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She said its either I make the first move or nothing, chat am I cooked? 🤧
Very cooked
Having nothing is still better than being in debt.
Men officially have to understand sign language. 😂
Is there anyone book available that I can purchase that teaches these sign languages?
No. We have to read their minds. That is what they expect. They are all batshit.
Womanese!
@@vinniemartinez6125 There’s a lot of em, especially in dating books. Then again I’m not sure how different this was from back then before social media existed.
Sometimes its a green sign on green background tho. 😀
Even if men do buck up the courage to make the first move, in today’s dating society, more often than not they’re now met with ghosting, lies, disgust, put downs rejections or negativity. Dating today is just done for!
The really crazy one is when the woman is dropping these signs but then you follow up with her and she still shoots you down. I’ve gotten to the point where I intentionally ignore the signs because I know that I could be getting every greenlight in the world and the lady still acts like I’m tripping.
Only way il.make first move is if I grow from 5f8 to 6ft 2 and I pack 3 stone of muscle on then I mite possibly make first move after a few bottle of whisky
And men are also met with criminal charges, Clueless Courtney won’t mention that.
@@SanVic yeah but men deserve it now we have zero rights we are just taxi drivers cash machines and some fun when the woman decides we deserve it I’ve learned to shut up keep mouth shut and say yes your right and I am wrong .
@@SanVic I like Courtney a lot – she has a humble heart and message for us men to push on with, but dating has changed over the last 5 years (at least) that what was considered ok back then no longer works today as most women want the select 1-2% of men which most of us cannot be.
Great points. unfortunately I have had women give me those “hints” but in reality were just looking for friendship and not an actual relationship lol
Yep, this is correct validation and pop of the old attention pipe. You never hear from them unless they need a confidence booster or some help with something.
PTSD is real, after my heart was shattered into pieces by the one who claimed we will be together forever. I drank myself to sleep every day for 3 months, I am 2 weeks sober now, and I joined a study group. The painful part is, I still love her. We have been together since high school. My heart still aches
I am terribly sorry to hear this and trust me i know what you are going through, losing someone you love is always tough, sometimes you blame yourself even when you are not the problem, i have been there, and it wasn’t easy, but i did all i could to get her back, so I watched a lot of youtube videos especially coach Stephan speaks, Matthew Hussey, Courtney Ryan, Alexander grace and Doctor Ramani. I also used the services of a spiritual counsellor as well.
Oh wow! How did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do I reach him or her any tips?
Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters, and she is a great spiritual counsellor
Thank you so much, I will give her a try, i searched her name online and found her website, once again, thank you
I saw this exact same exchange on another video. Please stop spamming.
haha it’s crazy the timing of this video, yesterday a woman came up to me at the office and was asking about my walking routes that I take in our area as she noticed me on the sidewalk while she was out grabbing lunch. She made a comment of how “I was thinking of doing that route but then I chickened out” and my coworker afterwards was like dude that sounded like she was interested. It completely went over my head in the middle of the conversation. I’m not used to people showing interest like that, I always default to they’re just being nice
@@Dirkadirky stay safe my man don’t make eye contact with any woman at work if ask you a question say I know nothing
She probably was just being nice. I’d bet a week’s pay that she’s got a significant other already—and it ain’t you.
@@LinkinVerbz44 yeah I fell in to that trap a woman always smiling and I got wrong end of stick asked her out she said no it was very awkward after that .
Honestly, why is it okay to expect men to pick up on this – isn’t this just expecting them to do more emotional labour, and isn’t unfair to expect them to carry the mental load?
I’m male. Simply put, ever since high school, hearing my friend’s female cousin say that “boys often read too much into things that girls say or write (in yearbooks),” I’ve always had the fear that “she is just being nice, I mistake that for her being interested in me, I’m wrong, then I feel stupid, embarrassed and humiliated.” And, “I feel like everybody is laughing at, making fun of, and judging me.” The reward is just not worth the risk. I’d wind up telling myself (I’m the King of Hindsight 20/20), “Why didn’t I just stay still, not make a move, and at least I wouldn’t have egg all over my face?”
