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Men die of thirst while women drown in saltwater
I don’t know what this means exactly but I think I TOTALLY agree lol
HAHA
Correction – saltwater with a few fresh water bottles bobbing up and down, but they never grab these since either 1) they have to swim through too much saltwater to get to the fresh water (good men get buried under bad matches) or 2) they ignore the fresh water and are waiting for the pina coladas (women forgoing decent men who aren’t as shiny for the top shiny men)
@@psychosylocibinspot on
Deep
I think when she says ‘matching with 30 girls’ she meant swiping on 30 girls (they rarely match back)
Yeah that would make more sense lol
There is a split. The 90/10 rule ( used to be 80/20 ). 10% of men get matched by 90% of women. So yes if the guy is part of that 10% he matches with a lot girls. If he is part of the other 90% then he is only matched by very few girls.
@@peterkottke2570 It’s worse than that statistically. The number of women who swipe on men first is 4.5%-5%. A man on a dating app would need to be in the top 5% to get anywhere close to that many matches a day. The best men usually get 3-5 matches per day while the worst women get around 15-20. Women will easily 5x the best men on dating apps in terms of matches. That’s why I believe the whole story in the video is totally made up.
An average guy wouldn’t get 30 matches a year. I bet he’s rich & handsome.
@@RobertTaylor-gz2fu I bet he is a figment of the video woman’s imagination.
the last time i used a dating app i lost count of how many bot accounts on there trying to scam gullible/desperate men.
That was why I stopped using dating apps. I got tired of the scam accounts.
Yeah, things got really bad when I married my AI girlfriend, she cheated on me with another machine, then divorced me and took half my crypto. XD
😮@@KevvoLightswift
They were everywhere on Tinder & I quit after that too.
Of my entire experience with dating apps, ONLY ONE TIME I could match with someone real, and the 100s of other times, they were SW, cam girls, etc. I gave up on those apps because they are an unnecessary headache and waste of time.
I have 0 likes on my dating apps since joining them from 2017.
Delete your profile, cancel your account and open a new one. And create a much better profile.
you had the first part right lol
Alright, it’s really rough for men on dating apps, but you are 100% doing a lot of things wrong, and I don’t mean your appearances or other things out of your control.
Guys if you’re still using dating apps, DELETE THEM! A total waste of time and energy!
Wanna know what’s funny…?? A “dating coach” I used to subscribe to and worked with basically made me looked stupid by belitting me because I stopped using them. Then she goes telling her viewers that none of her friends use them, or even her for that matter!
She basically told me I was a lost cause and I ended up telling her we aren’t moving forward.
I went out to the wild, met someone, and I’m pretty happy!
Unless you’re in the top 10-20%%. I did the work over a year and now get plenty of matches. If you’re below an 8/10 your’e screwed.
@@5rc having too many options to me is unfulfilling and a waste of time. Plus, who the hell has time to be dealing with all the pizzazz of these apps? It’s too much and too extra
Thanks for sharing this Tommy!
When I was therapy, my therapist was surprised that i did not use a dating app. She was also single, so it made sense why she suggested it.
@@GJones247 bruhhhh….that doesn’t surprise me at all. Female therapists are the reasons why I stopped going to therapy
I’ve heard countless stories of girls getting hundreds to thousands of likes! While guys get little to zero.
when you think about it, it makes sense. dating apps are entirely novel to the human mind and as such entirely novel phenomenon occur. modern technology hijacks circuits in the brain that evolved in a particular environment. dating apps reduce a human being down to cultivated images and statistics.
Everything that woman said is not the experience of the average man on dating apps. The average man has one match per couple of months if he’s lucky.
Her guy friend is a player – the One Percent of Tinder men. Or, he is made up. Even money on either, really.
I don’t even know why you guys think that when she says “men” or “man” she’s talking about the average joe. She isn’t. She’s talking about the type of guy she’s attracted to, disregarding the existence of other men. That would be fine if she mentioned that before doing the video, but I guess that would defeat the whole purpose of it, since she wouldn’t be able to make the absurd points she made.
@@leo_625her friend explicitly said those are the numbers for an average man. he must not really know any average guys. but she probably made this up for views since everyone knows the dynamic.
