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Happy Thanksgiving Jonathon! Be safe. Have a wonderful time!!!!
Happy Thanksgiving to you too! 🙏
Relationships are like plants. They need time and nourishment and room to grow and thrive. If you and your lady friend want to make it happen, it will. It takes two!
So true!
It worked generations ago because they didn’t expect as much from the relationship as we do today. They accepted the human component more weren’t as perfectionist.
Good point 👉
Back in the day there was rich or poor. Not so much really crazy and playing games. Relationships were easier back in the day.
Dive in Jonathon. Hope there’s physical and emotional and intellectual chemistry! Hope you can laugh together!
Thank you 😊
It is kind of like vitual reality clothes you win but can not wear. 😅 You need to date in person for at least a year or live togather. 🎉
The New connection is exciting. Reality will set in as you move forward. The first disagreement will set your stage. I wish you all the Best. Attraction is always so much fun.♥️
Well said!
I like that you are taking us on your journey and using it as a platform to further your teaching and that you advocate deep vetting and emotional connection right out of the gate. Be sure to check any justifications you might make that could compromise your objectivity and also be curious about when people point out that you might be doing something differently than you’ve taught rather than feeling defensive. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family.
I appreciate your feedback and will make sure to keep that in mind! 🙏
Head: is ego
Heart: is emotion
Guts: is intuition.
Exactly
It’s kind of discouraging that hear that you have dated 300 + women in twenty years and not found one that is the one.. I am 65 and still working 0.9 and have little time to invest in seriously dating like you did Jonathon.
Does that mean that my chances are very small to meet a guy for the long haul..
I feel giving up all together and not work on this project and go with the flow..
and I look younger than my age and have been active all my life
If you are not making time to invest in meeting a life partner, you are relying on luck. Everyone has a different outlook and approach and we should not be discouraged by another person’s historic experience. We are all in different places at different times in our lives. I see that Jonathon is is a place where he’s not willing to settle for passing flings which comes from a position of strength and is admirable.
@ that is a good point. Thank you.
Once you fall for her it’s more difficult to be objective .
Willpower 😁
Optimistically detached
Objectively optimistic
It’s not real until you move past the romantic phase of the relationship. The romantic phase is always exciting. Reality is when the rose-colored glasses come off. You’ll get grounded after the first argument. Time will tell.
Yes, but what if the high is how we bond?
The “high” you’re currently experiencing is all part of the romantic “novelty” excitement of a new person who you really don’t know yet. The initial bond is attributed to the “newness” and optimism you’re feeling right now and will morph into reality when the rose-colored glasses come off. Then following a few arguments/disagreements, the bond will either deepen or wane depending on whether you’re able to work through your differences.. “Objective optimism” is an oxymoron in my opinion. You’re either objective or not. Your current feeling of exuberance is more based on just OPTIMISM right now. There’s nothing wrong feeling optimistic and happy. That’s the lure of the romantic phase that people usually get drawn into because the high feeling is powerfully addictive and objectivity is temporarily lost. Enjoy the romantic phase because objectivity will happen soon enough when the rose-colored glasses come off and the reality sets in. Thanks for sharing your personal life with us and hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving!!
All the best to you. Perseverance.
JA, You definitely aren’t practicing what you preach. I’m happy you are that happy, but you are projecting a lot. You may overwhelm this woman, so relax into it. You can still be excited and not sound maniacal. I’m glad you shared but listen back to this in a few days. Happy Thanksgiving.
Thank you for the feedback. I fully agree, and maybe, just maybe, my intuition is correct. 🤞🙏💖
Enjoy your time and we’re cheering for you Jonathan! ❤
Congratulations you stayed at that you’re human. We all go through these feelings and I think a lot of it comes down to we want what we want. It’s so important to ask some really hard-hitting questions right out of the gate and look at them and listen to the responses very objectively. Thank you
Lust at first sight💗 curiosity at first sight 💗 if love is just a feeling, it’s highly mutable and influenceable and shouldn’t be used to make big life decisions. If love is commitment, an action, then how can it be for someone you don’t even know?
You make some great points.
I am so happy for you. Something similar is happening in my life. I gave up looking for someone and met a really great guy. He seems to be everything i am looking for. Like you we are diving in and having deep conversations and really getting to know each other. In two weeks we have had conversations that most people do not have in their first six months. We are going to work through Eight Dates together.
I think the key is to give up looking. Put the intention of what you want out to the universe and be open to receive. Be willing to be vulnerable and open. Be objectively optimistic.
That is amazing! You have a beautiful heart.
Bonding and Trust are built over time, not mainly through activities or answering a bunch of questions and oversharing (IMO) too soon, but they are built through life’s challenges, the disagreements , compromises, consistency, doing what one says they will do pretty much all the time, BOTH working through childhood wounds and still not wanting to stop. This is what I learned in 2+ great years, and there’s more to come! I paced everything, especially sex, he thanked me later. Long distance takes longer to move through, I couldn’t do it, but it also will become evident rather quickly on if both people want to continue the LD investment.