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One thing i noticed when narcissists get called out, they will never give you a yes or no answer. They will use word salad and weasel words making their responses sound vague and indirect in order to throw you off and dodge blame.
When called out my ex would stop talking, walk away or blatantly change the subject. They all know what they’re doing is wrong however they do it regardless. It’s all about them…Not you.
i swear my x never aswerd a question in 40 years
sounds like me for word salad and weasel wording, but its another attempt to explain the why next time on an apology if things get messy n chaotic when the initial answer was idk or shut down,
Or they say, “it sounds like you’re accusing me of something” while they never give a yes or no.
I was called a “Prosecutor”
We live in a fantasy oriented society. Not a REALLY HUMAN society. It’s out of control.
That’s such a big part of the problem — the ENABLERS who want you to care for the Elder NParent and simultaneously expect you to be fine with being treated like dirt
It’s the lack of communication!
Dr Ramani tells it like it is. No BS.
My early 20s I was with a porn addict who would “cheat” on me by sexting people. I wish I had this info then. I thought I was insane.
With that said, I luckily found my dignity and got out of it but the dagger to my self esteem lasted for a long time.
This information is endlessly helpful
This is so true. Excuses. Self righteous.
Betrayal is Betrayal. ✅️
It’s a reflection of who they are, not who you are.
Thank you Dr. Ramani ❤
Even if they refuse to consider it infidelity, it can always be defined as a lack of emotional integrity.
@AngeloftheNew mine claimed polyamory and wanted “2 wives”.
I got out. Best decision ever!
@lorianttila9698 Good for you!! May you be blessed with loving healing individuals in your future, friends, or lovers! Be proud of yourself for getting out. 😘❤️
Word salad, shouting and body shaming to get out of me questioning their shady ways and people they chose around them.
Emotional cheating is on the same level as physical cheating since both are choices. Applies to narcissists or non narcissists. Cheating is cheating. There aren’t different levels per se. Betrayal is betrayal.
One time and that person is toast…out of here.
I am not sabotaging my own well being for their choices.
Always being true to Me. ❤
Thank you for labeling it what it is.
It is cheating, and its grounds for DIVORCE in my world!! Thank you for reminding me how thrilled I am to be away from that POS!
😂❤❤
In a world where everyone “has their own truths”, Dr. Ramanl says it like it is. After 67 years of gaslighting by my family (and extended family) and an unwillingness to call a spade a spade by the majority of people (including my “friends'” who said “Go home and save your family”), I can not express the morale boost I get from listening to Dr. R on any subject. It gives me hope that one day I will be able to expel ALL of my demons.
I agree with you Dr Ramani, sexting is still a form of cheating. Even if they have not done the deed YET – because usually it will go further.
Thank you so much for validating my feelings.
Pornography is demonizing, demoralizing, disgusting, unacceptable, ungodliness.
Thank You Doc. Hope you’re feeling better. Take care. Peace. Love. Respect.
Thank you once again Dr. Ramani. You are a true blessing 🫶🏻
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It’s quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes Jefshroomies , I have a similar experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD, and addiction, and mushrooms have significantly contributed to my recovery and being clean today.
I wish those were more easily accessible where I live.
Microdosing was my next step for my husband. He’s 59 & dealing with lots of mental health challenges, possible CTE & a TBI that put him in a coma for 8 days. Unfortunately, I had to get a TPO since he’s 6’6, over 300 pounds, and showing violent behavior, constantly talking about harming others. He’s aggressive. To anyone reading this, if you’re familiar with BPD, is it common to have an obsession with violence?
Is Jefshroomies on Google?
Jefshroomies is the man
My (non-narc) girlfriend said something hurtful that she didn’t mean from a place of acute fear. The fact that it was both out-of-character and that I don’t have to question her contrition is making it something we can move through.
With others, a smaller offense without any sincere contrition can create more damage to a relationship.
Absolutely, this is such a valid point: self silencing, and for some it’s hard at times not to get triggered. And buttons will get pushed, and we are human beings and part of being a human is having a wide variety of emotions. I find it so unreasonable when people think that you should be perfect all the time and not respond. When you have these narcissists that are just expert at doing these punches, these jabs they put down, and then you’ll have enablers that will gaslight with them (saying it’s OK or that’s not the way to take it or you misperceivedit) so it’s just something to be so aware of a great segment. Sex. Yes, I agree they will use it as a tool for total self-gratification with at times little interest in recognizing other person(s). Everything with narcissism is superficial: money, job status, sex, appearances! Don’t get me wrong. Any of those items can be enjoyed but the way the narcissist uses them. You’re only important if you have this job or this money or this car and if you don’t have what the narcissist think you have, you’re nobody and someone to just be treated with no boundaries and respect.. It’s to make certain people feel bad and other people feel great. It’s so difficult to explain at times and these videos do an awesome job of explaining. Yeah the one thing is they always want you to feel bad about yourself. They’ll nitpick they’ll look for any little thing, but they’ll never dole a compliment. They’ll never give praise because they wanna put you down and make you feel bad so they can control you more! Cheating whether it’s financially emotionally mentally physically is done of course by the narcissist to harm people including people during a relationship with so it’s calculated and planned they get off on it. They get energy from cheating as this video explains! It’s a betrayal”. Thank you.