Mid-life Love Drought: Why Men & Women Over 45 Are Like, “Single Is Better Than A Bad Relationship”
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Good for you Joe being a true gentleman ☺️
Indeed
God’s blessings and healing to all Amen 🍀🙏😇😇🍀🤗💜
It is 100% better to be single vs. in a semi-healthy relationship at times, along with very volatile at other times or the on-off cycle of it’s really good and horrible the other times. I was walking on eggshells to keep things happy or to keep the peace. It really affected my health, and I needed to drink to calm my nerves. I learned that just to have a relationship with the wrong person was soooo so not worth it.
I no longer need to feel belonged to someone or insecure attachment, as I’m now retired. If I meet the right person at some point, great. I’d love to do things with someone again, but the walking on eggshells and volatility, temper tantrums are not worth it and never again. He was not willing to work on or understand how his behavior or volatility affected me and the relationship. I am grateful that I no longer “need” someone. I never had a terrible relationship as that one.
Never ever again !!!
I am so glad you were able to escape that.
@@JonathonAslay
I’ve been following you over the last two years. Your program and book have helped me approach the healing process from that terrible dating experience. I never had a volatile relationship prior years as that one. It really jolted my confidence and made me so fearful to date again. I’ve bought all the books recommended and I’m reading them and working on myself. Thanks so much 🙏
The untethered soul by Michael singer
Yes
Jonathan, I thought I had met a great guy. Started out great. Over time, things he said didn’t make a lot of sense to me.
I did check this guy out. I ended up having to pay a couple services for the real deep dive.
Divorced 3 times, he told me 2. Told me he was in the Marines, lie. Three charges for domestic abuse. He became very needy, texting and calling all the time.
He had all kinds of health problems. Shattered leg, heart attack with stents, back problems, had a MRI and waiting for surgery.
This guy was not healthy at all. Again lies. Every thing I like to do, he did too over time.
I was fooled and didn’t think that would ever happen to me again.
If anything, I was pissed, at myself and him. It didn’t hinder me, I wasn’t distraught or anything.
Thanks for being you! 💕🦋
I’ve met guys online saying they are divorced but I see thru stuff. They weren’t divorced and one guy separated for about 3 weeks😂😂😂 I don’t understand people
@@Theinfamouskiki411 thank you for your response. It slowly over time didn’t make sense.
Joe, a cute way to look at it. You pay for meals out and she buys the groceries to make meals at home
Yes
I’m not happy being single dammit
Had a great childhood. I learned early on how I fit in my family. I was liked by one, unliked by another. They both loved me, but my personality was like one, unlike the other. Same with romantic relationships. My ex husband loved me, but never liked me. I’ve grown into the person I want to be and in the process realized I was always that person. I just keep an open heart and mind. Show curiosity in everyone; as I do with the world around me. So..I’m grateful for accepting myself and understanding others.
Dr Phil would say “it’s better to be healthy alone than sick with somebody.” – I couldn’t agree more after having previously been involved in the latter dynamic. A dynamic that catapulted me straight into this beautiful journey of “self-love.” For that I will always be grateful 🙏💜✨
Be prepare to be alone. I have been divorced for 23 years, and it is hell out there
@ prepared? … I’ve been divorced for 24. I take solace in the beauty that surrounds my sovereignty. That’s my priority. What is meant for me will follow ✨
It takes courage to walk away from a toxic relationship.
I have been single for 23 years, and it’s not worth it. It is a big beauty contest out there, and it’s not worth it. I have more joy being with my cat
I have 2 cats & 2 dogs. Most men out there can’t even have a pet & I get answers from them that they are too busy for a Pet. Well than how do they have time for a Person in a Relationship. Except just for Sex!
It sounds like you’ve found your peace.
Brilliant video Jonathon🌹
I learned a lot from my past relationships. I’m on my healing/recovery journey. I’m gratefull I have at least one child from ex marriage. I was poor communicator, no boundaries and drove myself in limousine into hell called pattern of toxic abusive relationships. 2 years ago I discovered your channel, got books you mentioned and my enlightenment started. Clusterfuckout. I was very insecure from my childhood and carry this baggage into adult life. I was choosing only very incompatible people except one.
We arrive and leave the planet alone. The human experience INCLUDES relationships. Companionship is ONE option. You can be a best friend and lover to the concept of yourself. Love is sourced from WITHIN you. Beyond that you are infinite consciousness to which you will return. Everything is fictional for experience. A mate is not required for peace. Blessings to all.
Well said!
Widower in my 50’s. I am a simple guy if she has a “ick list” over 30 page or spends 10+ hours on red flag list, that behavior hits my ick list of 3 things…. Lol. Appreciate the video!
It sounds like you have a good sense of what you want and what you won’t settle for.
@JonathonAslay Actually it came from a joke I made when setting up a date for this weekend. She said if I had a high sounding voice that was show stopper. I have a low voice. (It was a compliment ) So I took the opportunity to banter with her. Yes, we are on for this Saturday. Thanks Johnathan for your efforts. You definitely make me think. I do agree sometimes but it is about me learning. All the best!
I dunno if you have discussed this but can you discuss the obstacles of even finding someone and courtship has changed! It’s not the myriad of choices..it’s that the rules of engagement for even finding and getting to know someone..so the period before you even start dating is a lot of our issues I see. Every interaction goes nowhere. You should determine some compatibility before you go out on a date.
don’t fall in love with a taker because takers don’t have limits, so neither does a giver” I hope this gentleman, meet a wonderful lady as wonderful as he is ❤
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Who needs the passive aggressive abuse!?
Heavens to Murgatroyd!