@@cisium1184two things. First I love your Whalers logo avatar. Second, I’m pretty sure the tick tock video is satire
once every couple of months? if that’s your success rate, why even last a few weeks?
Your comment on men staying jn there own lane and using dating apps because of wome saying how they want to be left alone in real life I think is 100% spot on. I know that’s the case with me and a lot of my friends.
@sweettacular9899 I mostly agree with what you are saying. My only disagreement is that it is the fault of both men and women. Both are guilty of letting bad men get away with being bad for so long (thinking of direct cases like Harvey Weinstein). And also, women using any disagreement towards them as an excuse to accuse a man of being like Harvey when he is innocent and then men backing her up (for whatever reason).
So I think it’s okay to say it’s the fault of both men and women.
Yeah I’m
I couldn’t care less if I get “humiliated” after approaching someone in real life because like. Oh no she doesn’t want anything to do with me but that’s okay because I’m probably never gonna see her again anyway. Doesn’t make any difference to me
But I wouldn’t want to make other people uncomfortable and it’s confusing because
I used to want to get left alone at all costs – I didn’t approach you because I didn’t want to talk to you kind of thing. But now I’m more open to it but I remember from before and I wouldn’t want to make a girl feel like I did
@@sweettacular9899 No yeah I’m not trying to discount men’s desire to feel good, I just don’t worry about that myself
This has to be age dependent, right? Even with age, I’m not entirely sold. I’m 44 and live in a University town that is very liberal. I use dating apps primarily because I work from home, I’m with my kid a lot, and I’m sober (which eliminates many places people meet here). However, I have met women in person. My age and much younger. No one has ever been mean or acted offended at being approached. I really don’t think most of you have any idea how to talk to or handle women, nor judge the scenario right. First rule – Be realistic and don’t try to outpunt your coverage. Second rule – Don’t blindly approach her. If she has any interest, she will have checked you out already and you’ll notice. Her eyes will make the first move. If she sees right through you or never looks in your direction, you didn’t catch her eye and there’s no point. Most women are not these cold bitches that want to humiliate you in front of everyone like all the lonely mean here make it seem. It’s just perpetuating the minority that’s seen on social media. It’s a copout.
@@Swearengen1980
There’s some truth to what they say though. Mainly because girls are fickle and can change their minds at a drop of a hat.
I’m not blaming them though, because they’re slaves to their hormones just like we are. But their hormones are a lot more unstable so they can like a guy and send him signals but then 30 minutes later for some reason lose all attraction towards him.
So of course they reject him but the guy is left bewildered as to what had actually happened.
Hence “mixed signals” which may actually be considered as pre-nut clarity (as opposed to post-nut clarity that we get).
Spent 7 years on dating apps. Went on at least one date with 5 people total. At 29 last year in May I had finally had enough and quit cold turkey. Haven’t looked back nor cared to date still 16 months later
How do you get action without dating?
@@RobertTaylor-gz2fuI don’t
@@RobertTaylor-gz2fuhe doesn’t hence why he said no dating
@@seanshewman4127 Many people get some without dating.
I will tell you something from experience, not to bring you back in. As an experiment, I wore a suit for my main pic. I got matches but, most women asked me for money.
I then switched my pic to something fly, showed trips to Vegas, DR, and Cali, and had 10-20 matches a week. My point is, app or not, be the fun guy with personality. I don’t know you but, you seem hyper organized, always on time and well put together. Add a little douchbag to yourself and watch things get better.
Your not a bad looking guy but, to women you may seem to save and boring. Hope some of this helps.
I dont think anything has been able to match dating apps when it comes to the negative effect they had on my self esteem/confidence
You would think an app that makes its users want to stay by driving them insane would have more class action lawsuits.
You’re not the only one. They sent me down a very dark path.
You know what really shot my self esteem? I used an app with a tab that showed all the girls I sent a request to. Seeing girls who I knew were not up to my level all declining me lol. I never went back to that tab again. People might ask why even send a request if they’re below my physical standards. Well I’ve met women in person who become way more attractive with a good personality. I realize how rare that is, but I’m willing to take a chance. But getting declined by even unattractive girls is definitely a shot to self esteem.
