Men (Over 50) Choose Women Based on THESE 4 FEELINGS (My Best Advice)
What do guys find attractive? More specifically, what do men over 50 look for in a woman? Men choose women based on mainly 4 feelings. Watch this video to figure out what these feelings are and how you can use it to help you find the right man.
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yessss the guy ive been seeing loves when I need something from him. I’m pretty independent as a person so it was hard asking him to help with random things but it did improve our relationship!
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Awesome vid!!Thank you Mike You Rock!!!
Such a wonderful video to be honest. He spoke facts for real.
Needed
Appreciated
Accepted
Boundaries
Thank you
Such a wonderful comment from you to be honest.
Thanks!
Whenever I asked my ex husband to do anything he said to stop nagging him, even though I would only ask once I haven’t dated for a while , working multiple jobs, I have become very independent out of necessity but also because I hate to feel needy I wish men could see how much it means to us when they support bus emotionally ,that’s really what I need from a man
The right man will love doing things for you assuming you ask in the right way. 😀😀🙌🙌
@@EZDatingCoach Women don’t need to try too hard to ask the right way, just because a woman asked, it’s already brave enough, most women are afraid to even ask anything because they know a man will discourage them. I wish women were welcomed to just ask then trying to guess how and in what way and walking on eggshells around men…
I do everything for my husband. I only ever ask my husband to help me with things that I can’t do by myself I don’t do it in a nagging way but he makes me feel like I am. It’s not to do with how I ask but that he can’t be bothered says he will do it when he feels like it. What can I do? 🤷♀️
@@carol6544 Oh carol I’m really sorry about that okay. Please do everything you can to make sure your relationship works fine if you really feel something special for him and if he’s feeling the same way.
Judy I’m so sorry about that okay. You know women like you are rare to find in this world but men at times don’t really appreciate what they’re blessed with till they lose it.
Oh. He can be the bread winner. I have no problem with that at this stage of my life. I’ve been working hard since I was 13 years old… time for someone to help me .or share the load
THANK YOU! Help with my coat? And the door? And THAT’S IT?
Lame!
I’ll be polite and say thank you to those gestures- but if you’re trying to BE with me, then you better not stop at just gestures.
I provide substantial services in a relationship and I expect substantial services in return.
Just bc I’m 50+ doesn’t mean I should consider myself lucky to accept any old scrub into my life.
I’m not patting anyone on the back for doing nothing and pretending it’s something. Help me with something I actually NEED (or even WANT) help with!
If you can’t help with expenses or at least pay for dates and vacations at the big age of 50+, then at least be able to fix & build things… or give really good massages. Provide SOMETHING substantial!
@@themaggattack lazy and never knew love
I dunno…I need a man for kisses, cuddles, sex, some company and a male perspective sometimes. Things you can’t buy. And if he’ll deal with arachnids for me, he’s my hero. 🙂
In my experience, men aged 45+ tend to be…Unattractive in the way they view women. Not all of them, of course. I also find them lacking in mental energy.
And many don’t look after their bodies. They look pregnant and say they want a slim woman who looks after herself. It makes no sense. Feels like it’s some sort of entitlement.
They let go of themselves, make no real effort, yet feel they should have a beauty queen.
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Just saying.
Give me a chance
@@harrybans2457
No. Put in the effort
So true
What you said about these older men is spot on. Most of them look like pigs. And Yes, they all seem to want a drop dead gorgeous virgin. They can’t face reality
Sad but true 😄
There’s 4 As Appreciate, Affirm, Admire and Accept.
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I couldn’t get passed no. 1. I’m self sufficient and reliant. This generation of men made me that way. Most men I know and have dated since 2002 (including my children’s father) we’re not / are not emotionally equipped to handle being an adult, let alone someone who could lead in a relationship. THAT is not my fault. I made more money, worked more hours, and when I had the kids he was happy to let me handle all the responsibilities of that as well. I could go on and on about the emotional state of men in my generation, but every generation has its trials. I’m not even sure I want to date. I was thinking of doing my journey by documenting it on YouTube and came across your video doing some research. But, this is a subject my friends and I have discussed at great lengths. Our generation of men seemed filled with narcissist, mama’s boys, or some form of fear of “commitment” bla bla bla … anyway I blame it on Hollywood. So it’s hard to make a guy feel needed. Most of them don’t even know how to show up to warrant that. But anyway … I’ll probably watch you later out of curiosity, but …. I don’t date Because I have a lot to offer and for once I’d like to be matched at my energy level. Paying for people’s dreams when they don’t actually want to put the work in is old. What I need is someone who still loves life and wants to keep experiencing all it has to offer. …. just saying
Ok I’ll shut up.now.
Amen. You described exactly the issues I’ve had over my life. They DON’T want to lead. They just want to complain when we do it out of necessity.
