Andrew McLaurin
 

  • @23Skeetoo says:

    “Attraction isn’t fair.” True. More people need to just accept the unfairness of the world.

  • @Lex-u9h7o says:

    Be good looking, and if you’re kind or not, it doesn’t matter. Quick tip.

  • @kman190 says:

    Here is what nice women don’t understand: Men want women to be nice to them. That is how they want to be loved. A woman who is kind to a man can make a man take notice of her and lead to him asking her out.

    So……men are nice to women because they believe that it will make the girl appreciate him and possibly lead to a relationship. But alot of women don’t operate like men. They look for masculine traits and charisma. It leads to women picking alot of losers, though. When women say they have intuition about men, think about all the single moms and damaged women out there.

  • @KenedaFromAkira says:

    Being nice and being kind are two totally different things.

  • @jhamilton1007 says:

    Nice isn’t the correct word. I’m tired of this demonizing of being nice to people. The real word should be “fake” or “needy”.

    • @sid98geek says:

      “Needy” this and “desperate” that. Everyone has certain needs. People who have gotten their needs fulfilled will obviously not be needy. Have you ever thought about that?

    • @jhamilton1007 says:

      ​@@sid98geekWhat’s your point?

    • @acraze2287 says:

      @@sid98geek needy person spotted 😂

    • @sid98geek says:

      ​@@jhamilton1007My point is that if I am hungry but don’t have food, I will be be working for food, begging for food, and needy for food. If I need a shelter but can’t get a home, I will be needy for a home. If I need love and intimacy but don’t have someone to be loving and intimate with, I will be needy.

      Or should I pretend to not need what I need?

    • @sid98geek says:

      ​@@acraze2287Thank you for your astute observation. I am very needy indeed, and I don’t want to hide that.

  • @danielstocks3271 says:

    I cba with all this anymore lol. I’m 33 and preparing for a life alone tbh

  • @ArneAsada69 says:

    When a female says, “Just be yourself.”, she fails to also mention she’s thinking about that hot, confident guy. That hot, confident is just himself. You know the type, effortlessly hot and confident. Be like him.

  • @Xvr50Dcip3-h1b says:

    Unwanted nice behaviours

  • @salvationindustries says:

    Don’t worry. If someone does not respond positively when you are kind then they don’t like you from the start.

    No-one is going to skip something that is valuable. You have to discover how valuable you are and where to find people that appreciate that value. If you are not then build value.

  • @Xvr50Dcip3-h1b says:

    You have to understand that, you can also end up with the wrong person.

  • @Nick-jj2lt says:

    I love the bitter guys who are always commenting the same list of talking points. Your bitterness isnt going to attract a woman

  • @lordsinister707 says:

    ” Attraction isn’t logical or fair.” Tell that to all the women who think that they are tens but get mad when men pass them over. The best place to start is the tea app

  • @douglaspearson4853 says:

    Agreeing with everything is something that I have never done. I do agree with you here though.

  • @anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470 says:

    Stupid people mistake kindness for weakness you can do all those things and still be dismissed because they’ll think you’re weak for kindness

  • @kentaroo.7759 says:

    I removed a lot of girls/women from my life. If I’m interested in someone and they don’t feel the same or put me in the friend zone or should I say more accurately friend but not really friend. I block and delete their number if I have their number. I see no point in having each other’s number to begin with.

  • @ch_boki says:

    I won my wife over by being kind. I stood by her side when no one else would, and she was equally supportive during my tough times.

    Being kind really pays off, especially when it feels like no one else is.

    I enjoyed reading books for her benefit so I could grasp her struggles and challenges more clearly.

    It felt good to take care of her when she was unable to get out of bed.

    Being nice is a good thing, and we need more nice men.

  • @dbird1356 says:

    I’ve got to disagree! You are thinking transactionally… like a modern woman.
    Being nice is NOT a tactic. You got that wrong. Being nice is more like a philosophy, a way of being, a life choice that is cultivated, to treat others as you would like to be treated.
    Bring a nice guy… a good man does not mean not being confident or having boundaries. In fact it does mean being genuine and being yourself despite what others may think.
    The fact that young modern and mostly low value women can’t see the value and advantages in a nice guy is their shortcoming and their loss.
    There are good women out there who think beyond “girls just wanna have fun”
    Coincidently, those women are the same ones that good men are attracted to. Just sayin’

  • @timpczman says:

    attraction isn’t fair…so true…my wife said it best..she said “sometimes, you just love who you love”

  • @inbb510 says:

    I think a lot of men need to understand what you have just said as it is very valuable advice.

    Noone is entitled to love or a girlfriend. Attraction isn’t a choice. A woman is either attracted to you or isn’t.

  • @redbagsrambler9326 says:

    In other words, just be a jerk with a thick wallet. Thanks for confirming my longtime suspicions.

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