The Reality Of Pursuing Women (Men Need To Know This)
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A secure dude will definitely move on if she’s not showing interest. I give it maybe four days at most and 👋. Definitely slow and steady. It has to be that way. Well said, Courtney!
She knows within 2 minutes if she’d date him or not. If she’s not interested. Move on. Be her first choice and not a back up plan. There are many others out there will appreciate what you have to offer
Sure, that’s why society has the worst marriage and birth rates in recorded history… because female appreciation.
This. If she is playing games to make you chase and such, replace her with a PS5 because those games are much better.
And you get to keep the games you pay for.
I was the one being pursued. She was a cashier at a store and would always check me out, even going so far as to swap registers if I was on a different lane.
I misinterpreted it as her having to deal with a few too many Karens/Kevins, I make it a point to be nice to cashiers men or women, and that I was a much needed break from those.
It took her asking me out before I realized that she was attracted to me😂
We ended up not being compatible🤣
@3:30, girls, please see this portion of the video a couple times. And please, if you’re not into a guy, just tell him “no” when he ask you out. Don’t say “yes” to going out to then be playing with him just to cancel before the date.
And if she’s so nervous for her safety, why is she going on a date with him in the first place?
@ no idea. But it has happened to me several times now that I ask a woman out, she seems excited when I ask her out, then I either hear nothing back or she starts to ignore me (backs off a lot) and eventually get a cancellation notice. Not going to lie, it can be a demoralizing 😂 but what can you do. I can’t understand why not just say “No”. I won’t get upset or die cause someone rejects me. There’s 8 billion people in this planet. Most would reject me and I’d reject most too.
I generally agree with the person in the video. However, I think there has to be even more reciprocity than that. She is talking about showing some interest in a guy after he is already pursuing the girl. I wouldn’t even pursue a girl for real UNLESS I thought she was half-interested, meaning I need to see something from her before I come off the bench and say “Ok, I’ll give this one a shot” and start working towards asking her out.
For me, that will come in the form of her trying to make an effort to get to know me, ask how I’m doing from time to time, and small cute gestures. I’m not going to like a girl unless I think she is actually girlfriend or even wife material.
Honestly I think a lot of women just want the initial attention from guys as validation and that’s all, then they complain a about how guys need to step up.
💯we are not mind readers . Period
Definitely guilty of taking too long to realize someone is not interested. It hit me one day when I felt an overwhelming embarrassment. Realized the person was really just breadcrumbing me and I kept responding to it. I’m not gonna call this person a narcissist or anything like that, but it’s definitely my fault for not picking up on it earlier. Self reflection I think is key and self-respect to avoid that embarrassing feeling. I learned from the experience and I always check in to make sure I’m not doing it again.
It is called experience. Women think different, it takes awhile to get used to it. No need to feel embarrassedd unless it helps cement the learning.
A woman who engages in such games and tactics is NOT interested in the guy in a romantic way, but only in a what-can-I-get-from-him way. The guy should move on immediately.
Last weekend, I sent flowers and a note to a girl that I like, she answered me until the next day, saying that she was busy, and the only thing she said was “Thanks for the flowers”, she didn’t reply anything else or if she liked the flowers or the note…
You’re doing too much bro
put your efforts elsewhere my friend, she’s not the one.
Flowers is the wrong venue. You should be conveying why she is special/rare enough to have caught your interest.
I do not chase….I am a high value man…I let the woman make the first move.
😂😂 *If I had a Dollar for every time a woman told me I was unattractive*
they’d eventually find me attractive.
Good points but pursuing works for both genders. There was a study done involving speed dating that concluded that women have better success rate if they pursued rather than waited. If you want something, go for it. Expecting others to just fall for you without doing anything yield zero results (I was guilty of this myself in the past). Nothing is gonna fall on your lap like magic. This also applies with jobs and friendships. To quote the start of the song ‘Lose Yourself’ by Eminem: “Look, if you had one shot or one opportunity to seize everything you ever wanted in one moment, would you capture it or just let it slip?” Of course don’t chase either. No one likes a chaser. I know I don’t – had a couple women chase me and it creeped me out.
Finding the Winner Effect Girlfriend Game book should be your top priority, even if it’s the last thing you do in life
Great book. Peope are really missing out if dont buy it.
I finally gave up after 2.5 years of pursuing.
Does SHE deserve the effort to be led? Because, put it this way, if you give a dog a treat… but if she has to put in a little work, make an effort for it? It will help reveal her interest in you.
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Isn’t doing everything for women and being the only one making an effort just always the case in dating?
Every name is hard when you are Courtney Ryan. But now that you, yourself, have a difficult last name to pronounce, expectations are to get these names right, Miss!