@@deepg7084
Your own fault tbh. You should never “jack up the price” of chicks you don’t find attractive. It only makes them more delusional.
I get so much catharsis when women catfish as men on dating apps and are shocked when they see how hard it is compared to their experience.
Your bar is quite low since they’ll ignore it.
there are more men catfishing as women so you have to be carefull who you chat with …
How they could be under the delusion that women have it harder in this regard is a complete disaster for women’s empathy levels.
@@StarsDie88 Women have a 1000 matches a month, and they still manage to choose the wrong men and make it hard on themselves. They make poor choices and create their own drama and disasters.
I saw a video where a woman tried to be a man on a dating app, I think she tried to help her guy friend out or something and made a profile with his photos, after a short time of having to use the app as a man she was literally crying. CRYING. It was so horrible of an experience dealing with so little matches, so little attention, and having to try to communicate with women was miserable.
I think one impediment to people meeting each other in real life as opposed to online is people simply not knowing which places to go to. There is much talk about bars and clubs, but these aren’t really a lot of people’s go to places. And gyms, malls, parks, etc are not really viewed as social places anymore so we are left with fewer options.
Theres a huge trend of both men and women joining hobby clubs for that reason. I ditched dating apps because every time I go on vacation Im not looking or trying I get hit on a lot by complete accident. So now Im getting out to coffee shops and hobby clubs to let it happen by accident the way it does on vacation.
massively based ID of the problem
I wouldnt even say fewer, it’s actually no places. Like, where exactly?
Like Courtney I work from home since before the pandemic; literally gym, tennis club, shopping centre, the park are the only places I frequent. The odds are not in my favour.
Work used to be a huge dating market as well but that is basically illegal now.
Just deleted my dating apps, and i feel much better already. Never got a respond even if i matched, which happened like 6 times in two years. These dating apps just drained my self esteem.
The only men that are getting 30-40 matches per day are the guys that are in the top 10%. Hardly the majority
Even most of them don’t get anywhere near that many matches.
I think she meant swiping not matching
Top 1%. She’s a good looking girl. Her friend is probably a male model in NYC/LA/Miami.
@@catsnchords Why do loads of girls talk about “average guys” they know who are actually well above average?
@@catsnchordsexactly she’s not wasting her time with “the average guy” 😂
Half the time the profiles on dating apps aren’t real, they’re old or fake profiles to keep us on the dating site merry-go-round.
At least.. correct
I got off dating apps because it felt like I was in high school and junior high all over again. The constant rejection was depressing. I have learned that being alone is OK.
I was on dating apps for almost 10 years, and I even paid for coaches, professional profile help, and hired photographers to take my best photos. But no matter what I did, I wasn’t getting anywhere. Most of the time, I’d either get ghosted after one message or only matched with women who didn’t seem interested or were overweight. When I’d talk to my female friends or family about it, they’d just stare at me like they couldn’t believe how hard it is for regular guys on these apps.
which coaches?
Same here, did the main dating apps years ago and only one coach, pretty much arrived at the conclusion that since I wasn’t affluent and didn’t have my own place I was pretty much undatable. I’ve been told that you have to get out there, keep an open mind, etc. but the constant crickets or the rare one-and-only dates get old and only get me more jaded…so unless I bump into a women at the gas station or CVS, I’m done.
That’s why you need to learn cold apoorwcch
Her friend isn’t real. She just wanted to act like she had a legitimate source so no one would question her.
Could be ragebaiting for views.
True.
Exactly my thoughts.
My first thought too. Sounds like she got ghosted a few times and cant get over it.
I spent 6 years on dating apps. I tried many things like changing my photos and description, coming up with different opening lines, tried to be engaging during conversations, be more or less responsive, paid for premium stuff (whatever it means in each app), and got 5 in person dates that went nowhere. I consider myself average and I think this is also the average experience for most men. It was a waste of time and money, and it took a huge toll on my psychological wellness.
Emily King recently reacted to a girl that pretended to be a boy on a dating app, and on day 3 she admitted that she started hating women and being more depressed than ever. Posing as a “6”, not even the 2’s and 3’s were liking her profile. Not to mention the other stuff like dry responses, ghosting, no matches for days, onlyfans, bots etc.
This is Reality of us MEN.