I’ve Lost Everything—My Son, My Identity, My Love… But I’m Still Here
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– I’ve Lost Everything—My Son, My Identity, My Love… But I’m Still Here
Mr. Jonothan Ashley tell me please what do you think about my message… I am sure anyone is perfect much less the main goal for identidy for doing something something valuable to complete the inner essence which is much more significant than anything. I am sure I will find out also my soulmate to start building my best part in this world.
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I’ve lost my best friend to cancer, divorce and betrayal, and partner leaving me for an ex, ill health, and a dysfunctional family. Grief still follows me like a shadow, but I carry on, hoping for a that moment of peace and joy.
Sending hugs your way
@@goddess.110 Jesus loves you and wants to give you that peace and joy in spite of your afflictions. My husband died of a cancer-like disease but God sustained me and helped me to carry on with hope, knowing He loves me immensely, in the midst of my trials. I know He can do the same for you, if you let Him. Hugs 💕
I just ordered 4 books from your recommended book list, and I feel good! It’s a step in the right direction on my journey of healing and self love. Thank you Jonathon! I appreciate your help and support for me and everyone else trying to navigate this journey together. It’s a step in the right direction for building long lasting REAL relationships. I know I have to heal from past trauma and wounds first…. But I am on the healing journey, and once I’ve done the work I will be ABLE to have the ability to truly connect and build a better future with someone. So thank you!!
It’s a journey we all have to take.
I’ve had tons of trauma.. from volatile divorced parents as a small child, to horrible accident at 21. I wasn’t supposed to live, but God had other plans. Through over 20+ major surgeries and lots of trauma in relationships… and after my own divorce from a violent man (AFTER marriage) I was so closed off to any connection with others. I know it was a protective mechanism, but I never worked through the trauma… I buried it all inside. Which is the worst thing anyone could ever do. I went from that to taking care of my grandmother and her sister. I placed my own life on hold for 5 years. They were my entire life, and when they both passed away tons of childhood trauma came to the surface. I realized that they were the only people me and my sisters could depend on growing up. They were our beacon and safe haven. When I lost them I felt like a vulnerable child again. 💔 Issues I thought were far behind me crept up again for me and my sisters. Then a man who I loved for over 25 years passed away a week after we had seen each other and wanted to reconnect. He was the absolute love of my life! I’m still grieving those losses… my heart is shattered, and I’m trying to piece it back together as best as I can. Other things are going on too, and I’m trying to truly LIVE a life of my own. I’ve always taken care of my father too. (He’s an alcoholic) Mainly because his wife doesn’t. I’m extremely loyal to my family almost to a fault and self sacrifice. I’m trying to break that too… I just don’t want to be so strong anymore. I’m tired of doing everything and even mowing the grass. lol I had to fix the dryer and replace the circuit board… but just because I’m capable doesn’t mean I want to do all these masculine things! I’ve just been forced to step up because nobody else has, and it’s HARD! I missed out on a lot of my life because of health issues, and I’m navigating how to walk that line so I can still do things and live life. It’s just a very difficult balance, and I think that plays into the equation too. I have problems, but I hide them because I don’t want to appear as weak. I notice every little thing with people because I’ve grown up having to analyze things with my father. I’m hoping the books I ordered can help me through it. The Hoffman process, Attached, If the Buddha dated, and If the Buddha got Stuck. I found that last one when buying the other ones, and I think it’s a great book for moments when you feel like you’re stuck in a rut and don’t know how to get out of it. I guess I’ll see when I read it. I’ve had a lot of changes in my life lately, and hopefully by doing the work I’ll be able to find healthy love.❤️
I lost my partner of 16 yrs to Dementia. Essentially, I lost him a long time ago, but tbe cost of it , required me to sell our house. Lose his income and downsize . I also lost my brother-in-law/friend at the same time.
I’m better. I’m stronger than my size suggests. I WILL write my letter, Jonathan. Thank you.
It’s a tough journey to navigate. I hope you find peace in the process.
Wow… Lost pretty much the same. Thanks for sharing ❤
Lost a high paying job, my own business… Good social standing… Too much to feel
I understand the pain of that loss.
At this age, it becomes clear that life is a series of ups and downs, no one is immune or spared. It’s the strong mature aware among us that choose to live our life in the present, stop fixating on the past, control what we can can control and make the most of the remaining moments we have. Sad to waste all this energy on the uncontrollable.
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Grief letter exercise 😊
I’ve lost multiple losses, 2x fathers, my son to a divorce, my identity as a wife, a mother and a woman… My role as a sister… I think I have lost count as it cuts deep
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I found my father at 12 years old who attempted suicide. As life-changing as that was, that was my awakening to walk with Christ. There’s no way I could’ve dealt with all of that at my age without divine intervention. That experience along with so many others along my journey in life, have helped me to evolve into the person that I am to this day. All those hard, challenging and gut wrenching experiences, make you stronger. If they don’t, you let yourself become broken. Those experiences help you to recognize the more solid and healthy patterns in your life. The people that you want around you and the path that you want to form in front of you. 😊👍
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Lost my husband, my best friend
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What is number 5 again? Thank you Jonathan
Thank you for this exercise. I’ve been so sad. I’m 64 and ended a 8 year relationship, or I should say he did. With my friend. I literally had a breakdown. It’s been 3 years . I hope I fall in love one more time before I die. I just feel so ugly
Well done you are brave for sharing your soul with us. You are healing letting go to your find strength
Thank you for a powerful presentation ! ❤