Agreed.
I agree we have alot of mama’s boys out there & they need to grow up. Stick to your boundaries & enjoy life.
@theprairielight But we do need them. We can’t do it all. Our community needs them to lead so we can then focus more on our children; ourselves. We are so stressed we are killing ourselves overeating and not eating properly. Our mental health needs them. We need each other. We need them to heal and become our leaders.
We are both dealing with the remnants of slavery, Jim
Crow and the continue daily micro aggression. We need a spiritual awakening so we can learn to love ourselves because religion can’t do it for us.
Practicing Universal Laws have helped me tremendously. I left religion behind. My thought process is so different. I feel empowered. I am empowered. God is looking for true believers.
Much love!❤️
@theprairielight lol. I hear you. It may take 1-3 years, and and lifetime of steady growth.
It isn’t easy but what is the alternative? Very few couples (5-10 percent) will have harmonious relations because the vast majority of people have not done and will not do the work.
What I’m saying is directly related to the Bible verse about many being called, but few are chosen. Few will choose to do the work. That is reality. The fee that do will attract others that do.
The 90 plus percent who don’t want to do better will just switch partners hoping they are getting something better, but they will not. They are getting someone who is on the same vibration as them just in another outer disguise.
Reading through these responses makes we want to start a relationship clinic. It’s so obvious why they’re single!!
Take a deep breath single people, take the labels off along with expectations and just relax. Open your eyes to who you’re dating. And if you want them to do something, ask them, sweetly.
Just as in Any training, positive encouragement works best!
Beautifully said. We’re living too much in our heads instead of relaxing and let things unfold and even evolve ❤
I’m kinda laughing out loud at making a man feel needed by asking him to put my coat on…. what kind of simpleton do you think us women are? What about making someone feel needed by sharing deep conversation and friendship, or long bouts of laughter? Surely that’s the golden nugget? Relax and be yourself, and if in the small chance that she can’t put her own jacket on, help out, but don’t think that will be the action that melted her heart…
Lol. I was going to say, I had a long list of things that I need fixing so he really going feel a lot of needed from me.😂
Correction : What kind of simpletons do you think we women are ?
Lol, one time I was dating this guy. We had went to a party. It was pretty cold out and so I asked him could he get my jacket from the car? In my entire LIFE, I cannot remember making a request like that. Well, to my utter shock, he kind of gave me a GLARE before doing so. It was the only time I EVER had asked him to do something personal like that!!!! And he had claimed to be in love with me. Really disappointing that he supposedly loved me, yet obviously felt very offended by my simple request.
Personally this melts my heart. But that’s just me.
I often watch the old men help their wives into their coats,shoes, etc. Gives me that warm feeling inside. Small gestures add up over a lifetime.
THANKS MR MIKE ABSOLUTELY TRUE
Omg this video was so on point!! Ty!!
Women are looking for men for companionship to do things together. Every woman is looking for a man.
I never ask for anything like the sugar example, because I’d feel he’d be pissed off with me treating him like my lackey. So I do things myself, unless someone does something without me asking. And then, yes, I’d appreciative because he :1. knew me well enough to see that something was wrong #2. Did the thing without me having to ask/do it myself. #3. Even if I didn’t want it, he still made the effort. So I’d probably accept it because of that. It’s something I do for others (friends or boyfriends), and those small gestures are HUGE. It’s about noticing and awareness, which means the person is in the moment.
I’ve also been with guys who walk 5 steps ahead, not noticing they’re walking too fast/taking giant strides, and I’m not at his side. When I was younger, I’d run to catch up. Then I’d ask them to slow down. Now I just keep my pace, and see if they even notice, because they are obviously oblivious to my presence, and the salad days of running after someone are over.
I got tired of my date asking me to wear a dress and show my legs. He’s 5 ft 4 and weighs 240
LOLOL! I can certainly understand that and sympathize!
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Him needing to be needed all the time can come off as a little needy. Best wishes everyone❤
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Same here.. 😂
Love this information…
Here’s my criteria… 1) Intelligence …2) Sense of humor… 3) Emotional stability… 4) then comes LOOKS. The stronger the first 3 are, the more #4 can slide.
Yours are better. His sound a bit manipulative.
What usually gets the man’s attention first?
I don’t know about emotional stability for a woman but I guess if you typically apear to be. 😋
Sorry. #4’is important. At least try to look your best because men have eyes
I’ve always been independent and hard working and have had all any woman could ever want but the older I’ve become I realize how much I need a man for many reasons. I realize I’m not as independent as I once thought. I realize I get lonely too. I realize I need help with things and to share the chores. I realize I need a man’s opinions and ideas that will lead me on a straight path. There’s so much a man has that can be a blessing. We do need men if we are honest. ❤
@@bellastone-le9eb well said! 💜💜