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Women can perform all of these actions, but STILL end up playing the man for a total fool. I’ve had this experience one time too many and it’s put me off trying. I’m near 40 and lost interest completely because trying to be genuine these days only gets us good people used and tossed aside like garbage.
If that’s how you feel, then you’re completely wasting your time watching these types of videos. It’s a new year. Try to be a little more optimistic.
Yepppp 🤝🏾📠 if a woman wants my time loyalty an effort she gotta chase me an earn it other than that it’s God Gym Goals only 🤷🏾♂️
@@gk_zone4274men are the prize protectors an providers bro it’s zero reason why a man needs to do 100% of the work anymore
I’ve had this experience as well — I now do not respond the these “subtle” hints. If she’s interested, she can say something.
I used to think like that and its not a good mental frame to be in. Maybe women can sense your negativity and shut down. My “luck” started improving when I stopped expecting anything.
And then 5 mins later she will be like “nah”
That’s why it is a trial. Do stuff, gather information, decide, act.
This year is going to be great for Courtney. She’s going to be at 1 million subscribers. Happy New Year.
You’re so kind, thank you! Happy new year! 🎊
@@CourtneyRyan great videos and very helpful information to know, can we also chat with each other more about what you said on your videos as well?
The issues with this is that you may not know what the woman is interested in. She may like your company, but could be looking for a friend, or to become part of a group. The term “being interested” can mean many things. The only time a woman asked me to come up to her apartment after talking to her for 10 minutes on the street, resulted in me realizing that she was lesbian and simply enjoyed the conversation. Some women don’t mind male friends, in the literal sense of the word, but have zero interest in you beyond that. Or in other words, if you think that she is interested based on these hints, first make sure that these are not consistent with simple comradery or friendship.
A dancer at a gentleman’s club asked if I wanted a dance. I think she likes me!
😅😅😂. Especially men like Benjamin’s, not men named George so much.
She’s already cheating on you, because she asked me the same question.
So I am absolutely clueless when women like me. I mean totally clueless. As in women have asked me if I wanted to be intimate, and I didn’t catch on. So, learning how women show interest is something I need work on. So, this video is a good way to start my year.
So after watching the video I have determined that I am doomed. 😂 I am already bad at picking up on hints but most of this is just so subtle it’s not going to even register. Also women that I know weren’t interested in me have done these things too. How do we know when it’s something more? How can you differentiate friendly from flirty?
Do not think about it at all. If you like her, just ask her out. If she refuses, go to nex one. Period. Good luck.
@@darrenskjoelsvold Trial and error through experience will help you. Obviously be respectful that’s just a given but being vulnerable and saying things out loud and making yourself look “stupid” for the sake of understanding what she means will go a long way. I put that word in quotations because that word is subjective. You won’t know what works until you put yourself out there and learn though so that’s the necessary first step you and everyone else needs to do. In time you’ll change this narrative that you’re “bad” at something because now you’re putting in reps trying to learn.
I think you’re right with the first thing you said. If a woman is into you then she will go way out of her way to be close to you. When she really wants you there is no doubt about it. However , if she doesn’t already feel that way all the rest of this stuff will do very little.
Also, I had a “friend” who I was interested in years ago. She showed no interest. That’s fine. I got over it after a while. We reconnected recently, but as “Instagram friends,” I wasn’t looking for much from her. In fact, I barely spoke to her other than just casual conversations.
Then, all of a sudden, she starts sending me stuff on Instagram of “things she wants to do”. I take the bait (stupidly) and say “Okay cool, we definitely can do that”
I invite her to a hockey game, which she enjoys, and we go.
But since that (last month), she’s been relatively cold toward me. Not mean or anything. She’s still kind. She responds when I text her (but doesn’t reply to the 2nd text back). I am at this point where I am better off just going back to barely talking to her because it’s not good for my mental health to try and go with someone who
A) has shown no interest romantically in the past
and
B) Doesn’t respond properly when I respond to her suggestions that you (Courtney) are saying that some women do.
I am better off looking for someone new.
You are doing the right thing mate. Forget about her and talk to other women.
You might not be her option A. Hurts, but that is life.
Never ever waste your time with a woman who friendzone you. Those women are evil…
Yeah, just move on. Look at it as, you had a friendly time and you learned you’re still comfortable around women.
She’s looking for prince charming, who doesn’t exist.
Move on and carry on.
No games, no drama, I quit the dating insanity and now I have peace and lots more money. Did I mention freedom?
That’s right since I no longer share head space and emotional space with anyone I have a type of freedom I never knew before.
If you’re looking for these “subtle signs” it’s already over for you. She’s not subtle at all with the guy she REALLY likes
Exactly
On the plus side, getting subtle signs is still something great. When I watch these kind of videos, I realize that no women has ever been interested in me.
@@someother5512 cope
It’s a trap! Subtle signs will only get you harassment and S.A. Charges. Because today’s “strong, independent women” are straight in your face about everything.
True, but most women will not be overt. I’ve had one woman in my life actually asking me out. The vast majority of women will be subtle and most of us miss these signs because they are too subtle I suppose.
But last night at NYE, I think one woman was not too subtle. She literally dragged me to the dance floor after dinner before the music started. We were just standing there for the music to start and I felt a little uneasy. She made what I believe were other signs during the evening but I’m not interested in her, some things she said and did in the past.
Another I asked to dance a slow one, after another refused. I’m used to be refused, even had to insist one dance with me some months ago, this a woman I know. She did but she hardly looked at me, neutral expression. This one last night, she looked at me and smiled the whole time. She even did multiple twirls. Her subtle signs? Maybe and maybe I should have pursued.
