Stop Trying to Explain What s Fair to a Narcissist #shorts

STOP explaining yourself to the narcissist.

The more you try to make them understand how they’re hurting you or the kids, the more power you’re giving them. Narcissists don’t change because you’re emotional—they feed off it.

To them, your heartbreak is proof their tactics are working.
To you, it’s about fairness.
To them, it’s about control.

The only way to reclaim your power?
Change your reaction.
Stop trying to change them.

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