If He Shows Avoidant Attachment, Do THIS! | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
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Thanks for sharing.
AHHHHH! That’s just what happened to me. He’s a great human, He was perplexing to me. This explains a lot.
However, he was not malicious in any way shape or form. Never did I spot any of these identification factors.
This just happened!
We had amazing dates, communication so we planned a weekend where on Friday we would go out with my friends and on Saturday we would go out with his. After Friday night, the next morning he said he hadn’t felt this way in years and needed to process his feelings. He canceled our plans for Saturday.
I would have been ok with him stepping back to process but I was not ok with canceling plans. This left me dealing with friends asking how it went with his friends, it left me with no plans on Saturday (it was racing season and I’d gone to a lot of trouble to secure tables both days at the track), and canceling reservations.
I felt he could have made it through Saturday then go process (he’s 70 😂). I ended things.
Was I right?
I’m not the expert for sure but that is entirely subjective to your comfort level. At 70 I wouldn’t even know what to say so you may have dodged a bullet 😅 If he reaches out and apologizes and stops doing that then maybe give him a chance if you really like him with clear boundaries.
Hi Matt, your clarification of the last “Red flag” is completely “Spit On” regarding my own ex relationship…my ex used to keep saying, how I’m such a “Big Part If His Life” because I was with him from “beginning to end” on his journey of “Healing” from “Childhood Trauma”… only to have him invest in a 3/4 year relationship, with a 40 year old, whom basically “Had It All”- finances, house, car, etc…”LIVING THE LIFE OF RILEY” (British terminology by the way!). But for me the most heart wrenching “Act” was the “Audacity” he had was of the, “Coming And Going” back into my life… foolishly I fell for the lies and manipulation, in the “Grand Dialogue Of” “I’ve Changed” and now “Only Want You”!!! Wow! Such a “Slap In My Face” after 7 years and 7 months of “Giving My All” like the “Empath I Am”.
Is being avoidant the same as being passive aggressive?
Hi Matt, Thank you for your great clarification on red flags to look for, now I’ve realised there are too many red flags time for me to walk
Matt thnks you once again for the video; ex used to always say when i trued to be vulnerable & express my feelings was ” just enjoy the moment now”
Great video Mat… so important. One major one I would add: avoidant after conflict. I think this could be the most painful aspect of avoidants…and the most difficult to address… for me, anyway, as my attachment style has some anxious traits (still working on it 😊), and my partner is an angel but avoidant (also working on it ❤)
Your dating videos are the best on YouTube. You give real advice that is super helpful. I just wanted to say, I appreciate all that you do.
I was with one. I heard “you are nitpicking” lol..the slow/ignoring texts because he was suddenly super busy at work lol.. and everything started after we had that more serious commitment talk (thinking about near future plans). Ah, I also heard, “i never had that communication issues with my exes”. Then I did the opposite you are saying on this video, I was pushing and chasing as he pulled away even more. When I finally realized he was not the one or vice versa.
Strong connection formed quickly. Feeling your boundaries lose their strength in regards to the person. Instead of resolving conflict with you, choosing to distance from you instead. Feeling their issues become your issues. Kept at a distance from the person’s family or friends. Having an ambiguous bond with the person that feels significant nonetheless.
Someone started a conversation about my photo looking at a bike on a dating app one line sentence went on uncomfortably long. He didn’t get to continue blocked.
I JUST went thru thus x 11 months of amazing!! He was getting closer, deeper conversations, the way he treated me and behaved towards me….and then almost a year! Moving on, heartbreaking….