Sinister tactics narcissists use to PUNISH you
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Devaluation, withholding, triangulation, sabotage. They are the judge, jury and executioner.
Yes! Thank you, and I’m sorry for your experiences.
That.. and prison guard and parole officer on power-trip.. Run 🐎🔥
do you ever watch the videos before commenting? i always see your comment like it’s only responding to the title
@@missktofdk excellent metaphor!
Yet, what’s said is the truth. You don’t need to watch a video to know the patterns of a narcissist, which are predictable @@mooop348
My father was my first bully.
My mother was mine. I couldn’t stand bullies and would stand up to defend my classmates against them. They always backed off. Cowards.
Same
That’s terrible! So sorry😢
Mine too. It has affected me for my entire adult life.
An adult bullying a child is ridiculous and pathetic.
Doc, I’ve just finished listening to the audible version of “It’s not you”. I had already read it on Kindle. Now, I can listen to your daily video on YouTube. Life brings more hope thanks to you. Much love from Italy 🇮🇹
Blessings, same here from Jamaica 🇯🇲. Psalm 91👑👋❤️🌹🇯🇲
Alienated mum here. Thank you for describing the toxic system which is much more widespread than people know. We need to put work into ending the cycle. Dr you are a blessing to humanity
Yes!
I have been in an abusive relationship for 21 years… In fact, there he is calling me now…
Someone in my family used to pull me up the stairs by my hair when I was about 3. I’m not saying who because I am still worried about the repercussions. Im 45 now. Says a lot
Sorry😢 i know another child who suffered similarly. Her mother dislocated her arms multiple times and never got medical care for these injuries.
I think that someone who has once bullied someone can change and regret what they did, but with narcissists, that’s not going to happen.
No the narcissist never changes just ups their game. But hey we are finally catching up on their criminal games. And they can’t even CHANGE their games!! 🎉
They decide when you’ve suffered enough too. Still waiting.
I’m amazed at how accurate this is. I am going through this right now with my sibling.
Thank you for addressing this issue. My youngest child would not go to high school because of a bully. Their way of dealing with it was to threaten me with jail !! Really ? I talked to the principal 12 times. She just wanted to hold me to blame. We didn’t have cell phones back then so I had to look through the yellow pages to find a school for my daughter. They let her study at home and she finished high school a year early. She went on to go to college becoming an accountant. Schools are horrible in my opinion. I had problems with bullies too in school. There are kids that can’t handle, for whatever reason, a school environment.
Dr. Ramani, you have given the most accurate and in-depth description and explanation of this demonically driven behavior of the bully. Thank You Bless you.
Describing to a T the person I have lived with for 50 years. Very stressful, causing me a scary health issue several years ago. Refuses divorce, so we live in separate rooms. Not a marriage, it’s a life sentence.
My Narcissistic mother bullied me my entire childhood. She tried to beat me at age 14 and I fought back. She never ever laid another hand on me. I’m now 53 yrs old and cut off contact years ago. Bullies are cowards!
I’m so proud of you Queen. In my case my narcissistic mom and her sister used to team up on me and my mom never protected me from her. I never had safety; now that I’m 40 years old I’ve cut complete contact with my moms sister for almost 20 years and my mom and I no longer have a relationship although she tries her hardest to come back but I’m no longer interested. She failed to protect me as a child.
I’m glad you fought back.
@@Mother8323 – Thank you for sharing your story. So glad you had the insight and strength to choose yourself. ❤️
I wasn’t physically abused, but I was bullied and verbally abused by my mother. She died when she was 62 and I was happy. I’m 75 now and the echoes of my childhood are still there. These videos have helped immensely with my recovery. Good luck to you now and in the future.❤
@@beverlyadams7205 – I’m so sorry you had to endure being abused. Her voice still echoes and I’m still working on healing. ❤️🩹 It May be a life long journey.
Thank yo Dr. Ramani, your work supports so many of us in understanding that we are not the ones causing our own abuse …
My mother was my first bully. She still tries her best to bully me now and I’m an adult. But thanks to Dr. Ramani, I’m more resistant and I’m saving up to flee
This talk is amazing! And the family dynamic examples so applicable. Shunning and smear campaigns hurt so much!
my older sister was my first bully …emotional and physical threats for sure ended up being a narc…caused such distruction in my life!
Formless shapeless hate and anger is what a narcissist is made of. Those emotions will twist themselves into whatever position they need to find appeasement/supply for just a moment. Look past it and walk away.
Holy Sh*y this is EXACTLY what happened to me. Textbook! I’m floored. Thank you for this.
Goodness gracious! You really dug into the nooks and crannies of narcissism and all its ugly faces! I could do nothing but laugh at how accurate this was!
My boss is a narcissist and abusive, and being a new parent on top of that is really driving me crazy. I have a supportive husband and have considered quitting severally. Are there ways for someone like me to earn a decent income while working from home?
Sorry you have to go through this❤❤
Must be tough balancing new parenthood with a toxic job and a difficult boss… A couple of years ago, I faced something similar and decided to focus on opportunities that were less detrimental to my mental health… Now, I make over 10k a month from home! If you have skills in writing, graphic design, or web development, consider freelancing. Also, consider stocks but ensure you use a financial expert in the earlier stages to avoid mistakes… I do both, freelancing keeps me busy while the other brings in the bulk of my earnings but more passively…
Dont want to quit my job or anything like that,, but I have been considering the stocks thing for sometime now,, heard its a nice way to get some extra funds. Do you have an FA guy you can recommend or anybody like that
@@PriyaKrshna234 Mine is a woman… Kelly Matwick. She’s not so popular but you might have heard of her
it is really a small world. She and a colleagues were at this seminar we held at my office few weeks back. had to go to her page to confirm that I wasn’t mistaken. nice!