If She Does THIS, She’s Testing You

A lot of guys hear “test” and think it’s a trap. But most of the time, it’s not games, it’s how she sees if you’re genuine, consistent, and a good match. From how you handle curveballs to whether you respect her boundaries, these “tests” reveal if your actions actually line up with your words. The reality is, you're probably testing her too.

Andrew McLaurin
 

  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani says:

    Yes, us women like to test men. We try not to make it to obvious.

  • @UndrtdHistory says:

    If they test me, I’m out. If I want to play games I’m turning on my PS5.

  • @MikeMartinez74 says:

    It never ends…. you really have to game a woman till you die or she’ll get in her feelings and leave you.

  • @akaalisbenjamin2093 says:

    How women handle attention from others is also the perfect test and display for us men as well. Especially advances from other men. If she doesn’t block them freethrows and turned them down and instead is entertaining them(infront of you) then you got yourself a relationship liability.

  • @joeyg283 says:

    Well said. We do this too. Tests =/= games.

  • @hernanazapata9048 says:

    That’s why you should get to know one another better,before their step of dating,and then little by little!nothingwrong! You muztt know more before ging too far in.its testing both ways they want to see your reaction and you also test her with reactions to your answer!

    • @YakDPOY says:

      If you are suggesting we need more “getting to know each other” through a phone screen.. I don’t think your advice is very good. If you not, then you are just talking about regular ol dating like its a bad thing, also not great advice

  • @hernanazapata9048 says:

    Being genuine is easily said your consistent behavior if your being 100%honest there is nothing to worry about!

  • @brettstarks1846 says:

    “These moments aren’t about playing games.”

    Yes they are, however you like to dress it up. But men, this is why you never live for women’s validation. Live for yourselves.

  • @Chuckybabydoll says:

    The only thing i cant do is play games

  • @dgasg4304 says:

    It really feels like a job interview The only difference is if you get the job you have to pay to keep the job.😂😂 Jk …ps-your channel helped a lot understanding women ,thanks!!

  • @vincebeam1630 says:

    As long as the woman doing the testing is accepting of the man also testing HER to see if she is a good fit and can backup what she claims. Says she can cook? Okay, dinner at your place, let’s see what you make. Etc…

  • @Andrew-z1c8h says:

    It’s a two-way street gents. Remember, you’re allowed to test her too in the world of dating. If you don’t think she’s a match, move on.

  • @gerardoa9179 says:

    So men can test too?

    • @YakDPOY says:

      Always could and always have? It’s not the testing thats the issue, its the tester;s maturity and intentions thats become the issue

  • @KiranKolgha-g5p says:

    i thought every strange situation meant a woman wouldn’t love me so i often messed up in how i approached her i didn’t understand why she acted that way until i came across the book her trigger code that book opened my eyes it’s not about trying to bother me but a way to see how i react now i’m calmer more confident and understand much better what’s going on

  • @HA-eb8ux says:

    Simple test: if they are the type of person that runs “tests”, run as far away as you can as fast as you can. The tests will never end.

  • @alexanderrandolph6030 says:

    I get understanding the character of a partner, but this isnt something men get to do to women the same way women do it to men. If that use doesnt improve, men will continue to discard women that do it. I dont care what words are used to demonize or sanctity each side, thats just thappening there in that way. Be worth enduring.

  • @Caliknows says:

    😂 gurl funny how many tests come my way but then when I test them they detonate

  • @VincentMhone-e2d says:

    Exams never really end in life; women just call them ‘tests’.

  • @UndrtdHistory says:

    This is why you vet BEFORE even going on the first dates. My standards are pretty narrow and there’s not a chance she will meet them, I don’t bother asking her out to start with. If everyone gets to this level of vetting in advance, the red pill and Manosphere disappear

  • @darrenskjoelsvold says:

    Not going to be tested. But a lot of these are just observations not tests.

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