now, you’re getting pulverized. Stop fixating on other’s journeys and outcomes and worry about you! Then…and only then will you see something different

    • @ZZstaff says:

      @@dannylifted It is a learning experience. Pay attention to the importance and needs of others, be respectful yet strong, learn to be at ease around everyone and learn ways to inject proper comments at the proper time. Watch others who have these qualities and learn from them.

  • @masonbhunter says:

    1. She becomes more aware of her appearance. Will touch hair, look at self, adjust clothes etc.
    2. Energy shifts. Either more engaged and confident or more shy, more nervous.
    3. Her friends start paying attention to you.
    4. Asks personal questions. Goes deeper than small talk.
    5. Mirroring. She will begin to mimic your body language unconsciously.
    6. Makes an effort to keep the conversation going.
    7. She compliments you.
    8. Finds ways to touch you.

    • @Concatenate says:

      So, the same stuff you can find in any article or video that’s been done thousands of times? What a revelation.

    • @zenan316 says:

      I swear she did a video like this like 2-3 months ago?

      Like almost the same video and the same points?

    • @Celi.S.00 says:

      I think all this is pretty obvious.

    • @Jondoe-n8i says:

      We all know the signs by now. It’s not so easy identifying these things in the moment. Most can be easily mistaken for common courtesy. Particularly if we’re talking about someone in the workplace, or in their workplace.

      A good example would be a coworker of mine that I know for certain is interested. I’ve already proven it. Yet, whenever she’s around, her behavior never crosses the line between interest and common courtesy. She’s complimented me a few times….. “You’re the nicest guy that works here”, and “it’s good to see you” several times. Oh, and “you certainly look much younger than XYZ”.

      While these are flattering compliments, none of them are overt either. But she has been seeking me out for conversation more often lately. I figured out she was into me 18 months ago! But she is/was involved with someone at that time. For all I know, that may have changed.

  • @DevidSword says:

    I’m wrestling with a paradox. Courtney, your videos are helping with this.

    The paradox is that men often avoid approaching and engaging because they don’t want to bother women or seem creepy. But in my experience and observations, women respond well to almost any genuine attention. Any little effort may be appreciated. That’s precisely what they find attractive.

    And what is unattractive? Simply not engaging. Being that silent guy who just looks and never approaches, that feels creepy to women.

    I’m most ways convinced that that same guy could approach and be received positively. She might like him, if he got to know her and opened up to her.

    If a man doesn’t approach, doesn’t open up, doesn’t engage with her personally, he doesn’t look like much of a man in her eyes anymore. He becomes wallpaper.

  • @derhamcohomology says:

    The problem with this type of lists is that if a guy likes a girl, he already has emotions that will affect his assessment of reality and he will be able to interpret every action, word or gesture of hers to fit this pattern, and objectively on her part it may not mean anything big. There is one lesson: if you like a girl, don’t analyze, just show initiative and take action.

    • @HateBear-real says:

      It takes quite a lot of development for a guy to do this, but it’s the best choice. It’s more likely that if you have done a ton of work and built value, you’re too busy and not attuned. You can’t see these signs anyway. In what little free time you have, just go for it immediately. If no one interests you, go somewhere else. I’m about to functionally retire at 37, so I’ve given it some thought.

  • @sorbpen says:

    When women start asking me questions like “do you want children” I get the feeling they are into me.

  • @slartibartfast2452 says:

    How many times can you film the same video?

  • @TheCapn23 says:

    Lots of eye contact is the most obvious sign in my experience.

  • @AG-rc2np says:

    I’ve found it’s best to notice these things in clusters. One of these in a vacuum is just a coincidence IMO.

    Recently, I was introduced to a girl and she sat up straight, leaned back, moved her hair behind her ear and looked me head to toe. It was pretty obvious.

    Unfortunately, she was the new hire at work.

  • @Harikejn says:

    Important things: 0:31 First Thing ÷ She Becomes More Aware Of Her Appearance; 1:29 Second Thing ÷ Her Energy Shifts; 2:21 Third Thing ÷ Her Friends Suddenly Pay Attention To You; 2:57 Fourth Thing ÷ She Asks Personal Questions; 3:42 Fifth Thing ÷ She Mirrors Your Movements; 4:32 Sixth Thing ÷ She Makes An Effort To Stay In The Conversation; 5:21 Seventh Thing ÷ She Compliments You; 5:56 Eighth Thing ÷ She Finds A way To Touch You Even Subtly; and 7:07 to summarize all the told here.
    The person that remembers the details and that pays attention to what is soulmate talking really means that someone cares, and that goes equally for men and women. The euphoria shown to the person that is attractive to us is always shifting the energy. As for compliments additional compliments would of been these: “I like the way how you think;” “Wow, I never thought of that before. Thank you for your enlightened” (In Balkan peninsula enlightened means things such as showing: how is someone clever, smart, and also that is showing wisdom); “Thank you for your support”.
    Thank you Courtney for your wisdom.
    La perfection madam.

  • @ScottyCof93 says:

    I think #6 is the most tricky one. Because I’ve experienced this both ways.

    If the girl is confident, then I agree. She will put in effort to keep the conversation going and make eye contact. However, if the girl is insecure or if she is normally confident but she finds the guy she is talking to very attractive and that makes her feel temporarily insecure, then she will make very little eye contact and give little effort to keep the conversation going.

    It isn’t, because she isn’t interested, but rather she is afraid of making the wrong move. She wants to make eye contact and talk, she just can’t.

    But this is why it’s always best for men to shoot their shot regardless of how she is acting. Because women are very beautiful, but can be very hard to read even with a manual and rejection is far better than regret. Finding out years later that a cute girl liked you, but acted like I just described, so you never asked, sucks. Lol

  • @SkittyDoogle says:

    One I noticed is that if they think you’re attractive they will compare you to male celebrities. In my line of work (hospital setting) I’ve had that happen on many occasions.

  • @WORKOUTSOLUTIONS says:

    Praying you all have a blessed Great Lent ✝🙏⛪💛🕊

  • @ZZstaff says:

    I have had some of these things happen to me recently. I am 75 years old, widowed and not handsome, she is about 34 years old. Although I am old there are several things that are positive, among them, learned, college educated, not in debt of any kind, reached high levels in fields of business and military, vast life experiences, take strides to effectively understand others, among other things. I suppose age is not a barrier for some as long as a man has been successful and has his life together.

    • @joonaheikkero432 says:

      It’s kind of funny that I’m in love with a 33 year old but I’m 22 and you’re 75🤣
      I guess 30-40 age is just the most attractive😅

  • @luminarachronicles says:

    If you keep failing with women, do this:

    – Stop overtexting & being too available
    – Learn to walk away when she’s not interested
    – Build your confidence through action (gym, hobbies, work)
    – Read the book called Celestial Soulmate (personal preference)
    – Focus on your own life first – women come later

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