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Good perspective 👍
Happy Wednesday Courtney
Happy Wednesday to you too! 😄
It is not reasonable to expect a total stranger to spend a week’s pay to entertain you.
Agreed
Please, a week’s pay? I only date men who make $400k, dinner shouldn’t be a week’s pay of $400k. I KNOW MY WORTH!
But they belive they deserve a man who makes what the average guy makes in a week but in an hour.
While bringing no value beyond what over half of the world is capable of doing ie being a female.
Not feminine but female.
@@dontokoi30 Ok so you’re single 🤣
Dinner for the first date with a stranger is completely insane. How did that ever become the norm?
First dates should be chats. You’re right.
I don’t think it’s insane necessarily but wouldn’t be my first choice
One word . Simps
When they started forcing the idea that an expensive first dinner date was what they deserved over just getting to know the man is the reason why the dating scene ended up in a diabolical state. Men just want to know if a woman just has some basic traditional values to be his wife not her achievements or accolades. No man is interested in an independent masculine boss B! Real Men don’t want to date a man it’s not sexy or appealing to them.
@ back in the day women were more worthy of that kind of treatment and dinner wasn’t as expensive. Cheesecake Factory for two now is an easy $75
Its definitely bad out here. I don’t feel comfortable planning dates with women anymore because its like she’s judging the place I picked as not good enough
If she’s doing that, she’s not the right girl for you. On to the next
@CourtneyRyan respectfully most men don’t have a “next”, its drier than the Sahara out here.
The simple coffee date that is focused on quality, intentional time is a great filter, too. The coolest and most amazing women I’ve gone on dates with have been fine and prefer it!
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The expectation of anything more than a simple first date is a sign of entitlement. Humility is a trait that is attractive, as much as mindfulness is. Men shouldn’t be doing anything beyond simple dates. Some of the best dates I’ve had were insta-dates. This involved meeting a girl for the first time (as in, while walking around), transitioning from conversation to going and having a coffee. It’s a little more of an adventure at that point and demonstrates that with a little finesse and confidence, one can have an engaging conversation with a pretty girl on the fly. Even if it doesn’t go further than that, it’s refreshing and boosts one’s confidence in being both attractive and engaging.
One time I asked a woman out for a walk and she turned into an absolute monster. It was pretty insane.
She didn’t turn into a monster. She was a monster the whole time. You just ripped off her disguise.
She probably thought you were taking her back to the zoo 😆
@@ryanbailey6401 True LOL
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I approached a woman who turned out to be an international model—didn’t know it at the time. Met her in Central Park. Proposed a green juice and a walk through the park date. She found this perfectly acceptable. We really can’t generalize based on one experience. Sometimes you’ll be pleasantly surprised, other times horrified
Back in the dark ages when I was dating, nobody expected a first date to be expensive. We were all broke college students, or just starting out on our careers. We didn’t have money to spend on expensive dinners.
It makes SO much sense to me to do a simple coffee date as the 1st date. The 1st date is a bit of an interview. For BOTH people. The focus should be on connecting, and getting to talk to each other and learn more. THEN if the chemistry is right, a follow up 2nd DINNER DATE makes sense. You have already built a bit of a bond and the guy can feel comfortable spending a lot more money. Coffee dates can end quickly or run loooonnng, which is perfect depending on how well you are enjoying each other!
Yeah I never understood paying 200 dollars for a fancy dinner and watching someone eat for someone I don’t know yet.
Not to mention they’re probably just scamming you for a meal and you’ll never see them again.
Unfortunately, if other men have done this to them, then they’ll expect that you do the same.
Spend this money on your mother or kids
She expects you to spend hundreds of dollars, but hooks up with Chad for nothing.
I blame social media. Instagram and Facebook have really ruined expectations. There’s way too many couples who are putting on a show for social media and their life is an absolute mess behind the scenes. Most people are living a simple life that is too boring for social media. Our education really failed to teach my generation that life is mostly boring. I think my generation has major mental health issues because they expected some sort of Hollywood lifestyle that doesn’t exist. You have to be very careful with what you believe you can achieve vs. what you’ll never achieve. If you’re constantly trying to chase something that doesn’t exist, you’re going to go mentally insane.
I think dinner dates are appropriate for first dates if you already know the person (like from work, school, or maybe they’re just a friend of yours who want to pursue something more with). But if it’s someone you met online or someone who you met for the first time in person, then a coffee date is definitely the best option.
What makes a woman think she is worth more than a coffee date to begin with? Serious question. We all bleed red. What makes them think they are so special? You want to be treated like your special, then show me why you deserve to be treated special (this make take several normal, small dates). This might get hate, but most women that think they deserve a high value man right off the rip, are usually low value themselves and bring absolutely nothing of value to a relationship.
Some things are non negotiable: I want my date to dress up as French maid every time.
If she’s willing to do that, I’ll gladly pay for dinner.
First dates don’t even exist anymore
Dating apps and “talking” ruined first dates. You used to get to know the basic information like what they are into, how many siblings they have, what music they like, if they want kids, etc. on the first date. You see if you vibe with them then. If not then it’s not a big thing. The first date has become so important now because you can have a relationship with someone before even meeting them even though you will never know what someone is truly like until you spend time with them in person
No, she is wrong. Not all women deserve to be treated like a princess. Very few, actually do. Being born with girl parts doesn’t entitle anyone to anything other than common decency. The rest is earned.
There are so few women in my range who I’m attracted to. The dating apps are a waste of time. I stay busy and keep my eyes open but if a woman starts making demands before we even know each other that’s pretty much automatic disqualification.
If a woman ever judges you for a “cheap” date like coffee, ice cream, walk in the park, a drink etc she’s 99% sure to be toxic. Steer clear of those women and let them be some simp’s problem
The problem with social media is it rewards messages of shame, fear, and contempt. Nobody wants to click on a video about a girl saying she just wants to go have coffe because she has yet to earn that man’s spoils. Most people click on the gold diggers with makeup put on with a serving spoon and T&A hanging out all over and talking a bunch of mean spirited arrogance and narcissism about what they are owed for having done nothing at all.