The 3 Most Dangerous Narcissists You’ll Meet Without Realizing It
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Malignant Narcissists are the most dangerous kind of narcissist we hope never will meet. Malignant narcissists fit the dark triad Machiavellianism, psychopathy narcissism. While Covert narcissists may not be as mean as Malignant narcissists they are resentful sullen deceiving power hungry they lie about others to get what they want attention promotion money or whatever.
Communal Malignant Narcissists are often cult leaders. They always know the way to rig a system to their advantage and obtain what they want.
Yes they are very dangerous people first hand advice
Please keep working on this work and exposure to this crisis. I’m 65, ill, financially drained, Father of 5, Grandfather to 11 and being discarded after 35yrs of marriage.
I’ll keep working it if you keep working it Dr R…Peace Be With You and your audience
I’m watching your old videos from 2021. Thank you for putting your time and effort into making these videos, we don’t take them for granted. Your channel is a Godsend.
We love you very much, Dr. Ramani!
Thank you for not giving up on you and being the great survivor you’re capable of 🎉
I wish everybody listened to Dr. Ramani. I’m so sick of hearing “low IQ” and such when talking about people who are depraved or misguided among other things. The people who have hurt me the most were not “low IQ.” The people doing the most damage in society, more often than not, are not “low IQ.”
Basically the danger of “low IQ” is being an enabler or a follower, mostly of a central narcissist. But no, you’re right in saying they themselves don’t cause the most damage; without the narcissist, they’re directionless but also harmless by themselves. Followers follow. They drift to people who are the flashiest – aka narcissists. They’re victims too. However, society doesn’t take too kindly to those who they feel view their free will as a sacrifice for the future faking narcissist. It’s simply put an empathy deficit that we face concerning victims. It’s tragic, really.
Dr. Ramani, thank God for you!
Thank you, Dr.Ramani!❤
Spent 20 years with an entitled covert, trying to be a friend, and mentor, and I truly cared about him, but I couldn’t do the push and pull anymore, the stress, gaslighting, smears. They are dangerous.
And when I left, he had a total implosion, rage, depression, tried to get me fired from my job, sulking, no therapy will work because for these guys, everything is an act. They will always act a role as an actor, they are chameleons to everyone.
He would study movies to know how to act in social situations, there was no true “him” that he could be openly, and I was trying to help with that, but there was no way. So full of rage and paranoia, there was no way to help dismantle all the distortion that he lived in, because it was his choice to live in his carefully constructed distortion. He wouldn’t even do the thought experiments to test if his distortions were true or not, he just decided the world was it’s way and that was that. Impossible to help. I’m better off alone, its so much less stress, and I can pursue my own joy because I am enough.
I love you taking action and becoming a strong survivor!
PEACE Be with you as you continue
LMAO, I gave similar, but dedicated 35yrs and I’m male
I had to turn off the video & go laugh for over a minute when you asked why so many geniuses are A**holes. TY. I really need that lift.🙏🥰❤️🩹😂🙏
My favorite author, too!!! I nearly jumped off the couch when you said Barbara Kingsolver! I am a HUGE fan of hers. Cool that you are, too!
Thank you, I believe I am a daughter of covert narcissistic mother.
Memory like an elephant, rembers every single person who she believes had done her wrong (even children) and revels in their downfall.
Expert at triangulation, cares more about her reputation, and is threatened by anyone she believes is better than her.
When Dr. Ramani talked about Pathological jealousy really hit home.
#same !
Yoy described my mother except mine was worse
Notice the vulnerable and covert seem to go together. The jealousy of a narcissist is head swinging especially the vulnerable. And to think we are just working in the 3 dimensional world on this !! But are not all narcissist actually covert. Always hiding something! these videos are very validating an educational . It’s been a heck of a journey for sure !
Haha you have been predicting what is going on in the world for a long time. You’re spot on.
Thank you, dr. Ramani, for all your help and support!! ❤🙏🌸
Dr. Ramani, I’m not sure if you have one, but I’d love a video on the gatekeeper narcissist. I’ve looked through your videos and I don’t see one but you might discuss it under another heading. For those not familiar, a gatekeeper narcissist is one controls and/or restricts family or social connections, determining who can interact with whom, often forcing isolation to ensure they remain the center of attention. They will often not allow you to access other social connections without going through them. They do this via triangulation. Think of a group text between people who know each other but there is one person at the center and they do not want you to interact with others unless they are aware of it. All communication must be through the group text rather than one person in the group privately contacting another. These are manipulative and abusive people. They isolate others and foster co-dependency. I could go on and on but I’d love for Dr. Ramani to explain this from her expertise.
Sounds so horrible!!!
@CatLoverofLoafingit is horrible. If you encounter a gatekeeping friend, romantic interest, or family member, cut contact. They are toxic AF!!
Final 3 minutes are some of the most valuable statements. Thank you
A lot of people sadly don’t see mental abuse as abuse 😢
Thanks Dr. Ramani….after listening to the whole video…I actually think I have a combo of Grandiose and covert relationship with a “dare I say”, narcissist…It’s someone Very popular on social media, but personally I can NEVER do enough nor criticize or I’ll get the instantaneous and psychological silent treatment or it get’s thrown back on me as projection, I believe…And it hasn’t changed for several years…Since I only get very limited and coy responses whenever I want clarity too, I’m on the way out cause I’m just SICK of it!