The Narcissistic Parent Injury
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Narcissists always say this i had a horrible tragic trauma.
It may be true, but it’s still not your responsibility to take care of someone else’s emotions.
Don’t defend don’t explain don’t engage don’t personalize
DITTO 🙌
JADE- Don’t justify argue defend or explain (Blake Anderson)
Wise words
Dr Ramani is doing a great service to us by teaching us how to not go DEEP. Thank you Dr Ramani
@C.S.99would you please explain what you mean by not going deep.
Narcissists guilt trip us to keep us together
As an adult out of frustration I finally asked my mother straight out ” What do you wanted from me?” Her response? “I want you to entertain me.” I was baffled at that time. I thought “Is that my responsibility?” Thanks to Dr. Ramani I now have that answer.
MARY, I admire your courage, strength, compassion, and perseverance to discover YOU! PBWY 🕊
That is so wrong.
Sadly narcissists give us anxiety instead of reality
Anxiety, stress, illnesses of all kinds… Nothing good ever.
@lebasietsi3061
I learned a great many lessons!!!
Grateful for the lessons☀️🙏
Until you say, “NO MORE”!
@lebasietsi3061Hence why it’s critical to establish and enforce healthy boundaries for yourself!
Peace Be With You on your journey and I will SEE YOU AT THE TOP OF SURVIVOR MOUNTAIN 🎉
This one greatly resonated 5 minutes in..
Spot on with everything, what also happens is the relative that doesnt understand why you dont acknowledge the narci ,fathers day , birthday, or just why dont you visit. When you finally reach the moment of no longer feeling guilt of no contact, a relative will ask about visiting the narci, and you realise that your anxiety is no longer present and that you dont feel the need to explain👍🤠👍
My mother is narcissistic and I am a fighter who authentic. The pain my family has put me through. I am the family problem, always have been. Only now I realize how dysfunctional my family is. I am realizing this at 49 now. I have lost my family. Lucky I have a work family who treats me better. Thank god for my work family. Thank you for this video
Yes,ABSOLUTELY the mother’s behavior had a SIGNIFICANT impact on us males!! My mother, was/ is abusive: physically, verbally, and emotionally,so unfortunately my brother & i chose the same type of women!! No more,im doingy ABSOLUTE best to heal from that wound💯🙏🏿🧘🏿♂️💕🙏🏿
As a pansexual man, I chose men who were all like my narcissistic father until my current partner. My partner is mentally ill, yes, but he’s still the healthiest relationship I’ve ever had.
So it affects homosexual relationships too.
Dr Ramani, I found you first, as the Narci expert I could TRUST during my DISCARD from my Vulnerable Narci wife of 35yrs.
As I consumed your teachings to understand what I was experiencing, I realized how much is related to my childhood. Yes, my mother had the Narci behaviors among other behaviors that resulted in her terrible relationship choices.
I won’t explain all the terrible things that happened to me and my sisters on this thread, BUT I want you and other VICTIMS to know that your teachings will help map our/your course towards SURVIVOR. My brothers and sisters, these teachings work if you work it!
As painful as it is, and as terrible as all our options look, a beautiful you will emerge. The world needs your Beautiful Soul, and I wish you Peace and Love on this journey towards recovery and the ascension of SURVIVOR MOUNTAIN!
SEE YOU AT THE TOP 🎉 THE VIEW IS BEAUTIFUL ❤
Thank you DrRamani ❤ Still learning (with your help ) how complex human psychology is, and accepting that some behaviors I may never fully understand.
❤❤❤ Dr. Ramani.
I had a narcissistic mother. She was brutal to me. She took pleasure in hurting me emotionally.
Same here, I’m sorry you experienced this. My mother took pleasure when she was mean to me and that’s the most hurtful thing. When I was a child I would feel so lost at this senseless cruelty that I’d tear up my hair and actually I lost a lot of it as an adult also. My mom is old now and became even more disgusting.
@ia9259 I feel for you. My parents are gone. You’ll see. It’s never too late to heal further when that liberation comes to you. Hang in there.
21:25 I think Patrick Teahan has a video on sons of narc mothers. I find his content so healing.
His videos are very helpful and healing in addition to Dr. Ramani’s.
7 minutes in my body gave out a hige “sigh” and my body relaxed.
In my experience, narcissistic mothers are like the space alien from John Capenter’s The Thing movie. They want to assimilate their surroundings and replicate themselves as quickly as possible. And just like in the movie, paranoia takes over and you wonder in your head “Who hasn’t been assimilated and infected by this creature?” THAT is were isolation kicks in. Not sure who to trust and who will report back to the narc.
Das Video hilft mir so sehr. Danke!
I love you so much! (Agape) what you’re doing here is life changing/saving. I’m certain of it. That said sometimes just ingesting the knowledge can be too overwhelming/triggering/confronting for me. Sometimes like right now. Lbs. I know I’ll come back at some point and watch this whole video. ❤🫶🏾
Grandiose Narc dad / covert narc mom in a codependent relationship. I grew up as a people pleaser but could never please them or any of the narcs I married. With Dr. Raman’s help, I finally understand WHY.
I appreciate you talking about Mother’s day and Father’s day. I really struggle with how to address/handle those days. Thank you for everything @DoctorRamani !
It was both parents but my mother was actually jealous of me and every ‘compliment’ had a backhand. Her rage was so unbearable.