Why is your narcissistic spouse insisting on mediation? It might seem like they're being cooperative, but spoiler alert: it's about control. They think they can isolate you, manipulate the mediator, and bulldoze through the process. But here’s the truth 👉 You can actually turn this into a power play—if you know how. #DivorceCoach #NarcissistDivorce #HighConflictDivorce […]
Continue readingMediating with a narcissist? 🚫 Gray area doesn’t exist to them. It’s all or nothing—and even the mediator becomes the enemy. 🎭 #MediationStruggles #NarcissistLogic If you're leaving a narcissistic partner and would like to work with me, then the first step is to book a BREAK-THROUGH TO BREAK-FREE session with me here: 🔔 Subscribe for […]
Continue readingIs your narcissistic spouse pushing hard to mediate your divorce? Let me tell you why that’s a huge red flag—and how it can actually work in your favor. I break down why narcissists love mediation (spoiler: it’s not because they want to be fair), how they try to manipulate the process, and what you can […]
Continue readingA coach has seen it all—so you don’t have to figure it all out alone. 🎯 Get support, stay sharp, and navigate the chaos with confidence. 💪 #DivorceCoach #SmartSupport If you're leaving a narcissistic partner and would like to work with me, then the first step is to book a BREAK-THROUGH TO BREAK-FREE session with […]
Continue readingPlay the part. Stay calm, stay quiet, and get your plan in place behind the scenes. Your freedom is coming. #StepfordStrategy #silentstrength If you're leaving a narcissistic partner and would like to work with me, then the first step is to book a BREAK-THROUGH TO BREAK-FREE session with me here: 🔔 Subscribe for more tips […]
Continue readingHave you heard the term dog whistling in narcissistic abuse? It’s a covert tactic narcissists use to provoke you in ways no one else notices—so YOU look like the irrational one. In my latest video, I share a real-life story from one of my clients that perfectly illustrates this manipulative dynamic. #NarcissisticAbuse #DivorceCoach #HighConflictDivorce #ReclaimYourPower […]
Continue readingLiving in a narcissist’s world feels like gaslit chaos 🔥🌀—but you are not crazy. Build your support system and hold on to your truth. 🧠💛 #RealityCheck #YouAreNotAlone If you're leaving a narcissistic partner and would like to work with me, then the first step is to book a BREAK-THROUGH TO BREAK-FREE session with me here: […]
Continue readingHave you ever heard the term "dog whistling" in the context of narcissistic abuse? That's exactly what I'm diving into in this video. I'm Victoria McCooey, a High Conflict Divorce Coach, Divorce Mediator, and the creator of the Reclaim Your Power system. I help people every day who are stuck in toxic marriages with narcissistic […]
Continue readingWhen trauma feels familiar, we mistake it for normal. 💔 The body remembers—even when we don’t. Heal the pattern. Break the cycle. ✨ #GenerationalHealing #BreakFree
Continue readingYou can’t put a narcissist in timeout—but you can remove yourself. 🚪✌️ Set the boundary, stick to it, and protect your peace. #BoundariesMatter #ProtectYourEnergy If you're leaving a narcissistic partner and would like to work with me, then the first step is to book a BREAK-THROUGH TO BREAK-FREE session with me here: 🔔 Subscribe for […]
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