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I went on a lunch date…he ordered first, and then said no dessert to the waitress without asking me….turned me off
Yup 💯 agree with you. Proud of you for recognizing and walking away. Don’t settle 💪💛
That is a turnoff!😮
Yikes, that’s awful.
Definitely not a gentleman. Next!!! 😉
I agree! I went on some dates with a divorced man who had been married 35 years and had two grown kids. I would have never guessed he had a wife and/or kids before based on his seeming oblivious about considering me in several ways at my friend’s gathering (all the while, I was considering him). I couldn’t believe it. I shouldn’t have continued talking to him after that but I had already determined and told him we’d only be friends since he lives a few hours away. But even as a friend, no thanks.
I kept giving him the benefit of a doubt as friends. But I actually had everything I needed to know at that gathering. (Note to self.)
Without limerence, and just observing, we can learn so much about a person. I also have realized finally in my life that it seems most people don’t even want to know me/us, and wouldn’t even notice if we are just small talking while I’m observing them.
Also have learned, don’t tell the other person why it won’t work. Just keep it generic. Otherwise, they seem to turn it on me for having standards and knowing what i want and don’t want.
💁🏼♀️ I BELIEVE A BIG MISTAKE WE OFTEN MAKE IN THE BEGINNING IS ASSUMING OTHERS THINK LIKE US…A HEART TO HEART 💕RELATIONSHIP MAKES LOTS OF SENSE AND IS MUCH MORE MEANINGFUL.
Thank you for another great video
I love the books you spoke of
The book about communicating is really amazing and thoughtful. 😊 My man is very interested in knowing I am doing well everyday. It means a lot. 8 dates book is a great idea. What about a fun game with questions. Could get intense. I believe in life long relationship for sure. It takes time
You are so welcome!
On our first date, Ed insisted on coming down to my area to a quaint restaurant, agreed to drinks and apps to keep it casual, opened the car door for me and would not even let me leave the tip. Unlike every other man I met from an online site, he looked better than his picture. We just celebrated 7 months together. ✨💖✨
Yay!
Cheers! ♥️
Wonderful! Sounds like you have a good man there <3
Sounds awesome, I really admire chivalry!! Hope everything goes well for you two.
@@TeaRose9 Thanks. I think what brought him to me was truly letting go of looking for someone and being happy with being alone.
Hi JA, by chance, Do you think a lady prospect is intimidated by dating you as you are the expert? Maybe afraid of a public relationship. Could things be different if you had another career? I wish for you to find the one to fill your ❤ you deserve it 😊
I often say to people You can’t miss what you never had. But if you had it you can miss it terribly. And as you said not the person maybe but the relationship you lived. Nothing wrong with that. It’s called memories.
A person can long for something they’ve never had… There’s something wrong w saying I don’t miss the person, I miss the things. Don’t you think? It’s so cold & detached–denial or anger, I’m not sure. To blot out a person ….is odd, right?
This is my theory how I am, if I was to be corrected on something, my suggestion was to do it in a constructive way. I can deal with criticisms but it needs to be done in a productive way. Otherwise I will not listen! The problem with society is the majority of the men don’t know how to express themselves and the women don’t ask questions.
@@mariad1151 I believe we miss the dream of what we thought it would be. I say that because as time passes you don’t miss the person anymore but you still miss the life you thought you’d have with them. It’s definitely complicated for sure.
@@deniserichardson8726interesting. If one doesn’t miss the person, they didn’t love them. Right?
My nose always itches, I think it’s dry skin 😅
We used to say it means you’re going to fight w someone.
Thanks for the heads up about Date My Age, shame I wanted to try it
I can understand a brief introductory but after I reply it’s time to engage; I hate pulling teeth too!
Old wives tale, itchy nose, someone is thinking about you
Chemistry IMO is more than good or youthful looks. We used to say, & believe, that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I still believe that. When that special something draws you to a person, they’re so beautiful to you. Then what is the difference between how how he makes you feel & and how you feel about him? It’s one and the same; it’s all good.
I agree. I was just thinking today that I prefer the term/phrase “dynamics with each other” instead of “chemistry.”
I love that you walk on the outside of the sidewalk. I do pay attention to this and not many men do this
Jonathon, You’re looking great! I like your haircut and they did a good job.
Hey Jonathon, so I have an offer for you, if I fly to LA where you live, take me out on a mock date and show me how things are supposed to go. I haven’t gone on a date for over 30 years. I’m the cute gal over in Washington state that connects with you from time to time. I actually just finished writing my book, Not Looking For A Bingo Partner. I think it will be a very interesting read. I’m ordering your book this week, to learn a little more about what you wrote about. But I’m serious, I would love to fly to Los Angeles and find out what a date is supposed to be like. It seems like you’ve been on a lot of dates over the years. More bad than good!! 😂 Give me an opportunity to see how interactive I am with you. Let me learn and take away any critiques that you may have on my interactions with you. Your video is a perfect example of what women aren’t doing right. I have a lot of male friends, than I do female friends. Most of my guy friends would say how friendly and interactive I am. I had a bad run with an online dating connection. Sadly, never meeting the one man I connected with. I feel like I am a woman of worth and value after 26 years of marriage. I do feel like I have a lot to bring to the table.❤
Hey Jennifer, If you wish to schedule a coaching session for your experiment/learning and to be coached along the way, I am happy to add a mock date as part of my coaching. http://www.jonathonaslay.com/coaching
22:23 I about lost it while doing my laundry 🤣🤣🤣
Lol 😆
What if a person is, as you said too wounded to be able to open up to any relationship. Should I help him or rather we should go our separate ways.
Depends on what’s the purpose of your relationship…
I loved this video. The “rant” was so on point.
Thank you 😊
Most times, the quality of the ride is more dependent on the condition of the road than the car.
Good point
Love your honesty