The “Good Personality” Myth (What She ACTUALLY Means)

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  • @harrylong4941 says:

    Gentlemen just be the best person you can be (physically, financially, consistent, manners) if she can’t accept/ respond to that keep walking.

  • @DamienStory says:

    I loved it
    I was struggling with it alot.
    Remember women wants a man who has presence,engaging and feels comfortable on his own skin.
    woman do not want a puppy as a spouse (a cute and affectionate) they want someone who can desire.
    I believe in everyone who puts their work in here and courtney gives many good advice about it.
    Keep on the good work everyone

    • @SanVic says:

      Courtney Ryan is desperately trying to blame men for believing women literally when they say, “I just want a man with a good personality.” It’s never the woman’s fault in the world of Courtney Ryan.

    • @DamienStory says:

      ​​@SanVicshe has never said that.
      There are videos that she was showing delusional women that are not taking accountability.
      In this video she is just pointing out what women say and what they mean, it’s literally a breakdown about what it means ”good personality”
      I understand that many men as me went through alot without any success because it depends on many factors.
      I wish for you the best and as someone who struggled alot In this I see it as a very accurate example.
      And I appreciate your feedback

    • @SanVic says:

      I literally quoted her word for word. Play the beginning of the video.

  • @ilai7893 says:

    All I’m hearing is shifting goalposts, it’s the set of traits that are good “to her”. When her wants change it’ll make you become “not enough”

    • @memememememe-x9b says:

      Stop being bitter. It’s not hard to be a good person. A woman will like you as you are.

    • @SanVic says:

      @memememememe-x9b Courtney Ryan is desperately trying to blame men for believing women literally when they say, “I just want a man with a good personality.” It’s never the woman’s fault in the world of Courtney Ryan.

    • @memememememe-x9b says:

      ​@SanVicYou keep repeating this comment, multiple times to me. I replied once, with a unique answer. You have over 100 comments. You’re just hate-watching.

    • @SanVic says:

      @memememememe-x9b I’m quoting Courtney word for word, and I’m replying to your false claims.

    • @memememememe-x9b says:

      ​@SanVic What’s wrong with wanting someone with a good personality? Again, this video is directed towards men, not women. Are you a child?

  • @alex2556 says:

    courtney im sure your a great person bc ive been listening to your videos for awhile but now pretty much everytime i listen to one of your videos ( like this one ) it becomes more and more clear as to why im gonna be single forever. im 36 and this is just ridiculous

    • @memememememe-x9b says:

      It’s not hard to be a good person. A woman will like you as you are. At your age, you should know better.

    • @SanVic says:

      @memememememe-x9b Courtney Ryan is desperately trying to blame men for believing women literally when they say, “I just want a man with a good personality.” It’s never the woman’s fault in the world of Courtney Ryan.

    • @memememememe-x9b says:

      ​@SanVicYou keep repeating this comment, multiple times to me. I replied once. I’m not replying again.

    • @memememememe-x9b says:

      ​@SanVic Stop repeating the same comment. If you hate her content, why do you have over 100 comments? Also, this video is aimed at men who want to date women, not the reverse. Why would she give women advice? Don’t be a meatball.

    • @xjoemallardx says:

      ​@SanVicyou’re a clown 🤡

  • @jondrake1977 says:

    I want a woman with a good personality.

  • @karuns9500 says:

    Around 7:35 is the real problem. You will never find anyone that’s in the perfect middle of all those traits.

    • @pace1195 says:

      Correct! She wants the roller coaster tingles when men oscillate her from one extreme to the other of each of those traits. Mediocrity is boring; extreme whiplash is tingle inducing.

  • @Jason.Brayshaw says:

    I just want a woman who’s actually interesting.

  • @CarltonYoung says:

    I remember being called “harmless”, I was so young at the time; I wasn’t quite sure how to process that. Is it a compliment? A back handed compliment? Part of me couldn’t help feeling emasculated.

    • @nightfangs2910 says:

      Same thing happened to me and it was from a childhood” friend” at the time, in front of my girlfriend back then, he was a boxer, and he was telling my girlfriend basically he’s a nice guy but don’t think he could protect you if you needed it, it was done and said, to boost him up in her eyes, and knock me down, yes to emasculate me in her eyes and it worked, she slowly started pulling away and she left me

  • @gerardoa9179 says:

    She never talked about the Halo Effect. If you are hot, you will be seen as having a “good personality. If you are ugly , you will have the contrary effect

  • @novairis2 says:

    Greetings to all who are reading this. I feel totally broken right now. My heart is sad because this connection meant everything to me, and my ex departed a few weeks ago. I made every effort to get him back, but it was unsuccessful. I don’t know where to go or what to do next. It may not even be appropriate for me to share this here, but I felt compelled to.

    • @AlexandraLisa-g says:

      When my 12-year relationship ended, I realized how difficult it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn’t simply let him go; instead, I made every effort to win him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who helped me win him back.

    • @novairis2 says:

      Intriguing! What is the best way for me to contact a spiritual counselor, and how did you find one?

    • @AlexandraLisa-g says:

      His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @AlexandraLisa-g says:

      Father Obah Eze has also helped my co workers and close friends and even family members get their ex back.

    • @novairis2 says:

      I’m amazed by Father Obah Eze depth as a spiritual counselor and the successful outcomes he has assisted people in achieving after researching him.

  • @Rakyr says:

    The thing is we guys are the same….you know when looking at someone whether you are attracted to them or not and it is not a choice. All you can do is be as attractive as possible and let things happen while having fun

  • @wtDrake says:

    5:30 was a great point to add, and true in my experience. And vice versa, I’ve been in relationships where it started off and burned away slowly.

  • @sjb-e3s says:

    Rich. That’s what it means. Rich and handsome.

    • @pace1195 says:

      Also having high status just adds to a man’s personality. A great physique doesn’t hurt one’s personality either.

  • @Goliath.Lucifer says:

    Disclaimer: a good personality may be directly proportional to the size of bank accounts and 401K.

  • @SamuelMoreno-o6p says:

    The good personality myth – she describes something specific, but doesn’t know some. For men it’s not about traits.
    She describes something specific, but doesn’t know, for some men. It’s not about traits.

    1. The “good” Personality myth
    2. Personality is felt, not “listed”
    3. The nice guy trap
    Being overly eager
    4. Why “good” Personality is often a placeholder
    5. Compat
    Compatibility vs. Chemistry
    Sense of humor
    6. The confidence authenticity blend ( comfortable in your own skin but not proving yourself

    7. When she says you have a great personality. ( she likes you but not feeling romantic

    8. What she actually means?
    She wants funny, but grounded person, etc

  • @ATMAnubis says:

    The “good personality” always comes down to your level of physical attractiveness no matter what.

  • @timothywilliams2887 says:

    real compatibility takes time to develop.

  • @thomasd9526 says:

    I think when she says that she wants a guy with a good personality, she wants a guy who she feels has a good personality for her. And that feeling depends very much on her mood. Sometimes the good personality is when he is gentle or humorous, sometimes he has to be strict and just has to repair her computer.

  • @theblackharted says:

    I’ve never heard this topic broken down and articulated so well

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