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It’s interesting that people don’t take accountability these days. I have a new job and start next week. Looking forward to my new journey and getting the chance to ask the ladies for there number as everyone know’s l’m a single male in my 30’s and live truely on my own. Another great video
If you share this comment, l will follow and like the channel’s entire content and every single Courtney Ryan video, nice to see everyone has her support This generation deserves real people instead we had people like that wasting today’s generation. I for one would like to appoligise that we have some individual’s like that in the UK
I’m inspired by the fact women can see my value, l never give up just can’t quite understand why l would need to create four different Facebook Accounts & YouTube three channel’s
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As usual, @CourtneyRyan is framing women as victims of social media, movies, parenting, etc. Anyone surprised? The reality is women come back after rejecting you because they need constant ego stroking. No man should ever indulge selfish women who are ego obsessed.
They are getting older and they didn’t get the ring and their special day. They are settling. Never ever ever take anyone back
It’s always an insult to be someone’s safe bet, because they will never love you and will be ready to jump when it’s convenient. “He’s not the guy I’d hook up with, but he’s the guy I’d settle down with,” is incredibly insulting.
Never be someone’s Justin.
Youd rather hookup than settle down?
You described most women accurately.
It’s ironically the exact opposite when you actually talk to women. Most women (and men) admit that what they find sexually attractive isn’t necessarily something they think is healthy. A woman saying they’d only sleep with you, but not date you is a much harsher implication of you as a person. THAT means they don’t care about you.
@@dylannelson2165 The guy who sleep without relationship has more value that the dating guy in the woman’s eyes
In my mid to late 30s now I have had about 60% of the women I dated hit me up to try and get back together. My response is always the same, “why are you messaging me?”. They almost always say, ” I just wanted to catch up”, my response is usually “I don’t”. Ends 90% of the conversation
That, and being Cold-Hearted to them.
My response if any at all is, you left me and now youre back?
@@stevenbaker5099 Women need a splash of cold water every once in a while.
i woud have just used them for sex considering they wanted to use you for a ego boost
I’ll say it until I’m blue in the face: It does not matter her reasons for coming back after rejecting you. You job is to never give a second chance to someone who would treat you with such disrespect. Disregard her, respectfully.
Agreed, brother.
Don’t you ever tell me what my “job” should be again!
Nah I’ll take her back… I’m desperate 😂
@@denzalwash4120 Simp.
I don’t think telling someone no amounts to disrespect. Still, chances are high that the relationship she wanted didn’t work out and she is back because she is ready to settle. So, probably best to walk away.
said it before, will say it again, reject them when you become something, because they never wanted you when you was nothing
“If she didn’t want you in her prime, don’t accept her during her decline”
Not too long ago, I was contacted by someone who rejected me earlier this year (she reached out of nowhere asking for some random favor). My response to her was that I was going on a fancy vacation and could not help. Not going to lie, it felt really good to tell her that I was busy enjoying my life and indirectly hinting that she had pretty much missed her chance with me!
What was her reaction
I mean was she asking for a favor, because it sounds like she wasn’t really trying to get with you. If anything, you kinda look jaded; I ask you if you can do X and say no, implying it’s because I wouldn’t date you really takes the finish off the smug “busy enjoying my life,” stuff. I don’t assume you’re busy anymore. Id assume you’re still hurt by rejection that happened months ago (may be why she hasn’t been contacting you until she really needs something) and are getting back at me at literally the first opportunity.
@@Edgelawd She had none. This just proves that she wasn’t interested in an honest reconnection, even as friends.
sounds like your fancy vacation was having her out of your life and thats better than any trip to Fiji
@@dylannelson2165 I handled her rejection respectfully and moved on. Her reaching out for a favor is pretty one-sided. My response wasn’t about getting back at her; it was setting a boundary. I’m intentional about where I give my time and energy, and I’d rather focus on surrounding myself with people who want to build genuine, mutual connections.
This happened to me once. She broke up with me for another guy. He ended up just using her. She missed the stability that I provided. Not long after reuniting, she left again because she couldn’t stand how boring and predictable our relationship was. She wanted to come back again several months later, but there was no way I was going to repeat that cycle. I wished her well, suggested that she spend some time to understand her emotions and said my goodbyes.
Stop being boring bro.
@@adriansierra751She’s the boring one.
@@adriansierra751 sToP bEiNg StAbLe bRo
I would not have been so kind. She sounds horrible.
Yes she came back for a second chance after two years of her new relationship but I ended up walking away. Lesson learned never give yourself back to someone that left you just because they think it’s greener on the other side. Just stay focused on your goals and keep pushing forward for your success. There’s always someone out there for you. I didn’t walk away because I was mad or holding crouch, I walked away because my feelings are completely empty and I’m not going to pretend everything’s ok, that takes time if you willing to accept them back into your life. My greatest advice is forgive them and move on with your life. Other than that Courtney said it all awesome advice
My ex of 13-14 years; over this past year she has told me that she wanted me back.
But she hasnt changed in any shape or form for me to even consider taking her back.
Shes now what todays society calls “Ran Through” and shes desperate.
Once I get rejected, the feeling is gone and it doesn’t come back no matter how hard they try.
Ok. Why is that? Is it because you’re taking the rejection to heart, or do you just lose attraction for them?
@@dylannelson2165 being with someone who rejected you is never good
Same, when they come back it is because they have not found better.
We need to value ourselves
“I don’t know where we went wrong, but the feeling’s gone, and I just can’t get it back”….Gordon Lightfoot, “If You Could Read My Mind”
A post rejection second chance does sound like a rare occurrence. So does running into a bear. I won’t hang around and see what happens with either.
The way I hear this is simple… Went to find something better , didnt find it , tried to come back and settle.
You only get one life and allowing someone to come back can be a waste of more years… Don’t do it. Looking back at your life and seeing that you wasted years that you cannot get back is one of the most horrid feelings ive ever experienced.
“Don’t let your ego make decisions that your peace will have to pay for.”
Someone please put this on billboards across America. This hit me. Applicable to all facets of life.
NEVER take back a woman that rejected you!
What if she swallows?
@@johnhartsock1891 then she should swallow the rejection with pride 🙂
Her other options used her. Never take them.
She rejected you because you were never her first option. She wanted to “find herself” and have fun. And when those options run their course and desperation sets in, you’re there waiting. Don’t be the guy waiting. Don’t be the second chance or fifth chance. Have dignity and self respect.
Well said, sir.
If they reject you, just move on. We all know adult women have one night stands, so it’s not about impulse on her end, it’s about attraction for her, and the reality is that ste doesn’t find you THAT attractive. She just came around to the idea that you’ll do for the time being.
Do not EVER take back someone who walked away. EVER. It always ends even worse than the first time.
This.