I even got compliments on my attire last night, one a woman I did go there to pursue but she’s dating someone else. If she wasn’t, I would have been over the moon and taken it as reciprocal interest. Still, nice to hear.
It’s like reading between the lines if the lines were printed in invisible ink on a single page of a blank 1,000 page notebook
😂😂😂😂😂
The physical contact clues can be misleading sometimes. There are women (usually from close-knit families with lots of siblings) who happily touch people without any flirtatious or romantic intention. If you stopped them and asked them why they were doing it, they would likely answer, “I’m just being friendly” or “I didn’t even realise I was touching them”.
I agree very true
The important thing is to look at others if she likes you she’ll show multiple signs. Each sign individually doesn’t mean much it’s the totality. Usually there should be greater than 3 signs to indicate there may be interest. Anything less she’s most likely being friendly
Happy healthy New Year to you Courtney. Gray suits you well
Hints do not exist. We have the power of speech to express ourselves.
Also, I had girls do all the things you mentioned and they were NOT interested.
Courtney seems like she doesn’t want to put women down but she’s 100% not helping.
U are right I agree
Unless you are looked upon as a “fling” to them. I had an owner of a seafood restaurant introduce herself to me by putting her hands on my shoulders while my back faced her. As she walked by, her hands went from my shoulders down to my hips. Later on, I noticed a wedding ring on her finger and her children (both girls) also helped out at the restaurant. Be careful gentlemen because some women might try to set you up for something criminal.
maybe they were interested, but you messed up. So you tell yourself they were never interested to cope and avoid working on yourself.
@@BobFosterMedia I do not mind that I “messed up” because she was (and I think still is) a married woman with children.
Important things: 0:41 First Thing ÷ Create Opportunities To Be Together; 2:02 Second Thing ÷ She Teases Or Lightly Jokes; 2:51 Third Thing ÷ Look At Your Body Language; 3:48 Fourth Thing ÷ Subtly Mention Future Plans; 5:15 Fifth Thing ÷ Compliments You And Notices How You Respond; 6:47 Sixth Thing ÷ Subtle Physical Touches; and 8:32 To summarize all the told here.
Addition to these things can be these: Seventh Thing ÷ Being Ready To Jump To Help; Eighth Thing ÷ Finding A Good Compromise In Needed Situations; Ninth Thing ÷ Showing Empathy; Tenth Thing ÷ Complementing Things Via Joking (but this can be also used partly in already told second thing).
When I have mentioned seventh thing I meant on the following thing. For example when you are on a dating, and you go out, man can lend the jacket if the woman feels some chills (like we see in the movies). One other example what happened to me is that one of the girls didn’t carry wet wipes (since I did mention that I carry with me hand sanitizer and wet wipes). And that was at one pizza restaurant. I gave her my wet, and my hand sanitizer, and she told me this: You are very well prepared. Thanks a lot.
When you mentioned third thing Courtney, I remembered one thing that I saw a couple of years ago. It goes like this: “Look into the eyes, not the words, because words sometimes fumble.”
Happy New Year dear Courtney Ryan, and happy New Year to all of you dear people.
I wish you a lot of health, joy, and happiness, and let this year be a better one.
I hate to reiterate it, but if a woman likes you, she will not be subtle. If she is being subtle in her hints, she is simply being nice as a woman. Same thing with flirting. It will become very apparent early on in the conversation whether or not she’s just being nice or she genuinely likes you. In all my ltrs and especially meeting my wife for the first time, it became very obvious they were interested within initial conversation.
If you are not a 7 or above on looks, women will do all those “hints” and then when you react, she will put you in the Friendzone.
Can confirm. Same with all my my long term relationships so far. When she genuinely likes you, she’ll attach herself to you like a conjoined twin and laugh at literally anything you say. There’s no guessing at all.
Courtney is correct regarding subtle hints. The difficult part is that sometimes hints are a sign of interest, sometimes not. The hard part for a guy is telling the difference. In my single days, I sometimes had women tell me another girl was interested in me only to be angrily rejected when I asked for a date. The truth is there is no way to know what is on someone else’s mind with 100% certainty.
Women are not subtle when they like you.
Courtney, I’ve had this happen to me many times. The only issue here is, they typically have a husband or boyfriend when I do find out. It’s usually women who are in a relationship who show these signs the loudest. Probably because they’re not happy, seeking attention, dont have values, lack of respect for theor partner? I can’t count how many times it’s happened. It’s a double-edged sword to know from others you’re a handsome/gorgeous person. I never looked myself to be one, I focus on being a good peraon with boundries and have my life balanced and sarcastically humorous with everyone. Some will assume im a player, others also say I seem like a stuck up. Sigh…..
Those subtle signs are not a proof, that she is interested forever. Those small actions are signals to the guys, but also experiments for herself. She might decide against you at the end. There is no guarantee. This is a trial. These signs only show that you are currently seen as a candidate. And that is a good thing.
I guess I missed all these clues because I had a woman at a car wash I use strike up a conversation with me while we were both waiting for our cars to be cleaned and we got to talking about what we do for a living and when I told her I day trade stock options she made the comment, “well I need to get with you to get some tips on how to trade!” I just politely responded to her that it is not that hard and there are plenty of youtube videos on how to get started. I guess because I was not really focused on the woman and was more focused on what the workers were doing to my car I just completely missed what may or may not have been her showing interest. Nowadays with so many women accusing men of harassment I literally just be polite and leave it at that!
After applying what I learned from Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish and tips like yours, I’ve approached over 80 women in the past two months. I’ve gotten more confident, landed a few dates with some cute girls and even received compliments from strangers. It feels incredible to see actual progress like this. Thanks you so much!