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Congratulations on 800K subscribers! Closing in on the gold play button!
Thank you so so much! 🥺
@@CourtneyRyanYour content has been amazing and you are very respectful and reasonable. Thank you Courtney! This is a geniune compliment because I dont simp and I hate simps.
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You’re doing amazing Amiga!
And very important work.
Proud of you.
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Congrats 800k🎉
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So many people thinking they’re “high value” humans these days 😄. Most of us are basic af, time to grow up.
Real
Very true.
Even “polished” people need to constant evolved and or mantain physical fitness, knowledge and spirituality.
At one point I thought I was a high value person, after quitting sugar, starting to hit the gym and starting to meditate. But I’m still so far away from being high value. My social life is laughable, I’m not earning a lot of money, and I have a lot of space for improvement in spending my free time wisely. I also have to start reading and actually start becoming more intelligent and not less intelligent.
I’m pretty sure you have a job and you work for somebody right ? everyone in this world has value
It’s true…women included. Most women bring little to a relationship and these days seem to base their value on their appearance and what they bring, “physically”, to the relationship. Add to that that so many women these days were ultra-coddled by their parents well meaning parents who raised them to have “princess syndrome”, to the point that their perspective is so outside of reality, they can have nothing less than total and utter disappointment. The types of guys these women have been taught to expect, they say is the top 5%, but I think realistically, it’s under 1% in today’s society.
When I was younger, I was deterred from dating since it seemed like women just wanted the kinds of guys who don’t respect them.
That’s because the women go for the bad boys when they are in their 20’s.
They still do
Yeah but for a lot of younger guys “respect” is an excuse to be shy and cowardly.
A lot of women don’t understand this about men, or me at least. Unless I’m at a party type scenario (which I haven’t been in years), any woman I’m approaching I’m already reasonably confident that I would date her. Of course she may not be interested, or she may take herself out of the running by revealing some difficult facts about herself that I was unaware of, but that’s basically it.
Courtney I feel like a lot of people are talking about high value person, but what you talk about is a high quality person. A person of integrity is leagues above someone who has a lot
Congrats on 800k! You are definitely gonna hit 100 soon.🎉😀
You mean a million. 🙂
High quality or high integrity are less subjective. Some people are attractive or rich but are landmines or fool’s gold.
3:50 – Long term compatibility!! BINGO!!! Back when I was single, I had VERY specific requirements because I was looking for a “life partner” not a “toy”. I was looking for someone who shared the same likes and values as me. Someone I WANTED to spend time with beyond bedroom time. For instance, I was outdoorsy, active and fit and wanted someone of like mind. I wasn’t terribly fussy about how attractive she was, we all age and beauty fades in the long game, which is what I was playing, but she had to be outdoorsy, active and fit. I could go on with the list of requirements, but I think “compatibility” more or less covers it in a general sense.
With all the labels like high/low value, Alpha, Sigma, Ensel, and Chad, it must be really tough to define what it takes to simply be a man who wants to love and be loved……
Because you make it though, terms, well I am 52 now and started life as a weak beta, then i lifted weights to gain mass to defend myself against bullies, in the mean time i became alpha, and now at my age i am sigma, its hilarious to look at it this way because it makes no sense at all, why because all those terms are related to life experience, and your way of thinking. In other word those terms mean absolutely nothing
Anyone who unironically uses those terms is just showing their emotional immaturity.
I wish more people asked themselves that question: Are you being the type of person that the person you want to be with would want to be with?
There’s an entire industry around this for men who seek this. Less so for women.
This is true! I saw a co worker treat other people poorly and she was interested in me and I went NOPE because of that.
Well put vetting. I would see what type of guys this girl dates/entertains/is attracted to, before approaching. Since as you mentioned in the past its very easy to lie with your words it’s hard to lie with your actions. If a girl consistently only dates guys that are the opposite of me, It makes me hesitate to think that pursuing a relationship with that girl would work out
If I have learned anything from watching videos about dating it’s this:
1.) If a woman says “High Value Man”, she means “High Net Worth Man”.
2.) If a man says “High Value Woman”, he means “A woman with morals and values who doesn’t bring drama.”
Calling it like I see it.
This!
By many accounts I fall into that “high value man” category and I can say that I just got out of relationship that drained me mentally. I was always pushing to do better and she was more content in our position. I am taking steps to improve my vetting process and meet a quality woman who can inspire me and support me throughout my journey.
It goes beyond what both you and the influencer stated. Men, don’t take months or years watching from afar. They make a quick educated decision and move on, they don’t waste months waiting to see if a woman fits their needs. A simplified version is a man looks for a woman who fits his lifestyle. Whether he wants a working woman or a homemaker is irrelevant, if that woman doesn’t fit his criteria he will move on and move on quickly. Boys & Girls stick around thinking they can change their partner. It took me about 35 years to figure that one out.
If I never again hear the term ‘high value’ and ‘what do you bring to the table?’ it will be too soon.
By the way, a man doesn’t sit and evaluate a woman for a year. If he does, then he is more likely a player who has a string of options he is playing along. Men who are honest about their intentions decide quite quickly. Probably far more quickly than women. Think about it. We all deal with people and frequently new people in our lives at work, in business and social life. We don’t spend years figuring people out. We all evaluate people – some people say we form initial opinions in 30 seconds. Sure, we all make mistakes, but we don’t spend ears figuring out people we trust and like.
What’s the definition of a “High Value” man? I’ve been asking this for years. Most seem to associate that with a rich man.
“The person who you choose to be with is a direct reflection of your emotional development”. Well said Courtney. That is something I believe. Thank you very much.🙂