Its the worst to feel rejected and ashamed of pursuing someone that doesnt like you. But remember this, the fact that they rejected you doesnt mean that you are not a worthy person, you have to aprecciate yourself and know that you are a valuable person, and if they cannot see that, then they are the wrong people
Important things:
0:44 First Thing ÷ She’s Curious About Your Type;
1:24 Second Thing ÷ She’s Stays In Transition Moments;
2:02 Third Thing ÷ She Brings Up Random Scenarios;
2:37 Fourth Thing ÷ She’s Selectively Vulnerable;
3:17 Fifth Thing ÷ She Doesn’t Mind Silence With You;
3:53 Sixth Thing ÷ She Playfully Challenges You;
4:26 Seventh Thing ÷ She Asks For Your Schedule Or Mentions Hers; and
5:40 to summarize all the told here.
Additional things when the woman wants the men to make first move are also these:
Eight Thing ÷ She Gives A Smile; Ninth Thing ÷ She Gives Winks; Tenth Thing ÷ Body Language. But also these mentioned things are also used partly at Sixth Thing an partly Second Thing.
What you have told there Courtney, that so true.
The people that break down videos are the real heroes
Thanks for saving me 6 mins.
Clueless Courtney didn’t mention women will make the first move if they think you are hot.
@@TheLostAndNotFound always times two speed on these video
Yo! I do these things too! Nice to see someone else being a real hero!
In dream land, “If women can (provided that the man is respectful with making his first move) can turn down a man, respectfully, not embarrass and humiliate him, and not spread to the entire world (that he made the first move), more men would be willing to make that first move.” Do people realize, that it’s not the turn down by a woman itself, that’s the worst thing. Rather, it’s the “fear of the rejection,” as well as “other onlookers, her girlfriends, and even HIS own friends, laughing at and making fun of him, after the rejection.” That’s why, when a guy goes out of state to college, he can take more chances asking girls out: If she turns him down, (unlike if he goes to college in his hometown, where people from high school know him), it’s easier to put behind him, because fewer people are likely to know.
This is so true, people have told me I do not speak to them about girls, but that was largely because when I did all they did was constantly tease me about them, which I think made me super self-conscious whenever I did speak to them.
@@RunningAway_1990 What we all realize too late in life, is that “what is said to kids when they are age 5-17, can have a HUGE and lasting effect on them.” If one boy, in 7th grade, tells another boy, “No girl is ever going to want to date you,” that can really make that boy’s self-confidence crumble. He’s going to believe it, and will be hesitant to ask girls out. If she turns him down, he’s going to say to himself, “That guy was right: No girl is ever going to want to date me.” I guess my point is, I wish that young people would realize that taunting and humiliating others, can have a much larger effect on them than they think.
Im not reading all that bro, especially with that grammar
I am shocked!
Shocked I tell you! My previous, and my current (likely an LTR) relationships have been the women (indirectly) approaching me. I’m older and it’s never happened to me before.
If he’s a celebrity or has status, she’ll make the move
Preach it because Clueless Courtney will not.
@@calilavello4979 this is sheer cope, most men are not a celebrity nor have status so they HAVE to approach, just deal with it or settle with never getting laid
@@calilavello4979 most men are not celebrities lol if you don’t approach you won’t get any
Yeah, but then she´ll want you only for the selfie moment.
@ that’s just delusional, if they are a celebrity or have status women will sleep with them fairly quickly
She DOES want me to make the first move…but I’m only 5’10…so, not me, per se. But, like, a 6 feet tall version of me.
Much of this advice is helpful and appreciated but what has always bothered me is most people I hear always say she is worried about rejection We live in a society where historically women have the right of choice of mate Respectfully, it’s men who face the most risk of rejection Not many people care about that however
@@michaels304 Women being rejected is a far bigger ego blow then men getting rejected
Too lazy to browse comments, but women do indeed make the first move – they put themselves in your orbit in some form. They don’t approach it guns blazing like most men (exception being introverts). They orbit, test the waters for character and mutual level of interest, and go from there.
This is the problem in dating: the ‘subtleness’
Even it became a trend outside the dating sphere. Once a guy wanted a beer, so he gave a subtle signal to the bartendress, he moved his eyes to the left where the beers stand, he came across as creepy
I really appreciate the ideas you shared on this presentation, thank you
Fellas I am being really honest here. You feel it when someone likes you. If you are debating, chances are she doesn’t. The best way to describe it is like a gut feeling you get just by literally seeing how she acts.
Yeah I feel like I get this spidy sense when it happens. I feel like as long as you are knowledgeable on the signs then it should come naturally to you.
After reading the book Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish I finally stopped chasing and started attracting, crazy change.
I love these videos, the only thing is I’ve been married for 13 years and I’ve known my wife since 2003.
The first move was a long time ago in a nightclub and I seem to recall a lot of groping going on ! 😂