STOP expecting this from narcissists, and you’ll be HAPPIER
If you want any chance at feeling calmer around a narcissist, you have to stop expecting things they simply won’t give you. In this video, you’ll learn the essential shifts that actually protect your peace — the mindset changes, the emotional boundaries, and the hard truths that finally help you feel happier in a relationship defined by entitlement, defensiveness, and a lack of empathy.
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Thank you and I’m sorry never will you hear any of those😢
Thank you for you response you matter to ❤❤❤
I always hated that he’d never ask “are you ok?” I would have such terrible days and he could see it, yet continued doing his thing, completely ignoring my suffering. Piece of crap
Last time mine asked if I was okay, it was a ploy, of course I was okay, but she got extremely upset that ended up in an argument, it has lasted for 3 weeks ongoing
@BushGeorge-z1x2z they really love to keep the fighting going followed by “I love you!” But even then, that stops too later on!
@Angel_Warrior124there’s never an “I love you” in unfortunately
@BushGeorge-z1x2z in the beginning there was, but in the end, forget it!
Wishing this beautiful community a Happy Holidays❤️🦃🎄
Thank you, happy holidays🎄
And to you and your Family, Blessings Happy Holidays ❤🎉
Gracias…. Happy HoliDays🦃🥂🎉❤️🩹
Obrigada! Happy Holidays to you all! I’m very fond of this community.
Thank you. You as well.
Takk! / Tusen takk! / Takk skal du ha! (Norsk/Norwegian)
Thank you so very much!!! I feel and can express gratitude for the things that I have benefited from, even from some of those who have harmed and betrayed me. It is troubling to realize how much that has not been reciprocated.
In Norwegian, you say “Tusen takk!.. eller, mange takk!”
Translation is – A thousand thanks or many thanks !
All i can say is: Thank you Dr. Ramani….
You are a blessing….
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Amen to THAT! ❤
I’ve never celebrated Thanksgiving in my life, but I wish all my dear American friends (don’t have any in real life, lost contact online) a HAPPY THANKSGIVING. And Happy Holidays!
Thank You Dr. Ramani 💕 ‘Tis the season! One of the worst feelings a person full of gratitude can deal with, is understanding that most are transactional and don’t sincerely feel gratitude…so most gratitude falls on entitled deaf ears that use it for self gratification rather than true connection. That disconnection can really discourage someone. However those that are truly grateful for your gratefulness will absolutely light up from within…and those brief moments of real light make it worth trying😉
When I saw people being kind to each other in anonymous spaces like Reddit or in comments on YouTube… it felt good.
I don’t know what I would do without you in your wisdom.God bless you on this thanksgiving.Eve.Happy thanksgiving to you, doctor romney, you deserve the very best.
My ex was completely incapable of feeling or showing true gratitude. His actions and words never matched up. Always with the keeping score…maddening!
Thank you Dr. Ramini. You saved my life! ❤
Thank you Dr. Ramani, Your message has verified what I realized about these folks. Blessed season to all!
Thank you so much, Dr.Ramani, for your help in educating us about narcissism. My life is so much better now. Thank you!
Danke schön. Vielen Dank. Danke sehr. Tausend Dank.
So had it with my narcissistic parents, sister, son and his fiancee. Decided NOT doing all the work for everyone and make thanksgiving dinner. I am making a small dinner for myself. Yes- making them all freak out- and really don’t care anymore….
I am thankful for now knowing the only thing to expect from a narcissist are cruelty, manipulation and indifference. I spent so many years hoping; it is nice to know now there is no hope.
I’m thankful to you, Dr. Ramani, and I thank God for you.
This brought back a surreal memory. As a kid, I saw sandwiches being cut on an angle and asked my mom to do it. She said she couldn’t and kept cutting them into rectangles. I honestly believed that for some reason, she couldn’t make the long diagonal cut. It took me years to understand that she actually derived gratification from denying a kid a tiny request.