The Psychology Behind Giving a Narcissist Another Chance
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I watch them return back repeatedly, then few months later, calling, “please help me”. I am done with such women for my sanity and safety.
Forgiving ignores evidence fueled by hope and trauma bonds, while the narcissist’s charm masks an unchanging core.
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Narcissists a second chance is like giving them a platform to repeat their bad behavior and later be used against others used as leverage.
Lying is like breathing and drinking water for a narcissist
The lying just doesn’t stop and absolutely no remorse for the betrayals.
Narcissists use fishing tactics as fantasies to gain our attention to meet their desire
Never ever give a narcissist another chance!!! RUN FOR YOUR LIFE 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
We all gave that chance..
Narcissists are only their during good times and leave us during bad times
I swear, Creator used you to help me with something that happened with my Narc yesterday. I needed to listen to this message. Thank you, Doctor Ramani.
I truly appreciate you Dr. Ramani. May you and yours have a truly beautiful and blessed Christmas 🙏🫂❤️💯
They will try to give you false hope of getting back to the relationship using your trauma bond and then once you get involved they dump you again. It feels like they enjoy torturing you and play on your nerves and emotions just like playing piano and then they leave you in more misery than when they left you for the first time…
Your work has helped immensely! How does no self realization fit into managing a narcissist? In direct experience, I found that if I am not in any identity – the narcissist is confused because I deny their target even exists. I deny any of their narratives could ever have been true. It has helped my recovery and perceptions of suffering and grief, to realize anatta by knowing myself more deeply and through letting their delusions fade along with my family role and separate self identity. I no longer hold any identity at all – and the narcissist now ghosts me again – better than I had ever hoped for. It’s a peaceful state of accepting everything, including myself, exactly as it is. Thank you, Dr. Ramani. Integrating this is challenging.
I’ve been with Schizophrenia, PTSD for too childhood trauma. I walked away for two years and they act like i wasn’t gone at all. They fully tripped me and didn’t show a damn bit of concern for my well-being while expecting me to listen to their bullshit. I would’ve stayed away but my therapist at the time congested l ghosted me, my caseworker put herself in my situation adding to the file. So the fact that I’m suicidal didn’t matter as much as everyone else’s feeling. I tell my therapists about what happened to me growing up they turn back on me and how I played a part but the moment i ain’t to remove myself I’m guided to ” forgive” them because family is important.
Some people don’t deserve their degrees and test should be given to all psychologist because they’re way more dangerous than strangers at times.
I have been ‘diagnosed’ / given a psychological ‘label’ by ‘therapists’ and a ‘social worker’ based on HEARSAY from family members. These allowed the family to deny their roles in the family dynamic and also kept me in an abusive relationship because I did not get the support I needed to leave.
These people should be unlicensed, IMO, because their unethical claims increased trauma and damage to many lives.
Our goodness and compassion makes us give some people second chances…
My loved one gave third chance to her narcissist, because he is sad and doesn’t want anyone else.
I’ve only regretted letting these people back in my life 😞
I just got a message whishing me merry Xmas after no contact of over 4 months. I kept my response light.
MERRY CHRISTMAS WE LOVE YOU
I THANK GOD for Dr. Ramani ! If it wasn’t for Her, and her Lazer Focused Articulate COMPASSIONATE CLARITY , with her Gift for breaking it down to the rest of us, I might very well have ended up in a psych ward !
I always want to give the benefit of doubt, until there’s no doubt. Peace everyone.
They have a whole lot to lose when you leave them. You stop losing when you leave them. They use all types of tactics. Don’t fall for it.