The “Big D’s” of Narcissistic Relationships
If you’ve ever wondered why you keep repeating the same patterns, shutting down, overgiving, or struggling to trust yourself, this workshop will help you understand exactly where those habits came from. We’ll break down the compensations you developed to stay safe, the corrections you’re trying now, and how to find a middle ground that feels stable and healthy. This is the space to learn the emotional skills you were never taught.
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My narcissistic relationship is with my father. I just lost my husband six months ago. He’s not really helping me at all with advice, support or good intentions, he’s bombarding me and confusing me purposely? Because women are stupid. I’m exhausted but it’s made it easier to cut him off. It’s not 100% yet, I feel guilted into maintaining a thin thread with him because of my mother. Both parents are in their 90’s. Dad and I have never gotten along well. He really dislikes women because of his own mother and how she treated him as a child. As he ages he just gets nastier and nastier.
Hi doctor ramani I have a question. What is the difference between psychopathy and aspd ❤❤❤❤
Simple Way to Remember It
ASPD = “Acts antisocial” (focus on observable rule-breaking, impulsivity, irresponsibility since adolescence)
Psychopathy = “Feels nothing while acting antisocial” (adds the cold-hearted, remorseless, manipulative core)
Neurobiological Findings (research consensus)
Psychopathy is associated with reduced amygdala and Ventromedial prefrontal cortex activity.
→ deficient fear, empathy, and moral socialization.
Classic ASPD without psychopathy often shows a normal or hyper-reactive amygdala.
→ hot-tempered rather than cold-predatory.
Practical Implications
Common Therapy Outcomes
Pure psychopaths (high PCL-R): generally poor response to treatment, high manipulation risk in therapy.
ASPD without psychopathy: somewhat better prognosis, especially if anxiety/mood issues are treated.
In short: Every psychopath technically has ASPD, but most people diagnosed with ASPD are not psychopaths; they’re impulsive rule-breakers rather than callous, emotionless predators.
I’ll be there. It’s my way to celebrate the season. Thank you Dr. Ramani ❤
Currently in a relationship where we’re living somewhere that doesn’t work for either of us. I’ve suggested moving many times, offered a big chunk towards a deposit, and shown that buying would be cheaper than renting and better for both our needs. Almost every daily problem she raises could be improved by moving, but she stays focused on the small stuff instead of the bigger picture.
All I want is for us to explore options together and make decisions as a team. Instead, she insists renting is the only option, she makes all the decisions, and my views feel irrelevant. We’re left stuck here and there’s zero movement towards looking for somewhere more suitable.
At this point I feel my only way to move forward is to leave and go back to my mum’s, because no matter how much I try to contribute, I hit the same brick wall and feel like I have no agency. I can see how much better things could be if we moved somewhere more suitable.
I know a YouTube comment can’t convey a full picture, but does this sound like covert narcissism?
They could have all kinds of reasons for not wanting to buy a house with you. They could not understand fully why in order to communicate with you or they could not feel comfortable saying because you seem so insistent that you are totally correct.
@amberinthemist7912The issue for me isn’t “she won’t buy a house with me”, it’s that we can’t move forward in any constructive way as equals, whatever the solution is. Every decision has to be hers, and my input seems to carry no weight, even when I’m suggesting things that would directly improve the day-to-day problems she talks about.
If I buy something small like a phone case, I get interrogated and talked down to as if I’m being irresponsible. But paying a landlord indefinitely – effectively gifting them an asset we’ll never own – can’t be questioned, because she’s always right and I’m always wrong.
She’ll complain about having to walk a mile to the car because she has Fibromyalgia (that really is the nearest can park without risking a parking fine), but there’s no real interest in working together as equals on solutions like moving. It all has to be her ideas and her decisions, and that’s the part that’s wearing me down – along with dealing with all the daily negativities that could be reduced or removed by moving somewhere that’s both cheaper and better suited to both of us.
Judgy McJudger. Be nice dude.
At the very least it sounds passive aggressive!
As do you!
18th, 30 November 2025
live workshop is on youtube?
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So, I got an angry letter from the nex accusing me of destroying his mental health. Thankfully today, I can almost laugh at it. I am out, 2yrs now. Best decision Ever! TY Dr Ramani for providing a safe place and clear vision of what being in a narcissistic relationship is. I really could not have made it here today w/o your continued insight and program.
Those glasses are perfect for you!! Great choice.
🎉 I disassociated myself this year. I just didn’t go around them and I feel so peaceful.🎉😊
Diminishing….
Yes Discernment Amen 🙏🏼
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