The Harsh Reality Of Dating Expectations
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The main thing I want is a woman that’s not mean
That’s all what women want
Precisely this. So many of them are.
@@WardDorrity tru
Just gotta be mean back. Girls aren’t your mother.
Deeply indoctrinated feminism…some may not even be aware of it
Thb , her content is so very well researched, like for daily life , probably she’s one of the best creator on YouTube ! Every one one her point feels so relatable !
She is, but don’t be fooled. Her husband is a multimillionaire. To be fair, she pretty high quality woman though too.
@@DudeGuy82 They met before he got rich. She said it in an older video. He had only a few hundred subs on his channel. Stop making assumptions.
Unfortunately Courtney your mature, grounded message is drowned out by the cacophony of toxic noise on social media that proclaims the opposite.
She’s 30. One would hope she’s mature by now. Also, stop allowing social media to cloud your judgement. 8 billion people exist; maybe 60% use the Internet (even less on social media, and even less who actually upload content/comment on posts).
@@memememememe-x9b Bingo
We need more women like you you are a real example of what men desire in modern times your realistic and genuine comeing from a man THANK YOU ❤
Drink some water, bro. She just spoke common sense.
Also she’s married.
@@memememememe-x9b common sense that isn’t common
@@dianmatu It is common. You’re just thinking that the majority of humans post on social media. Stop letting social media cloud your judgement, you donk-poop.
Hit the nail on the head with this one!
Too many people who are financially illiterate and socially inept are the ones demanding a luxury lifestyle. To those people, STFU and go get help!
I think it boils down to people don’t even wanna listen to the truth or dating advice and just wanna live in some Disney like utopia. I don’t give any advice with dating nearly as much now cause I know damn well people do not listen!
I even stopped writing my book wanting to help others by telling my story of how I’ve been overcoming ptsd…but after seeing too many that just don’t care and say “F you” to me, I’m doing solely me now!
These women’s beliefs, their assumptions “I can get a rich man” “I’m a 3x baby mama,but I can get a high value man!” “I’m a ten or even 11/5!” and what the woman in the Tik Tok talks about, are the extreme, naive, childish fantasies that drive women. They teach and mentor each other to fail. I see this in my own broader family. The woman in the Tik Tok was not harsh or mean. She told the truth, then that gets labelled “harsh.”
I only care about a woman’s income insofar as she is financially responsible and able to provide for herself. I want a partner/companion, not a human pet that I have to take care of
I agree. I consider it a liability to financially support a partner. It’s dangerous. Also, being with a financially stable woamn proves that she wants you for you, and not for your money. Unfortunately, sometimes women think we’re broke for having standards, even if we make more.
@@memememememe-x9b Cool, the bad ones have eliminated themselves from our pool for us
I would financially support a woman as long as she appreciates it and doesn’t abuse it.
A woman who can’t handle her own finances; basic stuff like living, rent, and who can’t prioritize her need and understand money, and instead, uses excuses to “get her nails and hair done,” will not understand or value a man and his wealth. She lacks the framework, maturity, and brains to understand, and she doesn’t want to understand. She wants a fantasy she can squander his money.
That is her fantasy of a rich man. Not love, but being reckless and without caring for him.
@@use-odysee Still a massive risk, brother.
Courtney, I didn’t hear her saying anything about how much money a woman needs, just that she should be responsible for what she has. This is true. As a man, I dont care if a woman is making bare minimum as a waitress. When it comes to money, I just care that she is responsible for what money she does have. This is all I heard being said.
That content was not what I was expecting 😂😂😂 and that last line “salt and sugar look the same”? That’s a barrrrr 🔥
definitely
Yeah, I busted out laughing on the amount of assertion and bluntness coming out of her. She went from a 0 to a 💯
Unfortunately for me, I had encountered some ladies who wanted to know how much I make and I tried my damnedest not to say what it is, because honestly, it’s not of their business to know.
What I found was they’ll ask your occupation then guess how much you make based on your experience and occupation.
One of your best reactions. As always common-sense advice and I appreciate the attempts to bring men and women back together for realistic expectations and opportunities for real relationships.
Kudos to you Courtney. Pointing out entitlement and expectations, you are spot-on. Thank you!!
Look up the Median income for your age and gender in your state (not the average). This is the level of income that is reasonable to expect because it is truly the range most people will fall into.
People are feeling the struggle from rising prices, inflation destroying the dollar, housing costs, taxes, student loans, car loans, and unplanned life events like losing your parents.
Most married couples working together can make ~$120k combined. It takes a commitment to the relationship and not worrying about what strangers on social media thinks about your status. A man who values you as a person is better than a rich man who sees you as disposable.
oooh, that was a fire line “Salt and sugar look the same”
One of the harshest realities of dating in today’s age is dating someone uneducated, someone not mature for their age, someone who never grows up and plays games like it’s middle school. I’ll disagree on the part where the person said people need to be able to provide for themselves and not rely on their partner. As a man, I am going to admit I don’t know it all and I cannot do it all, I need someone who knows my weaknesses and can be strong in that area if possible. It’s about complimenting each other in the relationship, being one, not individuals who just reside with each other. I agree 100% with Courtney on the money/salary thing, both sexes need to wake up to what people are actually bringing in as far as pay. As long as the person is happy in what they do and are self sufficient in a way, good for them, they’ll make the best partner through life.
I don’t mind paying for dinners, but my biggest red flag are women that appear to need me to constantly pay for everything or buy them stuff, especially if we make about the same .
I’m a big proponent for separate bank accounts, even after marriage.
So right about all these dating coaches out their(scammers) & all their rhetoric about validation nonsense.
When I’ve already stopped talking to her and she keeps popping up and her response to the question “are you interested in me for reasons other than my money” is “why are you being mean to me?”… giiirrl…
“He’s not your ATM…he’s a human being” is such a powerful quote.
Yet won’t be heard by so many modern women 😂
You are wise and I appreciate the softer approach to what was said in the TikTok. I also think that you can be selective and high expectations as long as you are tactful in how you enforce and articulate them. Obviously being a miserable brat gets you nowhere, but being a fun and nice brat works surprisingly well
Yes, I think Courtney put it well. Guys are looking for peace, not chaos.
I was trying to start a relationship with someone, and she mentioned that she believed I would be more mature in a few years. But I wasn’t there yet, which was giving her doubts.
I wish I had said something like that at the time, “If you turn someone down because they aren’t at the finish line yet, you might miss out on someone who is on his way there.”
It’s definitely a shame that so many girls have been taught they need a guy who already has it all figured out, rather than trying to grow WITH someone like in the past.